Friday and I got plenty to rant about.
- Work has been nuts this week. I mean really really crazy. Won’t go into any details, but I’ve been racking up the hours.
- I really think I have formed an ulcer. After reading the symptoms and talking to other people who know of young people with ulcers … I am convinced that I have a peptic ulcer. No worries … supposedly they can heal themselves. Already made the doctor’s appointment, but I just need to watch what I eat and calm down on the stress.
- I have a ridiculous amount of stress in my life for someone my age. I really do need a vacation and to calm down. Thank God for that motorcycle and its calming rides. Nothing like 30 second miles (do the math for the speed) to sooth the nerves.
- I didn’t even attempt to watch McCain’s speech. I know I should see both sides of the race … but eh.
- I’m loving twitter. I can send these little updates about the randomness of my life to everyone who wants to follow. I’ll probably earn me a couple stalkers … but eh.
- Last week I made big plans to go out tonight … now I have no desire. None at all. Just want to go to sleep early and chill.
- As a result of this ulcer, I’m not supposed to drink so much alcohol. What the Hell!!! It makes me want a beer so much more … sigh.
- The “Thursday Features” seem to be a big hit. I am looking for more submissions … so email me at sbm@singleblackmale.net with that hidden blog world gold that I’ve been missing.
- Redskins lost. F*ck!
- I wish BET Uncut was still on the air. It would really hit the spot right now.
That’s it for me. Your turn.
RANT!
Ummm…
-not up for all this.
-haven't had much sleep, just a bunch of tossing and turning
-i always take bad stuff to heart, it's kinda easy to make me feel bad.
-today i'm uninterested.
-it sucks when you can't express yourself the way you want to
-wtf? english minor who can't express herself…fab.
Maybe I'll be back and be more positive and less umm apathetic.
*tosses, turns, pulls covers over head*
Sooooo uh yeah, since I'm the yin to your yang I don't have any rants today per se…but I do have a few jewels of wisdom:
*ahem* Hear ye, Hear ye…this shit isn't that serious!
1. What happens off this blog is ONLY the business of the people that it involves. Period. I'm nosier than most but even I don't really care who's doing what…and I think everyone should follow my lead.
2. We are all adults here, no one has to hold anyone's hand to get through this shit…what ever happened to a little thing called, "intuition"….go with your gut folks.
3. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you(totally irrelevant, but you can't have a wisdom post w/o it…lol).
4. I love my blog family, including my crazy uncle fester who is no longer with us…and surely we can all at least pretend to get along during the high traffic hours…I pretend everyday…join me on this journey will you.
And now that the public service announcement is over:
SBM baby please relax, we(meaning me) don't need anything to happen to you…I love you too much(yes that was a public display of affection…lol).
I'll be at the School Board again today, kumbayah folks…kumbayah.
LOL….I can't wait to keep up with today's rants, it should be hella interesting.
Oh and Jaclynn keep your head up girl, you don't owe anyone any explanations…and Humble you don't owe anyone any apologies…and it kinda undercuts your right to do as you damn well please.
And Mikki stop playing yourself out online…it's not a good look…I'm actually quite fond of you(no lie), but man you gotta chill out.
Later all
Im tryna figure out what the he#ll went on last night during my REM. But first i must get energized off some breve and McCain's recorded speech.
I scanned and Im not finding what the beef is. do I need to activate my 3rd eye???
1. I'm with you Comeback, I read up from what happened, and I don't get it????!!!
2. Somebody please tell me, can I lose SOME pounds in 21 days without going on a Kate Moss diet???
3. Oh, but I have a love affair bread and sugar… Got to swear it off for 21 days…. we HAVE to make this ex regret the day that he broke my heart YEARS ago. LOL
4. It's raining so finally we can get out of this beast of a heat wave. I'm thankful for that….
5. Palin looks like someone's sexy fantasy teacher, looking for a reason to take that pencil out of her hair and let down that fake bun and take off those fake glasses.
Teacia:Good Morning, I am trying girl….sometimes it just doesn't go like you wanted and you end up having to change everything…cause it messes up your flow.
Comeback&Nicki:Good Morning Ladies…eh…oh well.
@Jaclynn: good mornnig girl.
SBM I hope you feel better, those ulcers are not good for you at all.
I know I'm going get cursed out or accused of starting something for my earlier post but hey I call it like I see it.
And for those who are lost there were some emails exchanged, a blow out, a pre-rant…more nonsense and then off to bed we went.
It's really not that big of a deal…really.
@Teacia: thanks for 'splanin. I tend to stay out of stuff if it does not concern me personally…. so I'm leaving it there. Is our family good now?????
Yeah Nicki I think we would all benefit from that line of thought…man our family is the worst.
Then again this actually does make us a family for real for real…fussing, fighting, nosiness, gossiping, drama…what family unit do you know that doesn't share those characteristics…lol
Finally, Rant Friday!
- I really hate that I bought a house. All this sh*t I have to do just to make it livable. Painting, cleaning, drywalling, cuttin down weeds… damn it. I should of stayed in my condo!!!
-I'm starting to get burnt out on my job. Dont get me wrong, I love my patients (well some of them). Yesterday I had this white lady say to me ' I guess you're voting for Obama huh' I wanted to slap that bi*ch. You're going to assume just b/c Im black that im gonna vote for the black man. whats wrong with these people.
- I decided to throw a girls nite out party with a close friend of mine. We were going to go halvsees on everything. The party is next saturday and this trick anit paid for shit. I paid for the stripper, its at my house, I paid for the food, and not to mention I bought ALL the alcohol ($200 worth). Just can't find good friends anymore.
Sadly as the day goes on, Im sure I'll have more things that pisses me off today!!
to the SBM fam… keep the peace
lol @ Indian Jones and the Obama comment lady, heck thats why I am voting for him on the real is that really a bad thing?
@Teaacis: That is very true. ….. LOL.
I stay out of my own families' affairs too. Kinda the loner, may show up to a reunion, may not kinda girl…… But I definitely have them in my family.
@SBM: Hope you get to feeling better man.. you're younger than me (I think!) Ease up on the stress, that's a big problem in our ocmmunity.
@IndianaJones: I'm cracking up at the Obama stuff…. in class yesterday, the "others" as I affectionately call them, started talking about Palin and her "experience" … I was on the edge of my seat, waiting for them to say something about Obama, since I'm one of the three blacks in the entire class… Thankfully, they didn't.
Rave: I love this Pandora music stream thing. They play alot of the same music LOL. thats not good. But Jilly from Philly got this song (its old) I just heard it on Pandora, called "Comes to the Light" (Everything).
I think we had the same great granny. Ain't that something about shyt. Everything comes to the light. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Uv7YFNKyeg
coffee time. When I get back, I'm gonna do some natural medicine on them ulcers SBM.
@Comeback-I love too.
@Nicki-I am dying
@Jaclynn: Hell I would be too….
