A few days ago someone asked in a comment: Can a man drive a woman to cheat? Why or why not? Of course I have to think of it from my perspective: Can a woman drive a man to cheat? And while there was a good healthy talk about it … in traditional SBM style [...]
I can change … right?
July 29, 2008 By 109 Comments
Another Year
July 28, 2008 By 48 Comments
Rantings of an SBM
July 25, 2008 By 59 Comments
Throwback: The Club Mentality
July 23, 2008 By 36 Comments
F*ck R&B!
July 22, 2008 By 56 Comments
Beautiful Black Hair: SBM Answers
July 21, 2008 By 55 Comments
A reader is having a spat over the style of her hair. Here is what she told me … I’ve been dating a guy for about 4 months. When he met me I had long mid-back length hair but during that time I was also growing out my relaxer for a year. I’d told him about this countless times but I’m not sure [...]
Rantings of an SBM
July 18, 2008 By 83 Comments
Skinny girl’s scare me …
July 15, 2008 By 79 Comments
“Man … look at her. She’s georgeous” “What? Who are you talking about?” “That girl right there in the pink with the track body” “What the f*ck? She’s like 98 pounds, no ass, no titties. Gimme that one standing right behind her. Hmmmph” “Are you serious? Why would you want that fat ass?” “Because dawg [...]
Black Love And Growing Up
“Where is the love?” Yes … where is the love. I don’t know how many people watch the fights, bickering, name calling, and overall destructive behavior that often unfolds itself everyday on the comments section. If you do … you might be mentally drained such as myself. Its funny how often it seems the comments [...]