Another week … another Friday … another set of rantings
- Its been a looooooonngggggg ass week. The job ranks #1 in the list of causes for this. The blog hasn’t caused too much drama as of late … seems like people are learning to get along. Go figure.
- Comments been going crazy. 171, 400+, 200+, 300+ … nuts. I have nowhere near enough time to really keep up with all of them … but I come in and keep up when I can. Damn near more interesting than my posts … lol.
- I really have to thank everyone for the love I’ve been getting. Actually helps me get through the days and gives me that warm and fuzzy feeling inside. Group Hug everyone …
- I’m not going to work tomorrow to go to a convention over at my alma mater. Really looking forward to it. Should really help and put a little motivation in my personal pursuits.
- I really hate Simps and Tricking. More than ever. The terms will never get old and they will never be played. Hell … as time goes on it seems they get more and more relevant. These sad sad individuals are messing up the game for us real guys out here.
- Why is not wanting to waste money on drinks for random chicks an issue? I mean … if I’m standing in line and chatting with the chick at McDonalds, should I pay for her #5 because I’m trying to get the number. And I swear if one more chic says some stupic sh*t about “you shouldn’t be sweating $10 anyways … don’t you got money” … yeah chic … I got money! I worked hard for it and why am I wasting it!
- I officially stopped sleeping. I think I got 6.5 hours one night this week.
- The plan is for a big redesign of the site this weekend. Will it happen … maybe … but lets hope I’m not lazy and don’t do it too big this weekend. I do got plans … just nothing crazy.
- Speaking of tricking and whatnot … Junior over at Seven Strangers talks about the problems of these chickheaded individuals. I liked it.
- “Chicken Chicken … Chicken Heads”. Project Pat has been and still is one of my favorite rappers. He was one of the first to let the world know about these chicken heads.
- If you haven’t added me on MySpace yet (http://www.myspace.com/singleblackmale) … do it now … why you fakin?
That’s it for me. I’m up at 12:45am still doing work … but I’m living.
RANT!
i.am.first. YAYY
Rants:
Schools is getting crazy rediculous for the second week,but eh, i'm surviving.
The EX-Boo is galavaniting around campus like he's big shit,when he's 2 feet tall.
Life isn't the best both of my grandmothers arent too well, keeping them in prayer is all i can do right now.
Next week is gonna be better. I promise myself that
Given I will pray for your grandmothers to get well *hugs*
No rants today maybe raves
1. The auction for this property I want to buy starts today and I will be bidding online for the next 3 days, talk about torture eh? I really hope I get this house its going to be a big motivational tool to keep me on the grind to meeting my goals.
2. Moving out on Saturday shouldn't be to bad
hmmm thats really about it shat im glad the week is ova!
Ms. Freckles Rants for Friday…
1. The inner-bitch in me does not want to attend the BF's brothers bday celebration this weekend. I don't like his behavior, he can be a complete asshole to me more times than not for NO REASON, and I think he's a hot lazy mess and is a user!
2. I don't have enough closet space and I'm outgrowing my bedroom second by second with clothes everywhere! I can't focus like this!
3. Why is homosexuality the "in-thing" in schools worldwide now? Where are these kids parents at!
4. Was anyone else totally taken back by this young black guy on youtube claiming to be Palin's daughters REAL baby daddy? I really hope that young man isn't lying because he's setting himself up for trouble if he is lying. But if he's not…*smh*. Even though I'm not a fan of Palin (at all), it isn't right to drag her kids thru this.
5. I don't mean to sound prejudice when i say this because I like everyone (for the most part)… but foreigners CANT drive! OMG if one more foreign cab driver almost tears up my car trying to switch lanes at high rates of speed without looking first… I'm going to lose it! Who passed them in drivers education?!?!? And why!
6. On a lighter side of things… I got a wonderful night rest last night. However, I still need my starbucks and a bottle of water.
I have more but will refrain…
Enjoy your weekend!
@ Mikki – Good luck on getting the property. Stay encouraged.
@ Given – I hope your grandmothers get well soon! And next week will be better.
I'm praying for Given and your grandmothers.
I don't have any rants… more like random thoughts.
1. I'm crackin up at Ms. Freckles #5…..
2. Why am I having second thoughts about going to see the ex??? What did I really purchase a plane ticket for?
3. Miami—– November 14 (I keep telling myself.).
4. Before I turned 25, all I had to do to lose weight was stop eating, that doesn't work anymore… why????
5. Were are all the men like me at???
6. Between a baby shower, wedding dress shopping (with TWO different chicks) and chemistry homework, am I gonna have a weekend?
7. Part of me wants to tell everyone to kick rocks and turn off my cell phone this weekend.
And it's raining…. blah.
@Mikki: I'm praying for you and your house (yes, I just said YOUR).