Comeback you need help…professional help…and I mean it with my deepest sincerity. I wish your "friends" would peep your game as well…but oh well, such is life I guess.
@Teacia-Girl stop lol
@Nicki-Yep those PWIs you always be wanting to kick ass.
"Comeback you need help…professional help…and I mean it with my deepest sincerity. I wish your “friends” would peep your game as well…but oh well, such is life I guess."
Maybe if I get into this MA/PHD clinical program I can give to myself LOL. humming …"comes to the light… comes to the light….. everything. Comes to the light …..everything.
@Jaclynn: Ummm… you are going to have to clue me in to PWI… got the appointment with the derm. THANK GOD…. I called back and she was more nicer and more helpful.. Go figure. I don't know why my face is breaking out like I'm freakin 17 again!!!!
Oh I know why: Damn celibacy.
Yes and Predominantly White Institution. Celibacy is f#cking me over.
@Comeback-I am trying to get into an accelerated JD/MBA program. Gotta take GMAT/LSAT…not sure which one yet.
My rants or riffs
1) After hearing Giuliani's speech on Wednesday I think I may be an elitist. lol The following Thursday morning I was drinking starbucks listening to NPR on my way to work. Maybe I can get a pass because I am from Detroit, and not NYC, Cali, or the DMV.
2) I need to cut back on the juice I drink. Especially Simply Lemonade. Too much sugar.
3) My workout regiment is progressing decently. I wish it was faster. I still think I will be able to run my 5miles in 40minutes by November.
4) I am going to try to BBQ tomorrow so if any of you have any tips for marinating chicken or hamburger patties overnight let me know.
@Jaclynn: Aw ok… I wish I could AFFORD A PBI….. I always wanted to go to one but they are so daggone expensive.
Hello SBM.net
I have no rants! I can not complain you know why? I dont let others steal my joy. I dont let the actions of those around me or things that happen effect or affect my mood. You can not give people that kind of POWER in your life.
And you know what ..we only really react STRONGLY to the things we somewhat deep down know to be true about ourselves and things .whether they are gossip, hearsay etc. IF i know someone knows shat about what they are talking about and they talk shat to me or others. I ignore it and give it no more POWER.. take back the power!
I suggest everyone do the same on here.
"And you know what ..we only really react STRONGLY to the things we somewhat deep down know to be true about ourselves and things"
And Jill Scott sang: "comes to the light comes to the light" EVERYTHING…
Ok a few more rants then imma quit.
-I cant believe its only 3 months until this year is over. It seems like it just started. For the record, I dont wanna go christmas shopping!!! I dont wanna and you cant make me. noooooo
-Its been 2 months since I had the comforts of a man, (celibate, but not by choice). Damn I hate living in Indy. I guess its called 'naptown' for a reason. I've been working 12hr back to back shifts just so I dont have to think about it!
-Dont you hate it when you're trying to tell a story and the person keeps finishing your sentence. Damn it, let me talk.
…more to come I'm sure
@Teacia – Thanks for the comment. You cool people.
@SBM – I was stressed out like you last year. It ruined my health. Don't let small stuff get to you. The ulcer can heal. My mother and great uncle had one and they got over it.
*sings* It's Friday (Heeeeyyyyy) and I'm ready to swang. pick up my girls and hit the party scene
Good Mo'nin' Folks!
quasi-Rant – I have to find a new daycare for my son. It's so hard to find good help.
Rave – SBM is Fester-Free
@Tea – what the heezy? lol
@ Mikki – ure not the only one – bump what ya heard, I'm voting for the black guy! (that needs to be a tee-shirt)
@Nicki – sure, you can lose SOME lbs in 21 days – but, u will be irritable than a mutha. I've done it – gotta eat grapes and ish
Yeah u can actually lose 21 pounds in 21 days…but it's not a good look. I suggest the Master Cleanser by Stephen Burroughs for 3-4 days to jump start whatever diet you choose.
I can usually lose weight with cutting out breads and sugar…sugar free cookies w. peanut butter, salad with chicken and lots and LOTS of water.
whyso's rants and randomness….
I want to do very naughty things to sarah palin. she's a vpilf
there's an asian guy at work that always asks questions about black people. And you know what, I actually feel comfortable discussing race. I'm very frank and let him know [re:correct him] on the good and the bad. It is what it is.
The older i get, the "less baggy" my shirts are lol. Tailored, i'd like to call it. And I'm getting a LOT more compliments from women too…mwaahahaha
I'm a pretty happy go lucky guy. But don't think I'm not equally intelligent and sharp…the silly is just to throw people off.
i love life and everything in it…the high highs, the low lows and creamy middles. mmmm creamy middles *drools like homer simpson*
@ Humble post#23- try Lawry's marinade. Its really good for chicken and for your hamburger try the hidden valley ranch seasoning. good eatin right thurrr. Make sure u put it n a ziplock bag and let all the air out.
oh and SBM . for that ulcer.. BANANAS and MILK … make it a smoothie if you have to but it will calm it down.. just my two cents..
Alright Cuzzo!! I KNEW i wasn't the only one
vote for the black guy!
Humble: thanks mister…i try to keep it balanced around here…sometimes it works sometimes ti doesn't.
Why so: I'm sure ur plenty great…and since I've been warned about lavish displays of affection for you that's all I'm gonna say.
Cuzzo: I'm voting for the black guy as well.
why so – as I get older, I notice that sneakers look like they are just for younger ppl nowadays. can i get something simple? no pastry, no multicolor air max
@Teacia-u're just a regular peach.
@Whyso-Yeah I never say anything but you're pretty cool. Tailored shirt…wow.
I started to watch the RNC but opted to watch America's Best Dance Crew instead…in acquiescence with SBM.
I hate when I cry and I really don't mean or want to – DAYUM!
I'm gonna miss my sister, can't believe that 2 weeks flew by so fast.
I can't wait for this project to be overwith, it's stressin' me the hell out.
I think I need to give in and go see this Physical Therapist, my ankle is killin' me.
Thank God it's Friday!
Good news to report, tomorrow my good friend Rina Risper is hosting the very first State of Our health Symposium. Dewayne wades mom is going to be there and magic johnsons mother will be speaking. We are going to be discussing topics such as cancer, diabetes, HIV and AIDS awareness. I am very happy to be volunteering at the event.
SBM you have to take care of yourself. Try to find some "me time" everyday even if it's only 15 minutes. You're too young to be stressing out so much (and I mean that to say–take some time to enjoy life).
I watched McCain's speech–boring…now he's trying to bite off Obama and talk about "Change." McCain is milking his stint in the service to the hilt. He's trying to play on folks sympathy because he was a POW. That was terrible but if they want to talk about adversity–Black men face adversity every single day they walk out of the house and then on top of that if you're bi-racial–you get it from both sides of the fence. It doesn't make either Obamas or Mcains side better or worse, so McCain should stop milking that.
