A few days ago someone asked in a comment: Can a man drive a woman to cheat? Why or why not? Of course I have to think of it from my perspective: Can a woman drive a man to cheat? And while there was a good healthy talk about it … in traditional SBM style [...]

I mentioned last week (or maybe two weeks ago) I would be listening to R&B in order to see what changes it had on my mood and personality.  Sad to say … after about 3 days nonstop I was looking my mind and had to stop … but while doing it I managed to re [...]

My birthday was yesterday, and as I write this I am recovering and preparing to rest my body from doing too much … way too much.  As I have not the strength of mental fortitude for something spectacular … I will keep it simple and short. There is one thing I think I can truly [...]

Its Friday … time for my weekly rant. I like Three 6 Mafia.  I like screw music.  So when I got the new Three 6 Mafia album in screwed form … I was in heaven.  I listened to that album like 6 times straight in one day.  I got so much accomplished … it was [...]

This post was originally posted on January 6th, 2008. A lot of you weren’t there at the time … so this throwback is for you! I remember back in college actually having to convince some of my female friends the club wasn’t a good place to meet their boyfriend. To me … I was shocked [...]

“Man you hear that new Raheem Duvan joint” “No” “You catch that new Ne-yo song … its hot” “No” “I know you heard that new Chris Brown one about being in love to the point you cry.  Joint had me crying last night and everything.  Its fire!” “Naw man … I don’t listen to that [...]

A reader is having a spat over the style of her hair.  Here is what she told me … I’ve been dating a guy for about 4 months.  When he met me I had long mid-back length hair but during that time I was also growing out my relaxer for a year.  I’d told him about this countless times but I’m not sure [...]

Its Friday .. so time for me to get some things off my chest. Sometimes I fear I’m gonna have to sell, close, or scale back on this blog to keep my sanity.  I can live with the time commitment … but dealing with all this drama is draining.  I tell ya … just saps [...]

“Where is the love?” Yes … where is the love. I don’t know how many people watch the fights, bickering, name calling, and overall destructive behavior that often unfolds itself everyday on the comments section.  If you do … you might be mentally drained such as myself. Its funny how often it seems the comments [...]

“Man … look at her.  She’s georgeous” “What?  Who are you talking about?” “That girl right there in the pink with the track body” “What the f*ck?  She’s like 98 pounds, no ass, no titties.  Gimme that one standing right behind her.  Hmmmph” “Are you serious?  Why would you want that fat ass?” “Because dawg [...]