I gotta dig REALLY REALLY REALLY deep for my positivity today. But imma try.
1. I am grateful for writing this rather large check for services NOT rendered. I love these two home associations. I love how I have not one BUT 2. I just love that. I can easily see where all the money goes.
2. Its time to do that corporate furnished housing idea I had for this house two years ago. I think I'm ready for a move.
3. I am deeply grateful for everything I have. And thusly because of the first two grati-rants i need to listen to lots of hayhouse radio today.
4. Ike Ike Ike…..chill out. Simmer down in the name of Jesus. This is serious. national weather says people in the low lying areas and in and around galveston face a "certain death". I pray all those people are getting out.
5. There are 8 million unregistered black voters in this country. Where are these people living? Do I know any of them? I hope somebody lets them know that no democratic president has ever won without the black vote.
6. I need to get wihma's edges trimmed. I hope I dont fall off of the big "C"'s wagon. lol
@ Mik good luck. I wanna do that in NC. There's tons of stuff to buy alot under 20k and many even under 10k at some of those auctions. If I had of really stayed focus back in 2002 in bmore. I would have been in bali rite NAH sippin on some damn mai thai's.
Thank you Ms Freckles Nicki and Comeback, the bidding starts at 9am and ends Tuesday morning. Hopefully the weekend goes by really fast so I don't worry myself. This is like ebay for housing lol.
30 more minutes!
I have a goal to own 20 rental properties by the time I am 35. Then I can retire!!! yippy
oh yea and i didn't get to make dinner last night but I left a card, money, and a stuffed animal for him. still waiting on my thank you phone call…..
Go Mikki. You can do it. don't let no pen!s stop ya nah. I could have been very close at 27. But if you want an assistant holla at your girl
oh and I already told you …get your re license in some of those neighboring states in MI. And if anybody is a re in NC please contact me.
I read that this morning about last nite. Its ok Mik. I think the card was a good gesture. And the money was good too as long as you didn't give him the nookie, then he woulda felt like a prostitute.
@Comeback: Why is penis stopping her?
@Mikki: You can't do things "waiting on a thank you call". Sigh …
My rants or riffs
1. I have a few repairs on my house that I need to take care of before winter. I am not looking forward to spending the money or doing the work.
2. After watching parts of the RNC and listening to news shows and etc. I am convinced that some people in this country are pathologically selfish and hypocritical.
3. I need to buy clothes this fall. Hopefully I can make a shopping trip to Toronto. I'll get to see my family and get new gear.
4. Something is telling me I might be moving from Detroit for another job next year.
5. My birthday is this weekend so I should be nice tonight and tomorrow night at a discounted price.
why do white people wash they kids clothes til they like 30+ ???
@mikki…good luck girl! my mom does that a lot with Hud properties…edge of your seat kinda stuff.
@given…i hope your grandmothers get well suga
lemme see if i have any rants or raves today…hmmmm
1. I hope my daughter gets all of her spelling words right today, she worked really hard all week on them
2. I have a lunch date with that real estate agent, i'm hoping it goes well
3. I'm super duper excited about my bday in two weeks!!!
4. I keep waking up with heartburn…wassup with that?
5. I'm really re-evaluating whether or not its worth the $200/month for my daughter's spanish immersion classes, *sigh*
6. I kinda wish I had someone to cook a big meal for on Sunday and then cuddle up next to and watch some football
7. I look so cute today
8. BRING ON THE WEEKEND!!
lol @ sbm what?? don't get me started now, I am sure if you did something nice for someone you would be wanting to hear from them. Don't play
Umm…it looks like Niagara Falls is coming off the side of the Capital One building…
For anyone who knew, I spent way too long being awake and since I am scared of thunder, lightening and high wind…sleeping has been a b#tch down here with the streetcar rain and wind whipping around buildings.
Haven't found a place to live quite yet…but umm…this hotel is pretty nice.
Ex's will make you want to go to jail, cause I'm sure I might've ended up in Orleans Parish Prison last evening around 6pm.
Ex's can be good…because well sometimes they still love you and they do what it takes to see you happy.
I like sleep. I love the weekend and I have a surprise for someone which I hope makes them smile.
@Mikki-I co-sign SBM here. You can't be "waiting on a thank you call"…he did you a favor, you thanked him. End of story. Also I'm three blocks from a Hustler store I can buy you a pen!s and send it to you.
hehe.
Well…since I am on a work hurrication again…back to well….bed (I think)
@Mikki: Not just white people. My younger brothers (mind you they aren't 30, but them NAGGAS are in their 20s) are so damn spoiled… my mom TAKES CARE OF THEM… it pisses me off…. they don't eat unless she cooks, she washes all the freakin clothes… and there is a A LOT of them… they don't help. I just want to choke the shiz out of them (and my mom for doing it!)