Rant – facebook is always under maintenance lately
@Cuzzo – I feel you on the sneaker colors. Almost every shoe I buy now is a retro. Which is crazy for me because I have a serious addiction to sneakers. Clothes in general now seem tacky to me. I have always dressed kind of conservative so maybe it is just my taste.
humble – i'm in love with creative recreation's. so simple. i seem to only like the men's style's though.
Back from Starbucks;
1. I love Pandora, I got Musiq Soulchild as one of my stations and I SOOOOO miss Philly
I never thought I would say that. Hell most of PA is so cross mixed (and heavily segregated) its just an oxymoronish paradox. Even the ghetto clubs were fun, I could learn a new cha cha slide-line dance every other dam#n week.
2. I love creative people, sometimes they make me feel like a failure lol. but thats ok. there's always tomorrow.
3. I really do believe that love and gratitude are the fastest ways to mental health there are. If people knew what the opposite created they do more of the above. Stale and destructive thoughts create a less than ideal experience Which goes back to Jolie's thoughts, people don't realize how powerful they are not just on their own lives but also the lives of others. Why create bad things when you can make something beautiful and amazing.
4. i think I watched to much Mr. Rogers when I was little.
re; ulcers, I know people think Im crazy as he#ll but I really don't care. Many times situations in the body temple manifest because of the company and thoughts we keep. I found this "ULCERS: Eating at you, trouble doing something to resolve an issue. Inability to assimilate the new."
I've heard old people say all my life that women live longer than men sometimes because we kill them. I never thought my somewhat feminist self would admit this, but sometimes our body tells us things about the relationships we engage in. TRUST, i know this.
ooh what did u get at Starbucks Comeback? i had a mint mocha chip frap the other day from there. i'm off to dunkin' donuts soon for a coolatta.
Cuzzo you don;t want to know!!!
lol…u crazy
@Cuzzo – Their shoes are okay. They are made in the same vein as supra and clae. I am more into high-end basket ball shoes from the 80s and early 90s.
ok….dont laugh. I think everybody here knows my routine. So I'll recap.
when I can spare 300 empty calories… i go for " triple grande upside down extra whip no foam 180 degrees with steamed breve caramel macchiato light on the caramel". And Pellegrino water.
@Comeback…well maybe now since his blogosphere relationship with uncle fester is over, his ulcers can heal
@whyso – "I want to do very naughty things to sarah palin. she’s a vpilf" HAHAHAHAHAA!! um…u're stooopid.
I have no rants today…I'm chillin', trying to get my work done and plan my birthday events.
@Cuzzo – Get a lemonade and strawberry mixed Coolatta.
Teacia – "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you"–great pearls of wisdom.
Nikki – I see I'm not the only one who thinks her glasses are fake. I bet you she didn't have them on when she was running for Ms. Alaska. Some folks think wearing glasses will make them look smarter and I think that's the look she's going for.
Why so Serious – I have two white friends that I feel comfortable talking about race. We have talked about everything and it doesn't get into a verbal match either.
I just brought some fruit from meijer for my coworkers and its almost gone!!
I agree comeback sometimes we dont associate sickness with the people around us. it could be anyone from parents, to coworkers, to boyfriends, and best friends. I take that very seriously, if some one is causing me stress enough to make me sick that means its time to say bye bye to them, even if it hurts a lil. I believe in balance (shout out to libras) and I strive to keep a healthy level of all aspects of life its just good for the body ya know.
Mikki – I think someone hijacked your blog site. It doesn't look "reader" friendly anymore.
@ Bree – I thought u were not supposed to be on here today…mmm hmmm.
@ Comeback – they can make that? triple grande – is that a size? upside down – what the heezy? ure too much. sounds like the younger sister from that show half and half when she would order food.
did we have a vote to boot HNIC? I missed that one, oh well i guess we all dont have a say about what goes on round chea like dat
did i miss hasani getting kicked off the island?
Can I just say something bout Hasani…he is a little distracting, but whatever happened to the honor system. again sometimes we can correct each other without blocking ips. We could all practice a little self-restraint here and there. Hasani wants a voice and he wants to be heard-just like everybody else. I vote he returns. (im sure my vote don't mean shyt. But I want to put that on the record)
yes this is his second kick out the house@ Jolie
@ Mikki..i forgot about the graphics
@ Cuzzo..are you saying my coffee is complicated LOl but its SOO good. I could solve world peace with this joe I got today.
@ comeback – i say hay-ull no to that! that negro has his own blog – if u wanna hear what he has to say, read it on there. that's for everyone. I for one am not going to sit thru black ppl this, and sistahs are that, ure dumb this…and i'm right that every dayum day.
@Mikki – nah, u don't have a say…lol. it's SBM.net baybay
"that negro has his own blog"
he does??? well I guess family votes get weighted. What if he signed an agreement or made a pledge??? sometimes people act differently when there name is on the line.
@Comeback-If I were a barista, I'd hide when I say you.
Shelia its under construction, there isn't anything new there anyways, just me and comebacks fabulosity pictures until I figure out how i want the thing to look as far as ad's and content..
its important that I keep the content light and fresh with ideas about financial stuff. Also if my blogger brother from another mother would email me I could get some assistance with the thing. The last thing I am working on is my short bio about my finances. I want people to be up to date on what I am working as far as becoming debt free. like right now I have a 3 month 8,000 goal to pay off debt which i am very excited about i just want to be able to share that ya know.
its been a rough week Shelia work with me sista girl lol. I will let you know when it back in order
Back from the emergency dermatologist appointment… I told him I need my chin and forehead cleared FAST and I got Retin-A samples and a RX for an antibiotic. THANKS DOC!
@Cuzzo, Teacia, Jaclyn: Ya know, I've looked at that Master Cleanse stuff and I do believe if I could stomach the thought, I'd go for it. I'm gonna incorporate more fruits and veggies into my diet and stay away from the sweets (we have a love affair, they're like a boyfriend that beats me and I can't keep from going back). Annywho, I don't want MAJOR things… just to get rid of this little "pooch" and slim down this back fat that develops when I put on a daggone bra (I don't want to have to stand up straight ALLL the time.). LOL.
How about I just make it easier and stay on my back the entire visit? Hell it's only a weekend…. You know everything looks great when you're on your back (LOL.. that could probably be taken more than one way!)
@comeback – i coulda swore i saw his name highlighted with a blog link many moons ago. or was that a diff HNIC? maybe he can act the fool on ure blog homey
lol cuzzo i figured that out long ago that i have no say, what ever happen to the people vote/people matter system, makes me not want to vote for present because my vote doesn't count!!!
btw did yall know you all can register to vote by phone?
@Sheila: I'm cracking up at the "glasses will make them look smarter" . ROFL… I agree with you girl…. they just don't fit her face…
comeback can i get my art work now please?
Comeback of course you want his destructive ass back up in here…but that's no surprise.
