Comments on: Angry Black Woman or Tired Black Man? [Video]

By: army mos

army mos — Sun, 08 May 2011 17:07:18 +0000

Good read , I'm going to spend more time reading about this topic

By: Evelyn Wheeler

Evelyn Wheeler — Wed, 10 Nov 2010 05:31:16 +0000

There is certainly enough blame to go around. The Black Man wants peace; can't take no stress. The Black Woman is frustrated, and has never ending stress.The problems go back to far to determine its origin. Responsibility is ours to command now. Changes need to be made. First individually, then as a couple and finally as a family unit. Relationships require constant communication. Communication is fueled by trust. Trust is developed with patience and patience begins with love. We don't want to be remembered/known as an angry/bitter race. People, All children need a father. Didn't we all want ours. And, daddy bashing is not healthy, mentally at all. Father's should not be excluded from their childrens' lives; good, bad or indifferent, they need to be visible. If a child is raised with good values and morals, at the age when right from wrong kicks in, they will be equipped to draw the best from both of you. When left to raise her children alone, a Black woman will raise her daughter to be strong; to STAND no matter what comes her way. Feeling sorry for her son, she will try to protect him from the strongholds the Black Man struggles with today. Not realizing that the strength he lacks today will be his downfall tomorrow. Black Men stand your ground. Don't leave the family. Black Woman fight your emotions of anger, not your man. We now have someone in the White House that is making changes for us on the outside. Lets try to make some changes on the inside so that one day we can look at one another and believe we are on each other's side.

By: G-man

G-man — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 13:16:00 +0000

I find so much hypocrisy in the comments by black women on this blog. The black women talk about how black men stereotype them, but no one does more stereotyping of black men than black women. It is true that the vast majority of black women that black men encounter do indeed have nasty, arrogant, hostile and mean-spirited attitudes and black men as a whole are fed up with it. Yet, these same sisters have no qualms about disrespecting and denigrating brothers on a regular basis. Its the same double-standard over and over again. The negative stereotypes about black men have reached an all time high. Its mind-boggling !!!!!!!! When I'm around white women, 99% of the time the white women are polite, smiling, and make complimentary comments to me, yet as soon as I'm around a black women ( 99% ) of the time, she is ranting and raving about — " Where are the good black men ? " and all that nonsense as if black men aren't asking– " Where are the good black women ? " . I have heard black men across America complain about this . Its the black women who drive black men to white women. Furthermore a person has the right to date or marry whomever he/she pleases and anyone of any color who has a problem with it is a racist bigot whatever their race. Its that simple !!!!!

By: Stephanie

Stephanie — Wed, 11 Feb 2009 14:06:49 +0000

I watched half of this mess, Black people have really got to stop doing this to each other — there are good black men out there and there are good black women, but we feed each other this crap and everybody gets angry and white people just laugh at us. If he really wanted to help someone out he would have interviewed a wider spectrum of black people. I for one was raised by BOTH my Mother and my Father. I had a wonderful childhood, my mother was not disrepectful to my father and on top of having GREAT parents I also had the privilege of growing up with two very strong grandfathers. So why would I not be a little angry with this stereotypical MESS! And the one thing that is laughable about this video is that the man is talking about how he pays for everything in the house, and paid for her car. LAUGHING OUT LOUD! When have black women NOT worked, we have been working since we were bought to this dang on country. Research indicates that Black Girls are typically raised to be more independent because they have to be. I for one pay the majority of the bills in my house. Please dont' buy this this mess, dont' support the further tiring a part of the black community with this one-sided garbage.

By: LVL

LVL — Fri, 30 Jan 2009 15:56:57 +0000

It's funny you say that Thomas because a lot of good black women are lumped into sterotypes that they don't fit, but no one seems to defend us!

By: Tim Alexander

Tim Alexander — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 18:49:08 +0000

Hey all, my film "Diary of a Tired Black Man" will be out on DVD Tuesday, Feb. 3, 2009. Then you can see what this is really about. Please support this movie by buying a copy. It will not disappoint.

Thanks,
Tim Alexander,
Writer/Producer/Director

By: Thomas

Thomas — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 16:46:25 +0000

I don't think there's anything wrong with it but when you stereo type good men and put them in the same category as the bad ones you'll never find a great black guy and there's a lot of them waiting believe me…I am one of them

By: LVL

LVL — Sun, 11 Jan 2009 21:42:12 +0000

You say men are visual, well it does work against you because you overlook a lot of good women out there just because they have a little extra weight on her, she doesn’t dress a certain way, or etc. Than you guys go on a compalin that you can’t find a good black woman, well, ever think it may have been the one you totally inorged in the process of finding one.

By: Troy

Troy — Mon, 17 Nov 2008 20:27:46 +0000

I would say that men to a fault are visual creatures. We don't approach women who we think are the smartest, has the best job, or has the biggest house; we approach (instinctively) the woman that we have the best chance of producing offspring with, and historically these are the women with best bodies, and best looks. On the flipside of that, women are attracted (instinctively) to the man that will provide the most for her and their future kids, being that for the last 50,000 years women have depended on a man to bring home the hunt and prevent starvation (hence, the tall, muscular masculine man that woman are nautraly attracted to would have had the better chance of getting a kill in 50,000 years ago). Unfortunately, these primitive instincts are with us today and have been perversed with devastating consequences on both parts. This is a very complicated and controversial argument, something that I learned while in undergraduate school at UCLA. Nevertheless it explains alot of our natural motivations in life and once you understand it you will truely understand a mans actions in totality.

Troy

By: LVL

LVL — Sun, 16 Nov 2008 11:36:36 +0000

Ok Troy, so what do you say to the black men that have dissed the smart, nerdy looking black women?! You think it only happens to black men, you are mistaken. It's the story of my life. I do date white men, at least I'm not weird to them!