Comments on: The Essence: Female Swagger … How to attract a Man http://www.singleblackmale.org/2007/12/18/the-essence-female-swagger-how-to-attract-a-man/ The Source For Black Male Perspective Fri, 10 Feb 2012 05:55:41 +0000 hourly 1 By: Maybell Stourshttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2007/12/18/the-essence-female-swagger-how-to-attract-a-man/#comment-317921 Maybell Stours Fri, 08 Jul 2011 10:51:04 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/2007/12/18/the-essence-female-swagger-how-to-attract-a-man/#comment-317921 Im looking for posible partners for my gambling portal. Would you be interested in a colaboration? Reading you post made me to make this question. Im looking for posible partners for my gambling portal. Would you be interested in a colaboration? Reading you post made me to make this question.

]]> By: MizQueenhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2007/12/18/the-essence-female-swagger-how-to-attract-a-man/#comment-108012 MizQueen Sun, 26 Sep 2010 21:27:57 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/2007/12/18/the-essence-female-swagger-how-to-attract-a-man/#comment-108012 I enjoyed the comments, interesting about the showing interest. Sometimes they pursue until you show interest and then the relationship grows. But then there are those "impatient little boys" who want you to get infatuated after just 2 weeks. I keep my ways "swag", but I never date someone with only friend potential, and impatience-- definitely wouldnt make it past friend potential I enjoyed the comments, interesting about the showing interest. Sometimes they pursue until you show interest and then the relationship grows. But then there are those "impatient little boys" who want you to get infatuated after just 2 weeks. I keep my ways "swag", but I never date someone with only friend potential, and impatience– definitely wouldnt make it past friend potential

]]> By: El yahttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2007/12/18/the-essence-female-swagger-how-to-attract-a-man/#comment-34440 El ya Fri, 05 Jun 2009 21:21:38 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/2007/12/18/the-essence-female-swagger-how-to-attract-a-man/#comment-34440 I agree with The Come Back Girl. Seems that the more arrogant one is, the more likely they actually have an inferiority complex deep down under all that. In several people I have come across, the fine line that seems to stand between true essence and arrogance lies in humility - being self assured enough in oneself that there is no need to be overly arrogant about it. To me it appears the more a man or woman feels the need to show you how good they are, the less likely their substance matches up to the act. I agree with The Come Back Girl. Seems that the more arrogant one is, the more likely they actually have an inferiority complex deep down under all that.

In several people I have come across, the fine line that seems to stand between true essence and arrogance lies in humility – being self assured enough in oneself that there is no need to be overly arrogant about it.

To me it appears the more a man or woman feels the need to show you how good they are, the less likely their substance matches up to the act.

]]> By: How to Get Six Packhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2007/12/18/the-essence-female-swagger-how-to-attract-a-man/#comment-30328 How to Get Six Pack Wed, 15 Apr 2009 12:01:10 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/2007/12/18/the-essence-female-swagger-how-to-attract-a-man/#comment-30328 My fellow on Orkut shared this link with me and I'm not dissapointed that I came to your blog. My fellow on Orkut shared this link with me and I'm not dissapointed that I came to your blog.

]]> By: wilsonhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2007/12/18/the-essence-female-swagger-how-to-attract-a-man/#comment-27977 wilson Mon, 16 Mar 2009 06:06:23 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/2007/12/18/the-essence-female-swagger-how-to-attract-a-man/#comment-27977 Do you have any information on attracting money? I'm interested on that subject. Do you have any information on attracting money? I'm interested on that subject.

]]> By: Torreyhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2007/12/18/the-essence-female-swagger-how-to-attract-a-man/#comment-24374 Torrey Sun, 18 Jan 2009 18:48:41 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/2007/12/18/the-essence-female-swagger-how-to-attract-a-man/#comment-24374 SO SO true and well stated. True swagger is not arrogance at all. Arrogance is anti-swagg and plain ugly. Great article! Thanks. SO SO true and well stated. True swagger is not arrogance at all. Arrogance is anti-swagg and plain ugly. Great article! Thanks.

]]> By: hizcand3http://www.singleblackmale.org/2007/12/18/the-essence-female-swagger-how-to-attract-a-man/#comment-22513 hizcand3 Fri, 05 Dec 2008 16:59:00 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/2007/12/18/the-essence-female-swagger-how-to-attract-a-man/#comment-22513 Love the article and comments but one tends to forget most of us "women" are simply tired of being approached by the typical "man". We want a man that will give us a reason to show intrest in him. As a woman with Swagg, I know I attract men on many levels. The question is how does one continue to hold his interest once attention is given? Sex? Too much, too little attention! One in the same. As a New Yorker, everyone pocess some sort of swagg (even our children) but I'd rather know the way to my Nubian King's heart and soul! Love the article and comments but one tends to forget most of us "women" are simply tired of being approached by the typical "man". We want a man that will give us a reason to show intrest in him. As a woman with Swagg, I know I attract men on many levels. The question is how does one continue to hold his interest once attention is given? Sex? Too much, too little attention! One in the same. As a New Yorker, everyone pocess some sort of swagg (even our children) but I'd rather know the way to my Nubian King's heart and soul!

]]> By: Tomhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2007/12/18/the-essence-female-swagger-how-to-attract-a-man/#comment-6473 Tom Mon, 21 Jul 2008 19:55:43 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/2007/12/18/the-essence-female-swagger-how-to-attract-a-man/#comment-6473 Wow.. What a great topic!.. i'm definately coming back for more Wow.. What a great topic!.. i'm definately coming back for more

]]> By: The Come Back Girlhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2007/12/18/the-essence-female-swagger-how-to-attract-a-man/#comment-77 The Come Back Girl Wed, 19 Dec 2007 12:35:25 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/2007/12/18/the-essence-female-swagger-how-to-attract-a-man/#comment-77 Good Comment Mikki @ the essence, I don't know if I have THE "essence". But I on the other hand, don't think I'm arrogant either. I think that behind arrogance is an insecurity that all women have on some level and the more insecure, the more arrogant-the more hurt, the more wounded. my 2 cents Good Comment Mikki

@ the essence,

I don't know if I have THE "essence". But I on the other hand, don't think I'm arrogant either. I think that behind arrogance is an insecurity that all women have on some level and the more insecure, the more arrogant-the more hurt, the more wounded.

my 2 cents

]]> By: MIKKIhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2007/12/18/the-essence-female-swagger-how-to-attract-a-man/#comment-76 MIKKI Tue, 18 Dec 2007 18:45:49 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/2007/12/18/the-essence-female-swagger-how-to-attract-a-man/#comment-76 I think there is a fine line between showing an interest and being aggressive, Men like a chase as much as they attempt to push that fact under a rug it will always be the case.Men do like aggressiveness but the question is HOW aggressive. I agree with Lurker about a woman being a challenge, but as the man chases pursues and conquers (depending on how long it takes) he is less likely to leave a woman he has invested so much time and hard work for. I think there is a fine line between showing an interest and being aggressive, Men like a chase as much as they attempt to push that fact under a rug it will always be the case.Men do like aggressiveness but the question is HOW aggressive. I agree with Lurker about a woman being a challenge, but as the man chases pursues and conquers (depending on how long it takes) he is less likely to leave a woman he has invested so much time and hard work for.

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