ComebackGirl is trippin…

Good post.

And if you want an Asian woman, by all means, do the darn thang! I don't have any trouble or complaints, so I'll just keep doing me when it comes to black men.

A word is a word ma'am. If everyone has perverted the word dosent mean I have to abide my their acts.

Nobody can define chilvary for a reason..

But what is it for men to treat a woman right? why do we have to have a special creed for men to treat women a certain way but not the inverse? I am equally as viable and valuable than you are in this life, the black man is gods more beautiful creation currently. When we are talking about love… we have no equal on the planet. so if im so valuable … why am I to be held by a separate set of social laws than you are?

How about you guys treat us alot better, and we wil continue treating you as good as us good ones already do?

Cuz if your going to constantly feel the need to "check this nigga"

and your going to constantly be little me

your going to make sex difficult

your going to be emotionally icy with your heart

yoru going to put your career first 2nd and third in your life

AND my money is yours and your money is yours…

We could just date Asian women in this generation… and try and link up with you guys again next generation and perhaps we will have come to an understanding by then.

I have a lot of requirements but there only persuiant to what I think of me and what I am worth. I actually think that on some level, single women should be putting themselves first, they should be practicing self care. And the beforementioned is rather "selfish and self-centered" from a text book perspective. I never dated a drug dealer, but the closer you get to 30 is the likelihood that dude might have slang some pot or something when he was 16, is that woman excluded too. 3 is relative. Unless you're being accousted on the street re your woman, I would think that other men finding her appealing is appealing. But if its an issue when you are way, you could either have trust issues with her (which could be valid) or self-esteem issues with YOU (which isn;t)

I was granddaddy's little girl. But what the hel#l would be the problem with a woman placing her father or grandfather in high regard. Again if she envisions herself being with a certain type of man (who was responsibile, a provider, a leader of his family) and if that intimidates you.

then maybe you should play the field a little more.

I totally appreciate men who are self-aware enough to know when they aren't ready for a committment. Thi serves you much better than placing false blame and building a wall made of standards that on the level could be GOOD things.

If I was a man, I would desire a woman who thought highly enough of herself, that she didn't play herself small, and wasn't up under me all the ding dang time. Had her own identity and things she wanted to accomplish…whereby we could then come together and build based on our SHARED PURPOSE.

@Comeback-Where's my Dubai info?

1)spoiled women

2)ex-girlfriends of drug dealers

3)women who get waaaay too much attention from men

4)daddy's little girl

There is more but I dont feel like going in depth

Ok..then sounds like maybe you weren't the right person for her. I think it goes back to Shelia's assessment too, you cant judge women based on past behavior of a select few who werent well suited.

And…one monkey don't stop no show. There are alot of men and women walking around who have NO idea who and what they want, but they scape goat a group of "skantankerous" women. And Im sorry you keep coming up with the same TYPES of women each and every time. And to the point where it affects you like this…maybe the problem JUST isn't these skants.

when you point one finger at someone else…I think you know the drill right ?