Comments on: Golddigger Justification http://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/07/07/golddigger-justification/ The Source For Black Male Perspective Wed, 08 Feb 2012 10:03:52 +0000 hourly 1 By: kdhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/07/07/golddigger-justification/#comment-23996 kd Sun, 11 Jan 2009 19:40:31 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=141#comment-23996 Thats why I just do me and I don't care about what other people think. I will say this as a man who had nothing and couldn't get the type of black women I liked, and now being able to get any women I want because Im successful now. In my own experience I wouldn't call black women goldiggers I would just call them women who want a rich man with money but they don't have anything to bring to the table.That's why now that I am rich and I have worked so hard to get mine, I only get into relationships with women who got their own shit. That eliminates all women who just wants to be with me for my money. If a chick don't make a certain amount of income a year we can fuck but it's not going no where. I want a women to love me for me and not the size of my bankroll. So I figure the best way to find that women is to weed out those who don't have nothing to offer and those who want to leech of me.I mean seriously people you cant be out here looking for a millionaire when as a female all you got to offer is your looks, your pussy, and a stank ass attitude. I no in my case looks and good pussy is not enough for a women to seal the deal with me. She has to have her own. Then she has to have a nice personality. I got my own so why should I be with a women who doesn't have shit.I can understand black women wanting a man with alot of money. If you gone be on that you better have your own or something of value to offer a man. That's one of the reasons why black men date outside their race. Some find women of others races who got shit to offer besides they looks and pussy.I tell you this its a gurantee that your looks will fade overtime. If thats the only reason why your man is with you when you start aging believe he gone cheat on you with the young intern in his office.To the fellow's date what you wanna date. If you don't want to put up with no stanky ass attitude then don't. If you like brazillian chicks(like me) then get you a brazillian chick. This is America we all have the right to recieve as much happiness as possible. If black chicks aren't making you happy find somebody who will it's simple as that. If people don't like what you doing fuck um and do you. Thats why I just do me and I don’t care about what other people think. I will say this as a man who had nothing and couldn’t get the type of black women I liked, and now being able to get any women I want because Im successful now. In my own experience I wouldn’t call black women goldiggers I would just call them women who want a rich man with money but they don’t have anything to bring to the table.

That’s why now that I am rich and I have worked so hard to get mine, I only get into relationships with women who got their own shit. That eliminates all women who just wants to be with me for my money. If a chick don’t make a certain amount of income a year we can fuck but it’s not going no where. I want a women to love me for me and not the size of my bankroll. So I figure the best way to find that women is to weed out those who don’t have nothing to offer and those who want to leech of me.

I mean seriously people you cant be out here looking for a millionaire when as a female all you got to offer is your looks, your pussy, and a stank ass attitude. I no in my case looks and good pussy is not enough for a women to seal the deal with me. She has to have her own. Then she has to have a nice personality. I got my own so why should I be with a women who doesn’t have shit.

I can understand black women wanting a man with alot of money. If you gone be on that you better have your own or something of value to offer a man. That’s one of the reasons why black men date outside their race. Some find women of others races who got shit to offer besides they looks and pussy.

I tell you this its a gurantee that your looks will fade overtime. If thats the only reason why your man is with you when you start aging believe he gone cheat on you with the young intern in his office.

To the fellow’s date what you wanna date. If you don’t want to put up with no stanky ass attitude then don’t. If you like brazillian chicks(like me) then get you a brazillian chick. This is America we all have the right to recieve as much happiness as possible. If black chicks aren’t making you happy find somebody who will it’s simple as that. If people don’t like what you doing fuck um and do you.

]]> By: Langxhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/07/07/golddigger-justification/#comment-6234 Langx Wed, 16 Jul 2008 07:06:40 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=141#comment-6234 TheComebackGirl: Poor people believe that it is more noble to struggle than to be prosperous. It gives them the ability to justify their own failures at life. Your single right. Over 30. Your a failure. How can you justify it. TheComebackGirl: Poor people believe that it is more noble to struggle than to be prosperous. It gives them the ability to justify their own failures at life.

Your single right. Over 30.

Your a failure. How can you justify it.

]]> By: Keihttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/07/07/golddigger-justification/#comment-6042 Kei Fri, 11 Jul 2008 14:13:17 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=141#comment-6042 Honestly, it really bothers me that so many women today are willing to look for the depth of a man's wallet rather than the depth of his mind and character. If a woman is willing to be with a man only because he is wealthy or able to shower her with material things, that says a lot of negative things about the character of that woman. Money can only get you but so far, and cash cannot keep a woman warm at night while her man is continuously out there making more money or is not able to give her the attention and affection she deserves. The basis for the relationship is on a monetary level which means that there will rarely be great conversations and philosophical stimulation; there will be no real relationship, only an arrangement, for when the money runs out, more than likely so will the relationship. It's time for women to look deeper into their souls and ask themselves is that really all they need out of a relationship. Honestly, it really bothers me that so many women today are willing to look for the depth of a man's wallet rather than the depth of his mind and character. If a woman is willing to be with a man only because he is wealthy or able to shower her with material things, that says a lot of negative things about the character of that woman. Money can only get you but so far, and cash cannot keep a woman warm at night while her man is continuously out there making more money or is not able to give her the attention and affection she deserves. The basis for the relationship is on a monetary level which means that there will rarely be great conversations and philosophical stimulation; there will be no real relationship, only an arrangement, for when the money runs out, more than likely so will the relationship. It's time for women to look deeper into their souls and ask themselves is that really all they need out of a relationship.