*** turning Pandora up*** Vivian Green "I like it"
***doing the cha cha slide in my little office***
Mikki..Imma send it today.
@ Cuzzo-he comes on my space talking crazy. but I think i understand him like some others. They just want to be understood, liked and heard. There are other ways though.
@ Mikki – I'm going to the library to pick up my copy of total money makeover. yay! u do have say – it's just up to SBM to take it into consideration and do with it what he sees best – i cannot speak for him though – if ure wondering, ask him.
No one had a say actually…I think SBM's ulcer gets the credit for this one.
lol @ Mikki – Girl I understand. It's been a long week for me too. I'm so glad it's Friday!!!
Nikki – exactly. I've been wearing glasses all my life and there are some very fashionable glasses out there and those just don't fit her face.
ok Comeback – u can be his friend – it's hard for me to understand ppl when they're calling u a b!tch, tellin' u to stay in ure place or ya might get slapped, twisting a compliment every which way to make it seem like an attack – i'm immune to toxicity – and that dude was toxic – but some ppl may be addicted to that like britney spears says.
@Coffee Lovers: Has anyone tried the Dairy Queen MOOLatte… I'm sure it's fattening as hell, but it gave my Starbucks frap a run for it's money.
@ Nicki – no dairy queen's round here. the stuff in their commercials looks good though.
@humble – im gonna get a coffee coolatta. not in a fruity mood right now. but it's almost lunch, so maybe i'll just bypass it all together.
@Sheila: Yes, ma'am. Palin needs a fashion eyewear consultant. Quick fast and in a hurry… but it's gonna take me a lot more than than to believe she's educated. LOL.
Cuzzo thats great!! warning that book is a bit "fluffy" but if you can look past the fluffy and take away from it what he is trying to say you will enjoy it, and the stories are real and inspiring, maybe i can get my story in his next book or something.
and yes I will ask him, thank you I agree it is his choice. I think its important though as a blogger or a person in any type of business that you listen to your audience. Its like a famous person who has fans, I am sure if lil wayne woke up and decided he wanted rapping in spanish all his fans would be like wtf? It would be kinda silly for him to be like go learn spanish foo. some might but the rest will just not listen to the music anymore….
did that make sense? maybe i need some coffee hell
@Cuzzo: Dammit! No Ressee Cup Blizzards, or nothing???? Dammmit. I'd have to relocate for that reason ONLY. LOL.
@ Comeback – How low can you go, uh, can you go down low…all the way to the flo'
teacia and jaclynn: appreciate the love…it is reciprocated
what is everyone craving right now? we know what The Celibates are itching for…lol. i mean besides that
im craving taking my motorcycle out. Leaning the bike over, using your whole body to control the machine….being active whole physics of it all…it's amazing.
also craving football…wanna play football. Changing my name to Why So Ocho Cinco mwahahaha…
I'm also craving a really good kiss. Catching a girl off-guard and **boom**. Or like mid sentence when she's talking about something she's passionate about hehehe. Use your imagination
im serious
@whyso: I'm craving something romantic right about now….. It's been sooo long. An unexpected text, a kiss something… LOL. I also love to "make out."
I'm craving the beach…. I just want to lay out and let the sun baptize my body.. I swear those are the best naps I've ever had.
I'm craving this Buffalo Chicken Wrap I'm about to go pick up for lunch (no carbs and it's spicy which means it will speed up my metabolism!!!!)
I'm craving LOVE… someone who tells me they love me and means it…. for the rest of my life.
"@ Comeback – How low can you go, uh, can you go down low…all the way to the flo’"
mid cha….Cuzzo…you don't dip it low on the cha cha LOL!!!!
why so, do you want to be the first member of my detroit meet up group, we gonna have a partay! i will even cook (microwave) the food.
"why so, do you want to be the first member of my detroit meet up group, we gonna have a partay! i will even cook (microwave) the food."
I wanna come. Im from the other D !!!! there will be no christian fellowshipin with out MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
@Nicki Sunshine – What you know about Blizzards? I usually get snickers, oreos, and cookie dough all mixed together.
ok comeback you have to bring the drinks
so we are going to have a hat that you can put topics in that you want to talk about like, the politics, hair grease, and love
im craving live music outside…..
scratch that film alfresco…
se!x too. LOL damn you celibacy.
**I got tix to see the Roots Oct. 7th, yay!!!!! I love Black Thought
**peds is nice because I get weekends off
**mediocrity & stupidity in healthcare is real…and I think some FL hospitals suck
**my bf is too clingy and his cracked pelvis is not an excuse, j/k.
**6pm.com is having a Nine West shoe sale (all shoes are 29.95) and I bought $500+ worth..thanx dad!
@ mikki – i compared the situation to the WB (which I know isn't around anymore) having that annoying @ss frog – ure still going to watch the shows but dammit if that frog ain't get on ure last nerve but now…u can watch ure fave shows, frog-free. ya underdig?
@Humble: LOVES the blizzards… I Stick with Resses but have been known to dabble in the butterfingers. LOL
@Belle: Dammnit! I'm going there now! Love Nine West shoes….
Girl, I've only went to two concerts in my life. One was the Roots and Common.. Need I say more…. had me buying up EVERY CD. LOL
frog-free yesum!!!
TGIFF EVERYONE!
Glad you're on twitter SBM. I use it all the time.
I'm glad this short week is over. I'm not sure why they try to squeeze 5 days worth of work into 4 days. Damn.
I think it's gonna be a ribs/wings and greens for my NFL watching on Sunday.
Go Cowboys!
Have a great Weekend.. Everyone
Have a good weekend Eathan.
@Nicki: only two concerts and happened to be the Roots & Common!?!?! You have great taste
The Roots are amazing and their concerts are so much more and different @ each one..it's something that everyone should experience.
@Belle: Girl, they were one concert… the other concert I've been to was Musiq Soulchild. I was standing up front where I could've grabbed Common… girl it's so visual in my head STILL. HE was doing that song "GO" and says, then I had to pause when I think about her in them draws and…. and he was kinda humping the mike. BOY, you better GO!!!!!!
Loved the Roots. I had never been into them before but ever since girl. I'm in love. Jean Grae also came with them and hyped me up.
@Nicki: lol, I saw Musiq too @ HOB..great concert. How do you feel about his new song "Radio". I'm not really feeling it but I guess he's trying a new sound.
randomness – if i ever met common, i'd have to ask him what he uses on his skin – that man glows.
@Belle: You are right… it's a new sound and I'm not feeling it… But I'll listen to it and purchase it ONLY BECAUSE it's Musiq Soulchild…. I have all of his music and I feel like he doesn't get the credit he deserves like the Ushers and Neyos of the day.
@Cuzzo: Don't he though????
common is my future baby daddy
@Belle & Nicki Sunshine – You guys have excellent taste in music. I have been a fan of Common and The Roots since high school. I own all of their releases.
