Male Birth Control: Sign me up!

After 20 years of research … we are finally approaching a effective male contraceptive (condom doesn’t count). Personally … I am all for it.  I welcome it with open arms and damned if I wouldn’t sign up for the trial if I could. A little background: After reading about it here and here, I have [...]

Rantings of an SBM

Its Friday again … so time to release so stress at the end of the week. I haven’t admitted it … but I love white women.  My last girlfriend was caucasian and while I do date black women, they have continued to depress me and convince me why I will marry a white woman.  Last [...]

Angry Black Woman or Tired Black Man? [Video]

[youtube:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1HVcFyF-mco] Very Smart Brotha’s touched on interracial dating recently, and damned if they didn’t spell it out in very simple terms why many of us have dated outside the race. Watching this clip brought me back to college really quick.  I went to a PWI (predominantly white institute) … so interracial dating and “hooking up” [...]

Women in different area codes

I am a firm believer that where you grow up plays a significant role in terms of your personality, expectations in life, dialect, accent, and even what you want from a man or women. Some might argue … but trust me … its undeniable Going to a big state school brought in people from all [...]

Mr. Misogyny

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Misogyny is defined as: Hatred of, or hostility toward, women. I am a reformed misogynist. I hated women at one point in my life (Black Women to be exact). I see the same thing happening (here in my very own comments section too), so I figured I would share my story. I used to be [...]

Rantings of an SBM

Well family … its been a crazy week in the comments section for those of you who follow it … its also been a crazy week at work. So … to end the week … I need to rant and vent. For anyone who missed it … comments section took a turn for the worst [...]

Reasons to take of your ring

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So with the last post, several people argued that there is never a real reason for you to take off your wedding ring. What! Never take off your wedding ring? Thats craziness. So as a young unmarried bachelor, I have looked into my future and come up with SBM’s list of: When you can take [...]

Black Bike Week Madness: SBM Answers

Another reader submitted email: An acquaintance of mine has a dillema, and I wanted to know what you & the readers thought of this: Her husband, went to Black Bike Week in South Carolina. Fast forward a few weeks later, and she gets a forwarded email with a link to a picture website. This website [...]

We want prenup!!!

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You don’t plan to crash your car … but you get insurance … right?! You don’t plan to fall on your motorcycle … but you wear a helmet (at least I do) … right? So why not get a prenup? *Disclaimer*: Just for all you overly sensitive individuals reading (you know who you are) … [...]

“Feed Me, F*ck Me, Shut the F*ck up”

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I recently wrote about the two things that women (well … one woman) want, so I only felt it fitting to talk about the 3 things that a guy needs to truly keep him happy. This is according to the great comedian Chris Rock, but I just so happen to agree. So lets examine. Feed [...]