[youtube:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IaNf71zffZY] I know I’m gonna catch hell for this one … but when I first heard this … I couldn’t help but identify with him. And to this day, Chamillionaire remains one of my favorite rappers. Just ignore the more ignorant portions (paint dripping of the door, trunk pops and doing shows, etc). The core [...]
“Too Freaky for Me”: SBM Answers
April 29, 2008 By 59 Comments
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Here is another reader submission. What if your boyfriend has a high sex drive (he wants to do it everyday)? You thought you had a healthy sex drive ( I prefer about 3 times a week), but you can’t keep up and it’s causing problems between you and your man. What should a woman do? [...]
“I’m gonna buy you a drink” … right
April 28, 2008 By 60 Comments
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It took me over 20 years before I could get myself to buy a random girl a drink in the club … and its rarely happened since then. The story of buying my first drink, the manifesto I lived my college years by, and the reasons why a drink should be earned.
Black from “Flavor of Love 3″ … Too Fine
April 25, 2008 By 33 Comments
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She really wants us to believe that someone that looks like her is actually physically interested in Flavor Flav … who looks a little like a gremlin. I know this isn’t surprising and half the women on the show just want exposure … but this one is ludicrous. She is way too fine … Hoops [...]
The Female Player: Differentiating the playette from a Ho
April 21, 2008 By 64 Comments
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A lot of women like to say “I’m a player” or “I’m treating these guys just like they treat us”. They come to this conclusion because they sleep with a bunch of guys and feel like they don’t get emotionally attached and are just using these people for d*ck. They claim they “control their sexuality” [...]
SBM Answers Your Questions: “She says he’s just a friend”
April 18, 2008 By 33 Comments
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This is a reader submission who was looking for a male point of view on something she was dealing with. There was a little description of the situation and some questions … I included my responses right after. If there is something you want me to write on, check the Need Advice page Lets say [...]
Simp: A Definition
April 16, 2008 By 47 Comments
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“You took her on 5 dates, didn’t even get a kiss, and now u want to buy here a diamond bracelet … Your a simp” I have been using this term in posts for months … let me explain it just a lil. Captain Save-a-ho (Captain for short), buster, punks, soft ass m*therf*cker … all [...]
The Fallacy of “The One”: Love is Everywhere
April 14, 2008 By 29 Comments
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Movies, fairytales, romance novels, popular culture, and probably a couple of your friends. These sources have convinced many people that they should spend their life searching for that “one special person”. We have been told all to often that there is one perfect soul mate for us out there and that if we just keep [...]
Rantings of an Single Black Male
April 9, 2008 By 31 Comments
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