@Mikki: Aren't you gonna have to fight with Serena???? Please tell me you've seen the pics… weird couple I think, but who am I to say…..
anybody know of any good r & b i can listen to today on imeem? I need something to relax or shake to at work.
@Humble: Why thank you sir….
@Mikki: Have you heard Day 26's album??? the show is cheesy but I really like their music.
re twitter: SBM are you calling me a coffee addicted h#e???
@Nicki: a friend of mine who went to a album sneak peek said that "Radio" is the only oddball track on his new album. I think he's going to stick to the same formula. *crossing fingers*
@Humble: thanks! I'm a Roots groupie
Common is the finest vegan I've seen..his arms are scrumptious!
@Belle: Thank God. Ooh, when does the new album come out?
I didn't know Common was a vegan… yaw think that may be why his skin is so nice?????
nope nicki thanks i will check it out
Hello Fam…
-I am glad its Friday, no work, no class, and I can just chill. Well actually I have a host of things to do for my students.
- Why are young college kids such assholes? They can really get on my nerves sometimes. But I guess its all in the job.
-SBM don't let anything affect your health! Don't STRESS! Especially about things you can't control.
-Why is it cold in Chicago to me?
- I really want to see him. Am I really ready to be serious with him? Maybe I should think about that a little more.
-I need to move this t.v. from my cousins house. Can I carry a t.v. 3 blocks to my house? Ummmm
-Hasani is gone?
- Teacia: Thanks for dropping the wisdom
-Jacq: Perk up there girl!!! Its Friday the weekend is coming just vibe out.
-Cuzzo: I am sooooo late but Happy Bday!
- There is this cutie in my Copy Editing class. LAWD have mercy on me. I have never seen something so gorgeous. He is mixed with everything ( black, white, French, Indian, Hispanic,) a bunch of stuff. This is going to be a good 15weeks….lol.
Cuzzo…i haven't heard or used "underdig" in like 5 years…that used to be my saying…lol.
I like u more and more each day!
Oh yeah SBM I like reading your updates on twitter.
No problem Mik.
@Ms. Devereax: There is NOTHING like some good eye candy in class, ain't it??? Gives you something to look forward to.
Hey Comeback just got on Pandora this is pretty cool!
@ Nicki: Fo sho! He is definitely good eye candy. It helps we sit next to each other. Its tooo many handsome men in this world…
@Ms. Devereaux: Dammit can you pass some to IUS???? I've only had ONE hot guy in my class and I just oberserved him.. I couldn't figure out his sexuality…. LOL.
There are no cute men in my class…but lawd them young tenders be hanging hard in the student green…makes an old bird yearn for younger days…lol.
…as if my ass didn't get into enough mess in Tally…man I miss T-town.
@ Nicki: I attend a liberal & performing arts school so determining sexuality is constantly an issue here. Most of these little babies here are gay. They have no problem letting you know. I have a few cuties these semester on the radar.
Anyone coming to Indy for Circle City Classic this year? Alabama A&M University vs. Tuskegee University Oct 4th. Concerts and parties that entire weekend! They usually get good acts for the concerts and comedy shows
Ms Dev…what it do homie…lol, imma need for u to let ur guard and give ole boy a chance…a chance at happiness never happens by chance…it takes a little effort…oh and honesty.
rant:
I officially HATE lying ass negroes…lol…it's not a good look and it can hurt innocent parties that may be involved. Did I mention that I hate that shit…lol…naggas!
I'm cracking up at Teacia calling them young tenders. LOL… I keep telling myself I'm gonna train up a child.
!Ms. Devereaux: I'm cracking up cause I can see them checking us now. LOL. "No, I don't eat fish, I'm a meat man." But dammit if it don't ruin the fantasy!!!
@Indiana: I've thought about it… but probably not. I've spent up too much daggone money on going out of town already!!!!!
So I just got this in my email…
Now I'm a married brother of six years > from the start I new I had someone special > during this 2008 year my sweet wife have been lacking in 90% of our marriage > no sex, no kisses, no hugs, no vacations, hardly church, no dinner and the house look like sh%#! > but I still treat here as if nothings wrong >
I cook every day > wash, pay $ 3,8452 monthly total bills, get her hair & nails done also sends her and a friend on a sister's vacation once a quarter just to relax and to get away from the kids > but still no love > don't get me wrong > I do what I do for here because I love to spoil her > that's just me! I rise every morning just to find some way to make her day special. She deserve to be spoil > not because she's a stay-home MOM > But as a black man > I need to set examples for my sons > spoil your woman every chance you get! The black woman needs to be spoil all the time no matter how that treat you un return . Love her as Christ loved the church > until he died! We are not responsible for how people treat us > but we are responsible for how we treat in others. Now Michelle O. shows the public how she treats her man in public > but I will give my last dime that every now and then > Mitchell shows Barack her skin tone.
Although the way she looks at him > show how God fearing the both of them are. Submissive in a marriage is just communicating with each-other with pure joy! By the way > I love me some black women!!!!!!! Yes Lord!!!
I find this interesting. It sounds like he is living with a woman who is giving nothing to the marriage, yet he sounds like he is giving 100%.
Is this for real?
@Cuzzo: Shuttup! I can come on here when I please! LMBO oh and " i say hay-ull no to that! that negro has his own blog – if u wanna hear what he has to say, read it on there. that’s for everyone. I for one am not going to sit thru black ppl this, and sistahs are that, ure dumb this…and i’m right that every dayum day." A-FUCKIN' MEN! LMBO…that crap is toxic and takes too long to read…shyt even when i ignored his a$$ i got tired trying to scroll past his comments!
@Mikki: comment #80 – yeahhh, made no sense at all…but u still my homie! LMBO….oh and who said this was a democracy? This is a blog, you can't compare this to voting for the president love. Know where you can get your say? At anitrasplace.net! LMAO…ok, i'm in jacka$$ mode today b/c I am having to force myself to do work. When you get the site back up, I've got a financial/credit tip for you to put on there.
@Nicki: comment #84…been too long for me too homegirl…i mean, i've gotten "taken care of" but I'm craving some real intimacy…some make you smile just thinking about him intimacy…"i want somebody to walk up behind me and kiss me on my neck and breeeaathe on my neck, been such a long time i forgot that i was finne"
@Ms. D: Ain't that about a B???? I'll take him. Divorce her IMMEDIATELY..
Aw sorry, my singleness got ahead of me but yes ma'am… She sounds like she does nothing and is used to him spoiling her so she does not have to even consider doing anything extra.
@ dev's email:
the first rule of fight club: never SPOIL a woman…ANY woman…black, white, latino, asian, martian. Occasional gift here and there, yes. But don't play yourself to impress anyone.
She was probably like this all along. He just ignored it cause she had a big booty. He gave up his "personal authority" and she's walking all over him now.