Bree you a libra?
@mikki…didn't you say he had a function last night? and it's 9:00am…give the brotha a minute, lol.
@humble…did you see the Daily show when they pointed out some of the hypocrisies by republicans? it was HILARIOUS.
Nicki thats some crazy ish right there, my momma neva washed nada dang thang for me and my bro, we was lucky to get a meal lol and when we got old enough George (forman) was like our new best friend lol
@mikki…yes, VERY much so
lmao Bree I get nervous lol, alright im calm
@ Bree…wow that is cool about your lunch date. IMHO the spanish classes are worth it. Young kids seem to really learn foreign languages quickly when their little. I can still remember alot of stuff STILL from being like 8.
@ SBM …when you're tryna REALLY do big things, peni!s can be a huge hinderance. HUGE. And the better it is the worst it is. Or maybe I was picking the wrong unsupportive distracting MF'ers.
Bree that is soooooooo cool my B day is October 14th woot woot *doin the cha cha*
@SBM – Get some rest this weekend.
@Houston people – I hope you're getting to higher ground because Ike ain't no joke.
@Everybody – come get your online party on–warning turn your volume down or up:
http://sheliagoss.com/2008/09/12/day-4-its-friday…
"when you’re tryna REALLY do big things, peni!s can be a huge hinderance. HUGE. And the better it is the worst it is. Or maybe I was picking the wrong unsupportive distracting MF’ers."
Comeback you not lying, had I done the do I think I would be a ball of mush (Well dependin on if it was good). Men sho kno how to f some stuff up when you on the grind. SBM I know you get distracted at times, its in our make up.
Given – remember God is still in the healing business–prayers for you and your grandmothers.
Mikki I'm glad you're moving because it ain't safe with you there.
Ms Freckles – I think he just needed a little attention—and he got it. If he is the daddy the baby will come out with some black features.
Comeback – shake the negativity off today—somebody come to you with some BS…tell them you don't even want to hear it.
Bree – have fun on your date–be yourself…listen and observe.
Jaclynn–exes can drive you crazy…but also remember that your ex ain't worth being on lockdown—lol
@ Mik that is so true. This goes back to Jolie's comment yesterday, men say they like ambitious women but then when you really tryna do it super huge, all of a sudden its not cute. This could go back to fykin out of order. Cuz when you're really intimate with somebody like that-yall should be each other's BEST cheerleader not hater.
@ Shelia happy bday
@ all the libras-happy bday to yall as well. Why it seem like people on here got bdays every day. LOL
Thanks Comeback Girl – Virgos are in the house!
@Mikki: Girl, I don't know what's up with my mom… she's become a bit pushover-ish.. when I lived there, I tried to lighten the load on her and help her out but these lazy naggahs (including my little sister in college) are the worst.
And dang, I was waiting to hear how that lasagna and salad won over.
@Bree: OKKK… did I hear Lunch date?
I love virgos Shelia. I hope you partying it up big this weekend
btw. ….I love yall libras too (thats the opposite of my sign)…but how the hel@l yall celebrating early like pre-cusp and shyt. Yall out of order too!!!
@Sheila: I"m listening to your station. This PRINCE reminds me of high school… it was our theme ('99 graduated).
1. I baked the best batch of peach cobbler ever last night…but now, damn, why are people trying to stick me for my cobbler? LOL. I told my sister I baked one last night and I wake up this morning to 7 emails from family members in the area, "Can I come get some?". Yes, this Jersey girl can throw down when it comes to making a cobbler w/homemade crust.
2. My brother is finally getting his tall ass out of my house! On Oct 2 I will shout for joy…but of course I had to find the place for him.
3. I'm truly contemplating visiting an infertility clinic.and buying some sperm for $450. Especially after I found out my insurance will cover the whole artificial insemination procedure!
4. As much as I hate facebook, this week I came across someone I had the biggest crush on in high school and he lives in my area! #'s have already been exchanged!
5. @SBM you better get yourself some sleep! Stop trying to burn the candles at both ends!
Nikki–my family and friends know I love me some Prince. I think I was in junior high school when I first heard a song by Prince and been listening to him every since.
Aww comeback we Libras love you too! the only thing I really know about my sign is that we are about balance and sometimes that drives me nuts.
Nicki yea I am glad my mom didn't cater to us, I can't imagine being a spoiled good for nothin brat lol. People like that think your always suppose to do for them.
Comeback I can guarantee having sex would have thrown me outta wack, sometimes I can't deal with to many things at once, either I am all in love or on the grind. If I found a guy that would be cool with me doing me, that would make for a wonderful life…….
Nicki I am thinkin I will still do the dinner, for myself this weekend.
