I’ve always had a few females friends. I used to think they were good resources for back when I was socially awkward and lacked the ability to talk to women (sadly … this wasn’t that long ago). I figured “girls know what other girls like. They will lead me out of this awkward phase”. Man … I was kidding my self.
Some women nowadays are willing to admit that they don’t know what they want. Others, however, hold onto the belief that they know exactly what they want from men, life, and their career … but its interesting how so many of their choices seem to follow some different logic that they just … can’t explain. When it comes to men, this often becomes glaringly true.
– How often does a female tell you they want a guy who will provide and take care of her … yet every guy who does is labeled as soft and its the jobless “loser” thats beating it up on the nightly?
– How often does a girl tell you she needs a committed boyfriend who will rub her feet at night .. yet the guy she is currently “seeing” is never seen with her during the day, has never met her friends or family, and has managed to keep his place of residence a secret for 6 months?
– How many girls out there claim they want to be held at night and whispered sweet words to … yet her current “partner” pulls her hair, goes at her with the furuosity of a wild animal, and then promptly falls alseep (or leaves) after he “gets his”?
If there is one thing I have truly learned in my relatively short time on this earth is one thing … guys who get girls know girls … period.
They know what they really want, what they really want to hear, and what kind of personality they are actually attracted to … thats why they get as many girls as they do. No one understands the female psyche better than the “player”. He is skilled at translating the words a girl tells him … able to peel back the layers of BS and decipher the true meaning in her words.
There is one thing that easily proves this. Almost any girl will attest to one simple fact … any guy who gives her everything she “wants” is not attractive. This guy is soft, a punk, to eager to please, or a million other things. The one thing he is not … is her man! (sidenote: I did watch “I Love New York 2″ and she did pick the true ‘bitch’ of the bunch … but that chick is nuts … and she really was in love with the one guy who wouldn’t give her an inch).
I will say this … something like that could be argued for men … but I feel like its not that hard to figure out what we want. I mean … there is like 2 things I can think of at the most (prize to the person who guesses right)! What we want is obvious … how to keep us from getting bored or tired … well … that is the million dollar question.
So I know some female is going to tell me how she is the exception, about how she is different … and please … do tell. But I know there is plenty of guys who agrees with me!