@Bree: Girl, I got a chill with the "walk up behind me and kiss me on my neck and breeeaathe on my neck”
Something about a man walkin up behind me.. whether I'm washing dishes or cooking but wow…. that gets me.
"never SPOIL a woman"
@ why I was starting to really feel you and your excellent choice and usage of commas and other sentence construction.
but you wrong.. WRONG
@Ms. Devereaux – That email lightweight sounds similar to my last relationship. I can somewhat identify with how he feels. I know a few dudes that are or were in relationships like that.
@Why so serious: the first rule of fight club: never SPOIL a woman…ANY woman…black, white, latino, asian, martian. Occasional gift here and there, yes. But don’t play yourself to impress anyone…does this still apply when you are married, b/c it shouldn't.
@Bree: This is a blog, you can’t compare this to voting for the president love. Know where you can get your say? At anitrasplace.net! LMAO…ok, i’m in jacka$$ mode today b/c I am having to force myself to do work…LMAO!!!!
@ Nicki: I don't sat divorce her, but I do wonder if he is cheating on her. I mean it doesn't sound like she is giving him anything. So he is just taking this and treating her good in hopes that she will get better? Not saying its not possible, but damn.
@ Ms D. I like to look for truths in what a person is telling me esp. as it relates to their beef about someone else. There's always a side he may not be fully exposing. Bottom line I think just like there are self-less women who want to play the domestic Harriett Tubman's, there are men too who want to go down as the relationship martyr. It makes us feel better about ourselves. And he;s also being very altruistic and self-serving because he's not even doing it for her. not only is it for his sons, i think he's generally showing off to others as well.
and I think thats what you get. When your intention isnt about pleasing the other person because it makes you happy, people pick up on that. And in turn –you get what you give. So why should she return the favor? in fact she can't? its not even really for her.
just desserts to me.
Let's see, I joined the SBM fam back in April. At the time, I was working a position that I hated and had plenty of time to read everyone's input. Now, my new role and responsibilities are changing…I'm loving it.
HOWEVER, I wish there was a person who could sum up everyone's feedback. Or am I just missing out on unnecessary drama?
SBM is going to think himself into health issues. What do you call those people who obtain the same symptoms they read about. The tongue is a mighty thing and I feel some people can speak things into existance.
With that being typed…I don't care what the Republicans say or think: OBAMA.
I think I was skimming the comments and read something about glasses and looking smarter. I think glasses make my small eyes pop.
IndianaJones: I didn't know about that Circle City thing, but thanks, I'll google it.
@Ms. D: I agree… How long is he gonna allow this to go on?????
@why so serious – CHUUCH!!! Thats why I said my situation was lightweight compared to his. Dudes kill me jumping off bridges and cliffs for women in the beginning. You set the stage right then. You can't be mad at her for not doing nothing because you never held her accountable or made her responsible for anything.
comeback….
i'll clear it up. Yes, the woman I am with deserves the sun, moon and sky. And I will provide it all…
Spoiling is not a good word. Treating her like a queen – yes. Pampering – ehhh…why not? Spoiling – NO. Spoiling means to me that EVERYTHING she wants she gets, whether good or bad for her and the relationship.
Both of us have to hold up our end of the bargain. If you look through the email, it says that he "treats her the same" and he hasn't brought it up. Communication failure. As soon as he noticed, he should have let her know. The crazy part is the more she treats him like shit, the more he gives.
It just hit home cause I was the guy in the email once, and it kinda hurts to read.
***sheds solitary gangster tear***
@Humble: Are you serious? Why did you stay in a relationship like that for so long? I mean if you're getting the love you are giving in a relationship, why not leave? I understand being in a marriage b/c those are different dynamics, but a relationship you can walk away.
@ Why so: Do you refer to marriage as a fight club? LMAO!!! If so that is some funny shit!
@whyso: Hugging you…. Awww.
Late to the party, but I am at work.
Nicki: stick with lean meats, veggies and a lot of water over the next three weeks. Very low carbs, maybe oatmeal in the morning (no sugar, and not the instant kind with the fruit in it. Sorry). Lowering your carbs will make you drop at least five pounds of water weight alone. You'll be carb deprived, but the good thing is the meat doesn't have to be extra lean. You can even get away with red meat a few times a week, if that's your thing. Make sure you are doing some cardio and light weight lifting in there as well.
And the "woman" in Ms. Devereaux's post has lost her mind. Does she really think she has no responsibility in the marriage except to sit back and be pampered like Cleopatra? The man spoiling her isn't the issue, if you can afford it, do it. But if a man is providing all of the household income, cooking, cleaning and washing, at the very least he should expect to get some every now and then. After all, the Bible does say for husbands to love your wives as Christ loved the church, but it also said for wives not to withhold themselves from their husbands unless they are in prayer.
Im not understanding these men "I can relate" responses. Was I some type of hell's angel in my past life with a harley and a big dyck…
WTF. ***holding my crotch***
@ Comeback: I think you are a little off on your response. He said that for that year 2008. Meaning it could have been better before then. How do we know its not genuine? He said she was a special person when he met her. He is doing it out of his love for her it appears, because that is what he believes he is suppose to do.
Why in the hell do you think he is showing off? That makes no sense to me.
@Comeback: Wow… I just spit out my water. Pure comedy.
@Hugh Jazz: Thank you so much for those tips…. I"m following them, Promise!!!! Is cereal good? I've been eating a bowl of Honey Chex with 1% milk…. The thought of oatmeal without stuff kinda makes me want to gag…..
Jaclynn (yes, in the third person) thinks she's done because the sheer ridiculousness of said situation is too much….and she wants the women to know that she's sorry because she's spoiled a man or two.
@why so serious? – Cosign. I was kind of like him too. Thats why I kind of feel it too.
@Ms. Devereaux – I loved her. I gave her too much credit. I always tried to look at her positives and ignore the negatives. She was selfish the whole relationship and I didnt deal with it properly.
Nicki: In general, some cereals are ok. But if you are trying to lose as much weight as possible in three weeks, ditch the cereal. You'd be better off with a couple of eggs and whole wheat toast.
Ms. Dev
The human condition is a complicated thing. And he is obviously out of synch with his wife. And I'm sorry AGAIN, i don't think that people just wake up and act certain ways. There is the honey moon period, but fundamentally people are who they are. The things he did to court her, may not necessarily be the things to keep her. Expectations MUST be negotiated and stated ALWAYS. its not even clear if they have heart to hearts. Women and Men test boundaries. They play around the edges just to see what you will accept.
I dont read much passion, much romantic love, just duty.
Duty usually comes from the expectation of OTHERS. OUTSIDERS. how a husband, man is supposed to BE.
my third eye isn't usually wrong….ever.
The answer to Ms. D's email is simple…just wake up tomorrow and don't do a damn thing. don't cook don't clean…don't get her trifling ass hair and nails done…ooooh don't even giver hass head cause I know she making him go down. You know what don't even pays the bills that only she benefit from. That will show her just how good she has it.