]]> By: HNIChttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/07/07/golddigger-justification/#comment-5839 HNIC Wed, 09 Jul 2008 08:05:41 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=141#comment-5839 NO, Same person behind the monitor. it just depends which computer I am using. I use HNIC because... well its dangerous to use our real names... because then crazy people can track us down by using our personal information .... not like thats happened already or anything. The person from the dailytmi is my master and mentor "acereporter73" I get most of my ideals from him actually so I encouraged him to start a blog. I link him in my tab as I feel he always has something more important to say than myself. Hes more educated, better read, deeper philosophically, older, wiser and less confrontational. drop by and leave comments :D NO, Same person behind the monitor. it just depends which computer I am using. I use HNIC because… well its dangerous to use our real names… because then crazy people can track us down by using our personal information …. not like thats happened already or anything.

The person from the dailytmi is my master and mentor "acereporter73" I get most of my ideals from him actually so I encouraged him to start a blog. I link him in my tab as I feel he always has something more important to say than myself. Hes more educated, better read, deeper philosophically, older, wiser and less confrontational.

drop by and leave comments :D

]]> By: Ms. Devereauxhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/07/07/golddigger-justification/#comment-5829 Ms. Devereaux Wed, 09 Jul 2008 02:12:01 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=141#comment-5829 Ok one other thing have Hasani and HNIC been two different people all this time? Ok one other thing have Hasani and HNIC been two different people all this time?

]]> By: Ms. Devereauxhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/07/07/golddigger-justification/#comment-5828 Ms. Devereaux Wed, 09 Jul 2008 02:08:33 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=141#comment-5828 Ok nevermind. I figured it out they are two different people. I know no one cares but I was just curious. New post SBM... Ok nevermind. I figured it out they are two different people. I know no one cares but I was just curious.

New post SBM…

]]> By: Ms. Devereauxhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/07/07/golddigger-justification/#comment-5827 Ms. Devereaux Wed, 09 Jul 2008 02:04:02 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=141#comment-5827 Off the subject but... Why does the guy on HNIC blog <a href="http://www.dailytmi.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">www.dailytmi.blogspot.com</a> and Hasani myspace page on SBM page look totally different. Who the hell is the right person? Off the subject but… Why does the guy on HNIC blog http://www.dailytmi.blogspot.com and Hasani myspace page on SBM page look totally different. Who the hell is the right person?

]]> By: HNIChttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/07/07/golddigger-justification/#comment-5826 HNIC Wed, 09 Jul 2008 00:20:31 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=141#comment-5826 heres what I find amazing. we have a WHOLE FUKIN THREAD on soul music. I pretty much stay out of it because I dont listen to soul music. And on comebacks blog we are talking about soul musicians and "what a musicial looks like" but for as little as I listen to Soul... and as much as you all CLAIM to listen to soul.... its rather ironic that NONE of you hear the words or live the lifestyle. Comeback turned me on to Rahsaan Patterson (who looks like the black kid from kids incorporated all grown up and slightly metro by the way) im listening to the lyrics in a song called where you are correct me if Im wrong but sounds like the brotha says Baby forgive me For making you wait so long Girl please believe that It's due to my lack of funds Baby I swear, I'm gonna find a way to get out of here Cause I wanna be where you are My man is broke, my man is in love and my man will do whatever he can do see this sista because she makes him feel like the world is complete when she is around. His love is unbridaled and he is willing to do anything and go anywhere just to get where she is. he is not saying "bitch betta pay for my plane ticket" and shes not saying "scrub aint got no funds he must be lazy" India Arie interested They say that everybody got a price, Through material lust, for the things nice,Better think twice (Not everything can be bought or sold) Certain things in this life money don't control. Oh shit son same song <i>Ayo, the love from a woman that ain't your mother "Priceless" The sun, moon and Earth and what they yield is priceless The morals that you pass down to kids is priceless Yo survival of the fittest, to survive you need dough But once you got dough, got to maintain a steady flow And let it grow you know, add another zero Yo from down in the ghetto, we bust through the door Now accustomed to things, you wasn't before Money showed you power you never felt when poor To say money bring power, power with corruption 'Til corrupted to the point paralleled to destruction Disgusted, mind full of lusting Got mixed priorities, family love first thing Praises due for life, from one morning Because tomorrow's a site, not a guaranteed thing So live to the fullest, make your moves to win Cherish your brethren, nourish and love the children Throw them positive, negative will kill them Drafted to war for arrogant wicked men But it's all unity, one world community To divide is the recipe for our tragedy So adequately you get yours I get mine take nothing for granted and walk a righteous line </i> what da fuk?! this guy sounds EXACTLY like me and says the exact same msg. I cant belive you nod your head to this everyday because its what aleged sophisticated black people listen to... yet you are totally against the spirit of the music. you listen to it but you obviously dont HEAR a damn thing. we need to trade music. You can have Devil Driver, Ra, and Rage against the machine and I will start listening to Rahsaan, india and that skinny dude who sung "ask of you". heres what I find amazing.