@Shelia – What up virgo!
musings cont'd…
1. ok how the hel!l is my mother giving ALOT of my clothes away at her house. I was kinda hoping that my room would a remain a shrine of Comeback (untouched, unscathed)…is that selfish???? She got people calling me thanking me for "this really cute dress" that I haven't worn in 7 or 8 years. Im not mad about the clothes but Im really feeling like she's turning MY room into something thats not mine and getting rid of all of my stuff in the process….if ANYTHING happens to my light bright, barbie condo, or barbie mini RV…somebody is going DOWN!!! today.
lol…where is my deepak chopra cds. lol
Jaclynn I understand I shouldn't be "waiting" on the surface your right it is end of story but in the back of my mind nothing can progress if i dont get the phone call, maybe i should have worded that lil better.
@Humble One – I didn't know you were a Virgo too. Sending you a cyber wave.
@Comeback…thanks luv…I only start re-evaluating the class when it's time to pay for it, lol. There is another class thats only $50/month but it's only 50 minutes per week and its not total immersion, my daughter's class is 3 hours a week and the teachers do not speak to the children in English. I'm considering moving to a spanish speaking country in a few years so I want me and my daughter to get as fluent as we can beforehand. Plus her little sister is half mexican and will be spanish speaking as well. I've been teaching her a bit here and there since she was little, but i'm not that fluent. As for the libra love THANKS…you must be an Aries? I was deeply in love with one, gotta love the opposites. And the only reason I'm celebrating all early is b/c this will be a milestone bday for me…turning the big 3-0
@Sheila…thanks luv…will do, will do.
@Nicki Sunshine & Mikki
"I am glad my mom didn’t cater to us, I can’t imagine being a spoiled good for nothin brat lol. People like that think your always suppose to do for them."
Whats even worse is that most people that get spoiled growing up don't grow out of it. They carry it well into adulthood.
@mikki…i gave Ms. D the rundown about libras a couple of posts back…not sure which one it was…i'll see if i can find it.
@[fung'ke] Dang I want some cobbler too? Where you live? LOL. (just playing, fellow dieters)
@Sheila: He makes some sexy songs…. I haven't gotten turned on to him so to speak… I bopped his radio hits.
@Mikki: Me neither girl… I'm the oldest, so I always believe in pulling my weight. I've been working since I was 15… my little sister, in college, has the luxury to not…. well, not luxury, bc my mom "acts" like she's getting on her, but someone my sister's phone is still on? I guess the phone fairy is paying for it.
I'm cracking at Comeback and her barbies.
Comeback I feel you, clothes can go but the lightbright must stay!!!
*cue song*
Light Bright, Light Bright, turn on the magic of colored lights! Shining friends, shining bright, make a wish to say goodnight…"
1. My bday is officially 30 days away and counting!!! Oct. 12th woooo hooo…LIBRAS STAND UP!
2. My daughter and I have completed 3 books, 97 more to go before the end of the school year…yaaaay *sarcastically*
3. Things are great right now, but God is good and I know it will be alright.
4. The scare was a false alarm…again I say God is good.
5. I really need to be responsible with this lump sum of money…Mikki girl take my hand, I may need your help on this one.
6. I have 2 five page papers, 3 chapter summaries, and a video critique due on Monday…and I haven't started on shat…lol.
7. Tomorrow I have to paint the 3 walls I've declared accent walls in my house…not sure how I'm going to do it all this weekend.
8. My daughter is going to the O for daddy-daughter weekend…yaaaaaay(for real for real)…I can really use a break from the day to day.
@Breelicious
"did you see the Daily show when they pointed out some of the hypocrisies by republicans? it was HILARIOUS."
I did see that. I was cracking up at it. You think you could get that type of humor on fox?
Wtf? I wish someone would wash my clothes. Argh. this weather make me mad.
Oh snap Teacia our bday is 2 days apart!!
I got your back Teacia on the money thing, now come on don't make my pep talk go to waste nah!! email me if you need help!
stay strong….
@teacia…girrrrlll….who u telling (#8) Zian is going to daddy's for a week after my bday…i am COUNTING DOWN!! LMBO
about #2, what kinds of books are these? are they regular children's books? I read two books per night to Zian, so in a months time we could get through 60 books (if she didn't insist on reading the same books dam.n near every night) sometimes she reads one to me and i read one to her.
ok guys I am officially the highest bidder!!! woooohooooooooo
@teacia…i'll be right behing mikki with the pep talk…put some away, pay something down/off, and use a some for a minor shopping spree (you'll be unfulfilled if u just use it ALL for "responsible spending") LOL
Sheila: I am riding out to this MJ's, "Don't stop till you get enough"
Bree: one time for deeply loving while simultaneously hating those damn Aries…I knew she was one too when she said that…shout out to my mom, daughter and baby daddy…ALL ARIES…and ALL drive me up the wall!!