Now if for some reason that heifer is unphased by his changes then he may want to consider finding someone who actually gives a damn.
She's fucking it up for the masses…cant a get to pay for my hair and nails for shit these days…makes me long for my sponsored days…lol.
@ Humble: I understand that. We tend to walk with blinders on while in a relationship so we let a lot things slide. I have been there bro. It happens… But the key is to learn from our past and to do better in our future.
I have to kinda agree with comeback. There are two sides to every story. He could be doing all this and just the same beating her ass everyday. People tell you what they think they want you to hear and from their perspective and in their head! The case could be that he did all this before he married her and she never lifted a finger and he expected her to change once they were married. YA NEVA know..
comeback …lmao!
Every guy gets burned. We have to, so when we get to the women like you, we know how to make you happy.
Late teens, yeah i admit, I was like that guy in the email. Truthfully, the guy is simpish. Then I "found my edge". Or "grew a pair"; whichever phrase is cooler-sounding…
@Hugh Jazz: Thank you for the tips!!!! I think I"ll stick with eggs and toast.
@Teacia: And I agree.. he should stop now or like whyso said, talk to her behind… hell, she probably doesn't think she's doing anything wrong.
Nicki: I forgot to mention, don't bother with the cleanse. Most of them are BS. Your body detoxes itself. The average person lives in an area where their bodies have to detox 500 chemicals a day. On top of that, most people also don't get enough nutrients in their diets anyway and lose the few nutrients they do intake in the cleanse. Or in other words, they become even more toxic after the detox.
I think she knows she's doing something wrong. I just don't think she cares. I mean if you can run over someone in any given relationship then why not? I mean if that person's stupid enough to believe you and do every little thing you ask…they I say go for it. Yep I think that's what I am going to start doing: I am going to look for someone I can be mean to and force to be my slave, treat them like crap and have everything I want.
Sounds like a fabulous idea…anyone else in?
Oh and whyso…I have a couple of cravings…I'm getting them in order.
@Hugh Jazz: Do you know I couldn't even stomach the thought???? Some girl on a site did it and showed her progress DAILY… I really thought she looked sick afterwards and during.. she claimed she looked good but not so much…. it's like the skin melted from her neck….
@Humble: One of our family members wants you to check your email.
Jaclynn what the hell are u talking bout chile…straighten up…dont be a victim and shit…we don't do that round here nyh.
1. how the hell a car gets tow-jacked…they tow-stole the car..yes ladies and gentleman…a tow truck came and stole my man's hooptie..his second car..and we have no clue where it is..anybody every heard of this
2. Why can't i do spit with my hair…:(
3. I want a cosmopolitan sooooo bad….or a triple martini (crown royal, sour apple puckers, vodka and some cranberry juice)…I want to relax completly.
4. My pockets are tight right now..i got stuff coming up..why I gotta work so hard just to pay my bills…no fun right now…
good afternoon ll
@Teacia-I wasn't talking about anything now you know I haven't become a victim yet and I won't now.
Notice I spoke in 3rd person….I never said I was going to fully start doing that but….well…nah.
ok so I'm typing from phone…sorry for the left out words, mispellings and other things…i promise I will do better on this glorious Friday afternoon.
SBM…u might want to NOT work this weekend…that project is killing you slowly…and your blog family(yes even the fake ones) seem to genuinely care about your health…take a little time for you mister, u can use it.
and please stop saying you have an ulcer and manifesting that garbage in your mind and body.
@SBM-Teacia's right. You are starting to speak it into existence. Think positive.
LMAO@ why so serious comment about he probably ignored it cause she had a big booty
Men can you attest to that…the booty will blind you..lol
regarding the guy with the marriage of 6 years problems
MAYBE THE WENCH NEEDS TO GET A JOB…
So I'm home now…and in need of a long nap.
rants continued:
I'm not that fond of my bf…oh wait apparently I'm single…and just in time for the weekend. I guess it's time for me to dust off my very big black book.
1. My neck is killing me, and my masseuse can't see me today!
2. I was planning on a trip to the beach, but of course I'll be rained out this weekend, here in MD.
3. I realize that I spoil myself way to much, I guess I'm over compensating for something..what that is..who knows…I just like to buy 'stuff'…maybe I'm just a natural born shopper.
4. I'm sick of being my brother's keeper.
5. Did I mention my neck hurts? OUCH! Where's my healing hands when I need them.
UGGH… the work day is finally over. Too bad I have to come in tomorrow 7am! I hate working the weekends. When Barack becomes president I'm sending in a request that all hospitals close at least one weekend a year.
Random thought: Anyone know any good men in Indy….
@Teacia: shuttup.
my rant: I'm a little annoyed that at 4:32 pm on a Friday, i just realized that this presentation my boss asked me to "update" for him (for which I gave myself a deadline of Monday) needs to be completely redone because whoever created it SUCKS! It makes no logical sense, it's not in sequential order, the formatting looks like my five year old put it together, and the case study they used in it isn't even correct….WOOOW!!! Looks like I may be taking my laptop home this weekend…:-( That's what I get for playing around with you doody heads all day yesterday!
MAN I need a drink and a two step!
Funke hey girlfriend where you been !!! I been wanting to tell you about my hair, its doing great and i love it soooo much more now, thank you for all the hair tips I even have people taking note at work that its grown and its only been a few weeks.
*clapping*
http://www.anitrasplace.net
New post is up n running holla back!! off to job 2 I go!!
@Mikki
WOW, I'm so happy to hear that! I've given a few pointers to people and they've been telling me I'm in the wrong profession..lol..and that I should be doing something involving hair, but damn that, I don't even know how to style my own, I just know how to keep it healthy and growing! LOL!
A new semester has started on the plantation..I mean at work, so I have a workload/classload that has been kicking me in the ASS! I'm going to make sure to check out your site!
my rants & raves
- why the hell did Charter have to make a damn deal with the big ten network? that is not good for business.
- is it really possible to diagnose a "syndrome" by process of elimination? for some reason I am questioning this one
- just because he has a girlfriend now doesn't mean his responsibility to help me deal with issues he caused when we were bed buddies and not best friends ends. That really irritates me
- giving up sex this summer is leaving me very cranky
- why does my doctor not realize it isn't smart to hand me 120 vicodin pills all at the same time?
- thanks to my family history, my new diagnosis, and my weight i now have to start eating like i am a diabetic b/c i am that close to being one…
okay my raves:
- I went to talk to my old Credit Union yesterday (that has the BEST online bill paying system) and they are getting me setup with a "get checking" class and then are going to give me an account again.
- I get to go to the Comedy Club tomorrow night – very excited
- It's opening football weekend… I can't wait till 7:15 on Sunday when the Bears kick off…
- I finally got an MRI for my back… yes we are on track to feeling better.
Okay that's what i have for today.
