5 Things That Make Sexy Moments Unsexy
Good sex makes for great stories. Bad sex makes for even better ones... unless you're the person telling… [more]
#Kobesystem: Why We Shouldn’t Feel Sorry for Kobe’s Divorce Case
If you've been under a rock, or don't care about celebrity drama, then you wouldn't know about the ongoing… [more]
We Made Love at Midnight: My 10 Favorite Artists from BET’s Midnight Love
For the youngsters among us, in a time long long ago MTV and BET use to play music videos. They had whole… [more]
The SBM Video Series – Let Sleeping Men Lie
I don't know how many of you know this but I love sleep. It's awesome. What's not to like? I can escape… [more]
Stuff Black Bloggers Say
Let’s be honest, we can’t get away from it. We’ll probably be dealing with the fad until at least… [more]
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5 Things That Make Sexy Moments Unsexy
Good sex makes for great stories. Bad sex makes for even better ones... unless you're the person telling them.There's always satisfaction and humor found in the unfortunate occurrences that happen to others. In this case, they also make you think of your own erotic escapades. Even when you hear about people upside inside out living mediocre loinal la vida loca, you probably toss a penny in the mall pond and wish for better days, hours, or seconds. I don't blame … [Read More...]
#Kobesystem: Why We Shouldn’t Feel Sorry for Kobe’s Divorce Case
If you've been under a rock, or don't care about celebrity drama, then you wouldn't know about the ongoing Kobe Bryant divorce case. Citing "irreconcilable differences" (#REALLYMEANS someone was cheating), Vanessa Bryant filed for divorce from Kobe. Kobe Bryant's wife got $75 million of the couple's assets, which are estimated at $150 million, in their divorce settlement. Vanessa Bryant also walked away with all three of the couple's mansions in the Newport Beach, … [Read More...]
We Made Love at Midnight: My 10 Favorite Artists from BET’s Midnight Love
For the youngsters among us, in a time long long ago MTV and BET use to play music videos. They had whole shows dedicated to playing videos free of interruption and annoying hosts. This might not seem like much to you ungrateful bastards because you've been spoiled by the likes of the YouTube. One show in particular on BET will always have a fond place in my heart, Midnight Love. As the title suggests, Midnight Love came on at Midnight and focused on slow music and … [Read More...]
The SBM Video Series – Let Sleeping Men Lie
I don't know how many of you know this but I love sleep. It's awesome. What's not to like? I can escape to a dreamlike world loosely based on the concept behind the movie Inception. Most days I only have 8 hours to enjoy this nocturnal state of euphoria and I don't take kindly to strangers, friends, family or foes coming between us. Real talk, I cannot date a woman that won't let me get 6 - 8 hours of quality sleep. During the week my bedtime is 10pm. This is … [Read More...]
Stuff Black Bloggers Say
Let’s be honest, we can’t get away from it. We’ll probably be dealing with the fad until at least the end of the month. If you guys follow me on Twitter, @DrJayJack, you know that I despise trending topics. I only get involved with a trending topic every once in a while, just to show that I could probably do them better than most people. When it comes to a fad like the, “Stuff ______ Say,” I only chose to get involved because I’m starting to see a few … [Read More...]
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Stuff Black Bloggers Say
Let’s be honest, we can’t get away from it. We’ll probably be dealing with the fad until at least the end of the … [Read More...]
Red Tails: Expecting the Worst or Supporting the Best?
**Commercial for Red Tails airs for the 34th time** httpv://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nTtlW9gxQoc Her: Oh! Red Tails comes … [Read More...]
Love & Hip Hop: Why You Should Never Mix Business with Pleasure
Never mix business with pleasure. It’s a mantra that we have heard time and time again. It’s also a mantra that has been … [Read More...]
The Truth About New York: How Big City Dating “Corrupts” Single Black Men
I was chatting with a friend of mine -- we'll call her Tameka -- about her dating adventures in New York City. She's a good … [Read More...]
The Key to a Happy and Successful Relationship: Let Your Man Cheat
At least that’s the assertion put forth by American sociologist Dr. Eric Anderson author of The Monogamy Gap: Men, Love, … [Read More...]
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Learning the True Meaning of the Serenity Prayer
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,Courage to change the things I can,And wisdom to know … [Read More...]
You Don’t Need Jordans, Bro
I wrote a post called I Can’t Date Women With Name Brand Purses but I didn’t expect it to receive the attention it did. I … [Read More...]
When America Turns Its Back on Black Boys
I grew up at a time in America when parents never sparred the rod, in fact, the entire neighborhood never sparred the rod. … [Read More...]
Why Women Should Stop Caring What Men Think
Women value men's opinions. I know. That's a no sh*t Sherlock. It's also the reason that your favorite relationship blogs … [Read More...]
Is the N-Word a Treasure to Behold?
Let me tell you something, you cannot bury words. Anybody who tries to bury a word is dumb as hell. So yes, in addition … [Read More...]
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