@ bree…im a taurus..im really slackin on my astrology pimpin…don't yall have venus as your ruler??? maybe thats what i confused.
@ Funky…im tryna figure out how to make a really small minature peach cobbler-5 inches in diameter. if I ate that stuff even once a week I would be as big as a house-literally.
@ mik how much longer do you have to go…sometimes there are people how come in at the very end. Thiniking your azz is sleep and overbid causing it to go into overtime. But you got access to the mls, there is probably tons of stuff you could negotiate with banks and stuff.
@Teacia: Talk about that school work girl… we are in the same boat!!!!!!
@Mikki: Clinking champagne glasses for ya!!!!
@Teacia-Deep breath….good. Yes, do well with that lump sum of money…think long-term
@Bree-Congrats on that date.
@Comeback: yes Venus is our ruler and it's a beautiful thing…that's why loving and being loved is so important to us…it's also another reason why folks are attracted to our spirits…YAAAAY for Libras!!
Teacia – I made a CD and I'm about to head out myself so I can get the hair done, nails, etc. I will see y'all online later.
Happy Birthday Shelia and my fellow Virgos!
Rant – It's HARD being a single parent.
I hope it doesnt rain Sunday, I'm still celebrating my bday.
Comeback I will be watching the bidding like a hawk, I get email notifications when some one out bids me and they allow 2 minutes over time once the bidding is closed, it ends Tuesday morning so I may not be sleeping for the next couple days.
And no i don't have access to the mls because I am not in the association. Its costly to be a "realtor" and I don't have money like that. My broker isn't in the association so we make do with what we can, sometimes i call up my friends in the business to look stuff up for me but thats the extent of it.
@ tea and bree..technically im on the cusp of taurus/aries…i think im more taurus though–with venus and all. You know what they say about venus ruled women.
"And no i don’t have access to the mls because I am not in the association. Its costly to be a “realtor” and I don’t have money like that. My broker isn’t in the association so we make do with what we can, sometimes i call up my friends in the business to look stuff up for me but thats the extent of it"
hole up…somebody @zz needs to be in the dam!n association. How is he an agent with an office without SOMEBODY having access to the dam!n mls. seriously yall need to go half on that sh!t. thats important.
seriously. for real. im serious.
seriously
Teacia you are right about the love thing, but I know one thing about me is that I have no problem cutting folk off who aren't returning the love. Thats one characteristic I am happy to have.
@Mikki: congrats on the bid…good luck for it continuing throughout the weekend…you gonna have to give me some pointers on this owning property thing…i'm not ready to buy my house to live in because i'm not sure where my spirit will find happiness and feel complete yet but i would like to start looking at rental property.
@ Bree: oh wait, I didn't respond about the sexy agent…no congrats in order chic…he would have been stupid not to set something up…so I guess I'm sending hm a congrats for getting it right this time…lol.
@ Jaclynn: when are you going to move chic, hotels are nice and all(stayed in one in Tampa for like a month and I didn't want to leave)…but at some point you gotta make up your own damn bed.
@ Nicki: Stay strong chic, I'm with you…my boss thought I was taking the day off and so she did all of my work before I got here…lol, so I'm going to sit here on the clock all day and do homework
**sidenote**
Ohhhhh shit, "summer, summer, summertiiiiime….time to sit back and rewind" Girl Sheila I'm jamming over here!!!!
**end sidenote**
@ [fung'ke] [blak] [chik]™
Can you Fedex overnight some of that cobbler to Detroit?
lol Comeback you can be a broker without being part of an association, its very expensive for brokers to have that which is why they charge the agents up the wazoo to work for their companies. The only down side about not being in the association IS the mls, and the fee's aren't justified especially when I am not working that much. If i need something I just call up another agent and ask them to get it for me lol. my bad for being cheap……
or is it??
@Teacia: Hey hey now… that's good stuff.
I'm just praying my boss doesn't saying anything crazy today. I've had to call on JESUS…. loud for the past two days…. he can be a smart ass.
@Cuzzo
"Happy Birthday Shelia and my fellow Virgos!"
Thanks, Cuzzo. What day is your birthday mines is the 14th.
Wait HE's a BROKER ????!!!!
that dont make sense to me. How the hell does he find out what's listed????
if somebody walked in yall's office today and said I wanna buy a house. what do you do? what if they wanted to know how long it was on the market? if it had ever been listed before by the same owner and for how long and at what price???
i don't think thats very smart.
seriously.
@Mikki: being that I was once a licensed realtor(expired this summer) and an avid online bidder, i'm here to tell you that you need NOT bid on this property continuously…it only drives up the price and may cause you to bow out earlier. my advice is to set your alarm clock 2 hours before it closes and then enter the bidding war…that way it won't drive the price up. I know it looks good to see your name next to the "highest bidder" but it's only and ego thing…play smart miss lady.
