Comments on: One Thing Women Don’t Know … Women

By: tone

tone — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 19:57:58 +0000

i agree all woman today do not know what they want in life. even if they had road map to tall them want they what. i trust me i had woman like that bitch is crazy. give them dick for to long she cut that shit down to one time a week because her pussy hurt. need time to get better for another beating. woman are very happy

By: SBM

SBM — Sun, 13 Jan 2008 14:10:49 +0000

As has happened before, the comments here is inspiring my next post. Oddly enough, figuring out what women want has never seemed that difficult to me. And as I hear guys complain that they don't know what it is … I almost want to laugh … as its so obvious.

And thank you Mr. Slish … a guy … for being one of the first to allude to the things women want.

By: Mikki

Mikki — Sun, 13 Jan 2008 13:46:29 +0000

mizrepresent: Very nicely put *Smiles*

mr slish: you are dead on.

By: mizrepresent

mizrepresent — Sun, 13 Jan 2008 11:49:18 +0000

I have to agree with Slish on this…we don't want something so easy, that it seems not worth having…we don't want a pushover, we want a man to be a man, to lead, to be strong, and loving, a quiet combo…as a older women i have no qualms with expressing my wants and needs…i won't settle, so if that means some time alone…fine. Forty can be be fine as wine, all the time, what we may lose in gravity we've gained in wisdom.

By: Mr Slish

Mr Slish — Sat, 12 Jan 2008 22:22:28 +0000

You can a give a woman the best of both worlds..Its not the bad boy a woman is attracted to its confidence. Nice guys lack that they always second guess themselves. Going on a first date and asking a young lady " Well..What do you feel like doing" is a definite deal breaker. Woman want to be lead that's the reason why so many of them are attrected to assholes..What nice guys need to learn is to say what they do and do what they say…Actions always speak louder than words any day of the week…

By: mikki

mikki — Sat, 12 Jan 2008 13:24:53 +0000

Yep I agree with the comment that talked about a woman being lonely, even at 25 I still worry about that. I hear a lot of people say wait til your older you will understand, and honestly I have heard it so much i really can't wait til the day, but one thing I wonder about getting older is actually settling for something that ain't good, i mean knowing what you want is one thing but getting it at 40 is another lol with stuff starting to sag and hang is another lol.

By: The Come Back Girl

The Come Back Girl — Fri, 11 Jan 2008 12:26:17 +0000

I think this would be a great roundtable discussion video tapped for youtube or something. I agree with Minnie what we want and what we say we want-totally different. I think women like to be just as challenged as the Man. I want my relationships just as interesting and hate being bored too (I mean I am the poster girl for A.D.D.)..

But intereseting and exciting should not translate into mistreatment. But people will only treat you how you've directed them to treat you. its a balance. And it should also be a journey in self-discovery. I've learned so much about myself in this last relationship-I feel like I could write a damn book. But who would buy it?

By: SBM

SBM — Thu, 10 Jan 2008 19:35:37 +0000

Tiffany: Thanks. I will admit, I do find women exhibit the "Fine Wine" effect … they get better with age. Most of my friends are in the same age range and since I almost exclusively date older women … I really do agree with your comment.

I'm surprised I got women to feel me on this. I thought it would be the true hail of comebacks.

By: Tiffany In Houston

Tiffany In Houston — Thu, 10 Jan 2008 18:24:04 +0000

Women who don't know women are women who don't know themselves. I was like them too. Experience and maturity tend to sharpen your instincts and you learn to trust yourself.

The beauty of being almost 35 is that you come into your own and are more comfortable in your own skin.

Nice blog, I'll be back.

By: Minnie

Minnie — Thu, 10 Jan 2008 18:23:57 +0000

Sadly, I have to agree with you SBM and I'm a woman. I've definitely noticed that as me and my friends have gotten older what we say we want and what we actually go for has come to be true in many cases, but i still have many a friend who "wants a good man" and then settles for the obvious loser. I think some girls are really scared to be alone so they are quick to settle in these bad situations. I rarely hear men worry about being alone and don't usually see my guy friends settle.