we have a WHOLE FUKIN THREAD on soul music. I pretty much stay out of it because I dont listen to soul music. And on comebacks blog we are talking about soul musicians and "what a musicial looks like"

but for as little as I listen to Soul… and as much as you all CLAIM to listen to soul…. its rather ironic that NONE of you hear the words or live the lifestyle.

Comeback turned me on to Rahsaan Patterson (who looks like the black kid from kids incorporated all grown up and slightly metro by the way)

im listening to the lyrics in a song called where you are

correct me if Im wrong but sounds like the brotha says

Baby forgive me For making you wait so long Girl please believe that

It's due to my lack of funds

Baby I swear, I'm gonna find a way to get out of here Cause I wanna be where you are

My man is broke, my man is in love and my man will do whatever he can do see this sista because she makes him feel like the world is complete when she is around. His love is unbridaled and he is willing to do anything and go anywhere just to get where she is. he is not saying "bitch betta pay for my plane ticket" and shes not saying "scrub aint got no funds he must be lazy"

India Arie

interested

They say that everybody got a price, Through material lust, for the things nice,Better think twice (Not everything can be bought or sold) Certain things in this life money don't control.

Oh shit son

same song

Ayo, the love from a woman that ain't your mother "Priceless"

The sun, moon and Earth and what they yield is priceless The morals that you pass down to kids is priceless

Yo survival of the fittest, to survive you need dough

But once you got dough, got to maintain a steady flow

And let it grow you know, add another zero

Yo from down in the ghetto, we bust through the door

Now accustomed to things, you wasn't before Money showed you power you never felt when poor To say money bring power, power with corruption 'Til corrupted to the point paralleled to destruction Disgusted, mind full of lusting Got mixed priorities, family love first thing Praises due for life, from one morning Because tomorrow's a site, not a guaranteed thing So live to the fullest, make your moves to win Cherish your brethren, nourish and love the children Throw them positive, negative will kill them Drafted to war for arrogant wicked men But it's all unity, one world community To divide is the recipe for our tragedy So adequately you get yours I get mine take nothing for granted and walk a righteous line

what da fuk?! this guy sounds EXACTLY like me and says the exact same msg. I cant belive you nod your head to this everyday because its what aleged sophisticated black people listen to… yet you are totally against the spirit of the music. you listen to it but you obviously dont HEAR a damn thing.

we need to trade music. You can have Devil Driver, Ra, and Rage against the machine and I will start listening to Rahsaan, india and that skinny dude who sung "ask of you".

]]> By: TheComebackGirlhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/07/07/golddigger-justification/#comment-5825 TheComebackGirl Wed, 09 Jul 2008 00:01:58 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=141#comment-5825 and mental/emotional fitness. This is torn out of some psych book with case studies on DID and sociopathic behavior-totally agree with Black Chic. No worries by 2016 you could be my first patient. I really want to fuse eastern and western practice of healing. So I wouldn't give you too many meds, maybe a sun lamp, meditation, and a little cognitive behavorial therapy. Dr. Beck said that all roads point back to self-acceptance.....and well...lets just say that needs a LOT of work. and mental/emotional fitness. This is torn out of some psych book with case studies on DID and sociopathic behavior-totally agree with Black Chic. No worries by 2016 you could be my first patient. I really want to fuse eastern and western practice of healing. So I wouldn't give you too many meds, maybe a sun lamp, meditation, and a little cognitive behavorial therapy. Dr. Beck said that all roads point back to self-acceptance…..and well…lets just say that needs a LOT of work.

]]> By: Teaciahttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/07/07/golddigger-justification/#comment-5824 Teacia Tue, 08 Jul 2008 23:55:35 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=141#comment-5824 You two cut it out...I swear I'm going to have to send you both to the corner for a time-out. On tomorrow's post NO BICKERING ALLOWED!!! I mean it, let's try to lift up the conversation for a change. And Hasani before you attack me and say that it's partly my doing, DON'T. Again, rise above the frey and join me in this kumbayah moment...okay sweetie. You two cut it out…I swear I'm going to have to send you both to the corner for a time-out. On tomorrow's post NO BICKERING ALLOWED!!! I mean it, let's try to lift up the conversation for a change. And Hasani before you attack me and say that it's partly my doing, DON'T. Again, rise above the frey and join me in this kumbayah moment…okay sweetie.

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