Why can't I edit my comments?
Humble you can't edit it after someone has already posted a comment…and your b-day is on Sunday?!?!
HAPPY EARLY B-DAY MISTER!!
*jamming out…"candy girl, you are my world"…."oh, oh sheila"…now that's funny*
@ Humble – mine's was the 3rd. (and yes, my papa WAS a rolling stone)
@teacia…chile u is my mutha-f-in girl! ya heard! LOL
@cuzzo…girl, it's IS hard…i would SSSSOOO never do it this way again, I don't understand how some women have child after child without a husband. I promise ya'll this, the next time i have a baby, it will come AFTER a ring, a ceremony, and a fresh driver's license with a new last name!
@Cuzzo – lol. You know I'm from Detroit so I laughed as soon as I read your post. Happy belated b-day.
@Teacia – Thank you. I am not into the horoscope stuff but I am curious. Which sign do virgos match with?
For a Friday full of ranting, it's a lot of love going around.
Rant/thoughts:
1.) This week my department at work was audited, ahhhhh I wanna strangle one of the auditors throat. Ok, I'm good now.
2.) Waiting to see what the future holds for my website, great numbers yesterday thanks to the great readers of this site (thank you all who checked it out yesterday)
3.) Power of the P*55Y on the site today, please give me your thoughts.
-JM
http://www.MrSwagger.com
1. I need two handymen, one to scratch the itch and one to do some repairs around the house – homeownership is not all glitz and glamour, but I thank God for the roof over my head anyhow.
2. I look fwd to seeing my homegirl this weekend, its been about 4 years or so.
3. Am I the only woman out there who hates going to malls? I feel so claustrophobic in there, and I just know my homegirl is gonna want to shop til she drops, aaarrrggghhh!!!!
4. I think Americans should feel bamboozled by the Republicans, what's the deal with this Palin chick? You can't be serious!
@mikki…teacia is right…i'm no real estate agent, but i frequent ebay and that's the best strategy
HAPPY BIRTHDAY HUMBLE!!!!
Oh Teacia I know chile It really was an ego thing to be first lol, I am chill I am not a crazy ebay bidder like mommie lol. I am just excited to watch what goes on. I have a cap anyways so if it goes past that I am just assed out, can't pay what I don't have since its an all cash deal.
Humble…happy birthday!!!! how old are you. I'll do your chart later.
I tried Ebay twice… Lost and have never tried again. I'm such a sore loser and I hate taking chances. LOL
i'll do mik, bree's and tee's chart later.
And Happy Birthday Humble.
Comeback I think people give mls way to much credit first of all everything thats on there you can find at the assessors office, and well you can get that online.
We don't actually have an office, he works full time as a property manager for a 123 unit building he owns, he sole business isn't selling real estate and neither is mine, i just wanted to have my license in a spot where if i needed to use it I could without having to pay any rediculous amounts of money.
If someone calls or ask about a property I usually get the info from the assessors office. If someone wants a bunch of listings I call a friend and get everything extra that I need to know about the property. What more do you need lol???
OH LAWD YA'LL…why is my car insurance bill $387 this month?!?! I bought a new car and added it to the policy and a two weeks later sold the old car and took it off the policy. Mind you my bill is usually $65/month…WTF!!?!? I'm just watching my new and improved salary being wisked away to feed other folks kids and buy other folks the fly a$$ pair of leopard print peep toe shoes i've been watching in Aldo for a month…***DEEEP SIIIGHHH***
OH LAWD YA'LL…why is my car insurance bill $387 this month?!?! I bought a new car and added it to the policy and a two weeks later sold the old car and took it off the policy. Mind you my bill is usually $65/month…WTF!!?!? I'm just watching my new and improved salary being wisked away to feed other folks kids and buy other folks the fly a$$ pair of leopard print peep toe stilletos i've been watching in Aldo for a month…***DEEEP SIIIGHHH***
…i''m not sure why that posted twice…sorry
I am so sorry Bree do they have buyers remorse in your state? you can give the car back lol
ok mik…if it works for you. I do know for a fact that the assessor does not have other valuable listing info, to me I want to know how long a house has been on the market. I want to see if there were other contracts submitted that have fallen through. You can;'t get that from a tax assessment online.
i forgot that your boss owns property, he;s definately not maximizing his ability to really help other investors do what he did or is doing.
but again if yall's strategy is working. Work it.
Imma do some numerology/astrology on somebody's azz today. it appears Humble does NOT want his chart done. Is there anybody ??? church???
@Comeback, Breelicious, and Nicki Sunshine – Thank you. I appreciate all of you.
@Comeback – I'm 30.
so you'll be 31??? on sept 14? do you have a time of birth? were you born in detroit. holla back. hurry up.