SBM I really don't think the Bison Burger is going to help with the ulcer but I do hope you feel better soon and Twitter is awesome. I hope you don't get bored with it.
Bree I'm just saying…
…if her "friendship" is worth it then apparently I'm not and you know I have no tolerance for uncomfortable situations. And I wish he would stop calling that damn girl dillusional because obviously she's not.
Ah well, ya win some you lose some ya know…there's no love lost…moving right along shall we…i'm in the B's right now…ahhh Brian, yeah he's local…lol.
@Teacia-ummm..calm down girl!
my last rant for the day:
I feel so unattractive today…my curly-fro has been dry as hell lately, i went to work wearing what was clearly late fall/winter gear in the middle of summer in HotLanta and damn near had a stroke, my ass won't fit into any of my jeans, my thighs are still moving after i stop walking, and my skin is lookin' pretty dull…just UGH! I need to resusitate my ego and put some grease on my scalp before tomorrow's staged flirtation with that salesman at that subdivision…pray for me ya'll.
My rants…. Ummmm I went out of town this past weekend and had a ball with my friends and we took plenty of pictures. and we've finally started emailing them to each other.. I'm pissed because no one has pulled me to the side and told me I have been picking up weight…In all the pictures I look big. I'm used to being skinny. I weighed 112 for the longest. And since I've been sittin on my butt in my office for the last 4 years I've gained weight. Not to mention sitting on my butt eating donuts, cookies, and all the other stuff my coworkers bring in. I never gained the freshman 15 but I did gain the 25 year old 20 and climbing which is no joke….. Luckily it was going to the right places….but now I'm ready for it to stop because my hips will not stop spreading… Is it possible to lose weight in the boobage area???? They won't stop growing either… I was always heavy chested but a 34DDD???? This grown woman weight is no JOKE!!!!!!
@ Tea – u always writing something that has me scratching my head. I'm all at the other end of the lunch table and ish.
@ Bree – no, the frederick douglass fro is not a good look. lol. I have those days on more than a few occasions.
I'm chillin…
Cuzzo pay me no mind girl…this too shall pass.
@Cuzzo: I'm going to see my stylist tomorrow for a conditioning treatment and a trim…that should revive my curls. Im complaining but four men have complimented me on my hair today…
@Teacia: r u aight homie? i'm sorry..want me to throw rocks at somebody?
I'm watching the cosby show (alone on a Friday nigh *sigh*) i want to be Claire Huxtable when I grow up.
@Teacia-Seems like me and Bree are wanna throw rocks. It's so fun especially when on the playground.
@80s-LOL try 44DDD Shit bites.
@80's & Jaclynn i am not going to put my size out there but I will say that even Lane Bryant doesnt make my size… custom made bra's right here kids… yeah it sucks.
and when I talked to the personal trainer last week at the gym he said that most people who want to lose weight in their chest don't… sucks.
@QB-I am cool with not losing in the chest…I, umm, kinda like them. Damned QB…what the hell?
@Jaclynn the weight loss in the boobs was more towards 80's… sorry i should have specified that.
) I kinda like mine too but i do wish they were smaller… not small just smaller
No yall im good…i napped it out. Aint nothing like a late afternoon nap to make everything seem ok.
@QB-Sorry I was wondering the same thing. But it's cool. If I were smaller then mine could be smaller.
@Teacia-Hey girl, good I'm glad you are feeling better.
DAMMIT!!! , this song is making me miss my uncle. It happens at such random moments. This is going to be a weird Thanksgiving this year without him. Damn death has no heart. It takes the good ones even when they deserve to be here. RIP Uncle Kev…
rant con't: I was talking to my very UN metaphysical bestie last night and this heffa got vision board!!!! is the world coming to an end??? lol
happy saturday peeps.
someome mention me?
I cant go to boxing for a weekend without cyberspace gossip goin rampant?
anyway…. for rants.
SBM: no your not too young for an ulcer. ask any other black man out here…. all 2 of us, ulcers are quite common for the mmid 20's. hell i had a blissful lovelife a home lots of friends and lived in the suburbs and I still developed a very bad ulcer. Eating habits, genetics, lack of important enzymes to process the food we eat and lets not forget the STRESS we have from the women in our family like aunt bunny or just the stress of being black and working every day to ward off the stereotypes and how everyone in corporate america is waiting for us to fail.
my rant.
I dont know how I feel about splitting the payments with the next woman I am going to live with. had a talk with a woman this morning. she claims if we lived together the house payments should be split by how much money we make. as in if I bring home 4000 a month and she brings home 2000 a month she should only have to pay 250 of the 1000 mortgage since i make double what she does.
I am not sure how I feel about this.
if you dont like people talkin about what your doing…. change it. if you think hearing that black people need to do better and you think hearing that is "toxic" I wonder what you would regard callin your black man "fool" unprovoked is? oh wait I forgot…. we were laughing when you called me a fool just like I was laughing in my retort and just like Don Imus was laughing.
its become totally common to talk about black men as though we are 2nd class citizens. even on a blog where black men wanna come to talk about our own issues our opinion seems to matter less at times. makes me sad but it is what it is right?
Dont pull the im a frail woman please save me card… when you want to bark like your a big dog out here on cyberspace. I would say to apply the same logic to real life as well. men are rather big. black men are even bigger…. we are very gentle and compassionate though but only when your the same way to us.
theres nothin better than a black man if your wanting a lover and a partner, god created us this way.
I dont even see a reason to talk about politicts anymore. we all know the states with smart educated people in it are voting democrat and the states with hicks and with lower education will be voting republican… so the only real debate are the flex states. If your black and living in a place with other black people are…. your electoral votes are already decided so no reason to stress imo.
if you wanna talk to me about something though… everyone has my email and half of you have my phone number.
I work in a server farm, I have over 30,000 IP addresses and proxy servers
Thanks Hassani for the rant I have one on this wonderful weekend. So I called the po po's on my roommates because they were drinking and cacklin and hacklin blasting music til 2am. I warned them I had to work in the morning and have done so for the past 2 weeks. So the last straw was last night when they ignored my last request to shut the hell up.
The silence in the room when the police came was priceless, but now there is a hit out on me and kitty (pinky) because I called the cops to scare them and make them settle down.
Now me and pinky are staying at a friends until we this this situation cleared up, i have no intentions on messing up my pretty lil face because of 6 girls from detroit wanting to cut me.
*Cue the music*
its so cooold in the D, how the flip do we spozed to keep peace!!!
hope everyones weekend wasn't as crazy as mine!
I'm on the computer when I'm suppposed to be doing homework… I'm already three weeks behind in Chemistry because my book HAS STILL NOT BEEN RECEIVED! ARRRRGH.
@Mikki: Sheesh, doll… be careful.
@ Mik ok… They got a hit out on you and your cat. This is too much. So you and the cat are on the run?? what is going on?? i can't take no more blogisodes please be safe !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Go Cowboys!!!