Its Friday … and I think I’m going to try and keep this whole rant positive.  There is a Black Man as the Democratic Presidential Candidate and with his wife by his side, not only is he showing a strong Black Man … he is showing a strong Black Family.  So … all positive rants [...]

So its another Thursday and another featured blogger.  This comes from “The Late (not so great) 20′s”, a great spot you should check out.  Now, I read this post and feel I really need to write a reply, but I need to highlight her work … but sadly … I disagree so much. Won’t go [...]

***NOTE***  There is a new poll question.  Interracial dating anyone? **** You need to a flashplayer enabled browser to view this YouTube video I don’t know what made me suddenly remember this BET Uncut classic … but this video was played for years on the show. Who can forget the hook … White girlllllllllls, (Suzy,Jen, [...]

I talked about the importance of a woman’s hair just a few days ago … but now I’m here to talk about the subject … just in a slightly different … light. This came up in the comments a few days ago … but I felt I needed to take a little time and expound [...]

There is a syndrome I have noticed for many years.  A mental disorder, an abnormality, a deficiency that is plaguing scores and scores of black women.  It can be debilitating towards relationships, finding a mate, and even just interacting with others on a platonic level. This disease is known as heightened sense of attractiveness … [...]

Its friday … you know the deal! I’m tired. Really tired.  Its some unmentionable hour in the AM and I’m checking in some code for my project and about to send some emails. I’ve found this game on facebook … its called Word Challenge.  I have gotten addicted to it.  It really was something i [...]

This post comes from a resident commenter Ms. Deveraux at her blog The Journey of Ms. Deveraux and kicks off me featuring a different writer/blogger/ person who has something to say.  Enjoy. ADMIRE: to regard with wonder, pleasure, or approval One thing about living in Chicago that I wouldn’t normally experience in Texas is the [...]

**Site Note** New Poll … Whats more important to you?  Sex or Conversation **End Note** I responded to an reader submission before where a young lady was upset at the person she was dating, who didn’t approve of her change in hairstyle.  Initially it was long and straight, and she decided to keep it natural [...]

Its 2008.  There is technology available to us and ingrained into our daily lives that our grandparents could never have dreamed of … all of it greatly effecting the way we date and love in the 21st century. Now you have cell phones, giving use 24 hour access to your boo.  There is GPS tracking [...]

Its been awhile since I responded to an email.  They haven’t been coming in as often as usual (in addition to a small backlog on my part).  Remember … got a burning question … hit me at sbm@singleblackmale.net.  While I am only one man with one opinion, the comment sections go crazy with good (and [...]