@ J Swagg: we've come a looooooong ways…love up in this piece is a HUGE deal…lol. Read back just 2 weeks if you don't believe me. Oh and will be checking out your site as soon as I finish at least ONE chapter summary.
**I really need to manage my time better**
@ Bree:my health insurance sky-rocketed this month, forced me to make a few serious financial decisions last month so I wouldn't be drowning until this extra cash came through.
**you never really know how bad things are financially until you have money and still feel broke**
@Comeback: waiting for the chart
@Humble: I only know that my first love(and everything else) was a virgo, loved him to pieces…even put HIS sign on my class ring so I wouldn't forget him. Yep I'm the Libra walking around with the scales engraved on my stone on top, my grad year one side, and a lady in hay with Virgo written over her on the other side. In my experiences Virgos are hopeless when it comes to love, they will completely lose themselves during the task of loving and they take it hard, real hard when it doesn't work out.
tee i need time and place of birth. if you dont have it its ok. but it tells me your rising.
Hello SBM.NET
You know I usually dont buy into the rants and try to stay positive. BUT:
1. I need to worry. but i also need to stop worrying and rely on my faith. God doesnt give you more than you can take, right? Right
2. I hate nosey people. STAY IN YOUR OWN LANE SIR
3. My finances well… i read in glamour that a lot of women who make a certain amount which is deemed to be doing well struggle.. so I guess I'm in that boat. Had to sell off some of my stocks. I am really thinking of selling my house, giving up my worldly possessions with the exception of clothes, shoes and jewelry and moving out of the country. This will definitely be in the works if things dont go right in November
4. I am doing my hair today. Getting a mani/pedi, a wax..etc.. maybe I'll get lucky. I am breaking the celibacy chain and going after mine.
5. Scratch going after mine. .I aint no hoe and I dont go down like that. I am hoping to meet someone of substance this weekend.. PRAY FOR ME
IN general SBM.net.. pray for me. I have somehow put myself in what we call a jam and I need to find a way out. The Lord will lead me in the right direction I know he will..
I will Pray for you all that you receive all the things and achieve all the dreams that are in your hearts. I dont know any of you but PRAYING for others is what I do..
YAY weekend
@Comeback: I was born Oct 12, 1979 at 5:27pm…it was a cold winter morning in the great State of Florida. I was born in a hospital in Jacksonville and then wisked to Louisianna 6 days later(which is where my parents actually lived) and where I recieved my social security number.
Mikki, is there a buyer's remorse where I can give my social security number back in exchange for a new one…mine is old and played out…lol
Comeback, your right to a certain degree I am not saying you don't need that info, what I am saying is if you DO need it just call n ask for it realtors are really nice people and if they find folks that are interested in a particular home they are more than willing to share. MLS Does not show broken contracts, it shows history of listings ie how many times the price may have changed or not change ect….
the assessors office shows how many times the property actually changed hands. Its working for me right now, since I don't pay anything to keep my license active, once I get into realestate full blown I will be a bit more interested in the mls and what nots. I really just use the license to get into properties I want to see. I don't have to call people and make appointments and things of that sort, if i happen to make a couple deals on the side thats great too but I didn't get the license for that reason I just wanted it for when the time came for me to do my own investing. I hate waiting on folks
@Comeback – I was born in a suburb of Detroit. Time of day i'm not sure of. Something is telling me 3:14am but I would have to look at my birth certificate to confirm.
@teacia…i've never dated a virgo, but some of my closest friends are virgos and what you said is SO ON POINT…my girl gives up her entire self (mind, body, soul, time, AND MONEY) to every dude she falls in love with….and she goes THROUGH it when things fall apart..let's just say after one breakup we had her on suicide watch and after another one, she was having panic attacks all the time…
also…yeah, i really thought I was going to be wallowing in the dough with this new gig, but i feel like everybody i have an account with got together and said "bree's got more money ya'll…we need a bigger cut" THEY'RE PLOTTING ON ME…but i won't let 'em. I don't think my car insurance bill will be $390/month, i think this was a one time thing…so, i'll be ok
@mikki…i'm so not taking this car back…i'm lovin it…besides my old raggedy car that i was more than sick of has been sold for way more than i ever thought i would get for it, so…
@comeback..i want a chart i want a chart!!
I know this is a bit weird, but Jolie I just said a silent prayer for everyone's prosperity on this site, but I put in a special request for you and Given…you know JC is my homie.
And yeah casual sex is overrated, one time for substance…that is unless you need to break off a little stress…lol.
ok Tea is first. Since I got her info. people I am NOT being nosey. I need place and time of birth (converted to GMT) to get the actual position of the rising.
I'll be back later on this afternoon.
@Comeback – birthplace is Southfield, MI
Humble I just saw your time.
I NEED YOU TO CHECK YOUR BIRTH CERT. THIS IS VERY VERY VERY VERY IMPORTANT.
call your mama, daddy nem.
lol @ Teacia no I think you are stuck with your ssn #
Jolie you are in my prayers
Humble you was born at providence??
@teacia…um…october isn't winter dude, lmao
@humble…something is telling you 3:14..that's kind of random for a guess, lol
@comeback…i was born in tallahassee on a monday evening on sept 25 around 8:00, don't know the exact time.
exact time is important.
I'm just feeling like 6figures is no figures when you extend ya self out to much … I need to PULL MYSELF BACK IN .. step into realities of it all ….
BUT ANYWHO … I think I am gonna go to bartending school I needs and wants a part-time
lmao @ Bree pointing out Teacia's exaggeration about winter
@Teacia
"I only know that my first love(and everything else) was a virgo, loved him to pieces…even put HIS sign on my class ring so I wouldn’t forget him. Yep I’m the Libra walking around with the scales engraved on my stone on top, my grad year one side, and a lady in hay with Virgo written over her on the other side. In my experiences Virgos are hopeless when it comes to love, they will completely lose themselves during the task of loving and they take it hard, real hard when it doesn’t work out."
Interesting. Very interesting.
Bree: ummmm yeah, so we talked for about 7 months about you getting rid of your old car…why did I NOT get the memo when you got a new one. you know i had you on "regaining my convertibility" watch while i was waiting for the ink to dry on the paperwork…i'm hurt.
oh and next year, i'm upgrading my convertibility…thinking about a new model, keeping it red though and the 20 inch rims have to be transferrable, those b*tches set me back $2300, and i'm riding them until all four crack in half…lol. but the 07' should have dropped down to a decent wholesale price. *note, always buy cars from a wholesale dealership, knocks the price down like 40%**
Joile a lot of people make 6 figures and still find themselves broke because of all the payments. Car payments, insurance, house payments, gym payments, student loan payments etc…
also if your house is 35-50% of your take home pay that could be where a lot of the strain is coming from, do you think you could get your money out of it if you sold it?
is this gonna be my day to preach?
@Breelicious
"i’ve never dated a virgo, but some of my closest friends are virgos and what you said is SO ON POINT…my girl gives up her entire self (mind, body, soul, time, AND MONEY) to every dude she falls in love with….and she goes THROUGH it when things fall apart..let’s just say after one breakup we had her on suicide watch and after another one, she was having panic attacks all the time…"
It has never been that deep for me.
"something is telling you 3:14..that’s kind of random for a guess, lol"
You got jokes, lol. I think that is it but I haven't look at my birth certificate in a minute.
@Mikki – Yes I was born at Providence.
Yaaaay, i'm first and BREE that was before GLOBAL WARMING…remember it snowed in Florida in 1989…it used to get real cold back then when I was growing up. Remember going to the fair in October around my bday and freezing my ass off….NOW we got ice caps melting and shit, hurricanes reaching category 5's and shit, sea currents dragging shit under never to be discovered, forest fires burning up the half of the west coast, while the other half is slowing slipping away into the sea.
…i'm just saying, it was a cold winter morning in the great state of Florida…lol.
humble did you go to southfield lathrup or southfield high? you are the same age as my best friend, I am wondering if yall may have known eachother because she group up in southfield too right across from lathrup.
Bree what kind of car is it? im nosey how much did you pay for it???
@Mikki – I was born there but didn't grow up there. I grew up on the northwest side of detroit. 6 mile.
oh ok so what high school did you go to? the house im trying to buy is over in the area i think your talking bout brightmoore sorta kinda. My house thats being rented out is over of 96 n telegraph, I used to live over that way too west is the best!!
@teacia…you had me on watch cuz i was checkin your myspace status updates..apparently you weren't checkin mine b/c it said "i'm not ridin' in the raggedy mirage no moe'" lol. oh and global warming or not, there has always been calendar dates for the seasons and fall is Sept 20th – Dec 19th…drama queen…but i get it, a "cold winter" morning sounds better than a "cold fall" morning, lol
@comeback…then i'm out of the game until i can take a peek at my birth certificate…my mom would have no clue
@humble…she's an extreme case, i would hope you're not that bad…but my experiences with her and other virgos are that they are very devoted to the ones they love and their friends, usually pretty well organized to brinking on neat freaks, love maintaining lists, can drop friends like flies, and have an ugly bad side.
@Teacia
"*note, always buy cars from a wholesale dealership, knocks the price down like 40%**"
I have never heard of a wholesale dealership. What is it? Are you talking about new or used cars at a 40% discount?
@Bree: uhhh no, we chatted online as well if i remember correctly, i could be wrong though…but intyway girl you know i don't be on myspace no mo…i don't have the time with all the happenins up on here. i would like a brief description of said vehicle reaching my hip via text in 5-4-3-2….
@ Humble: an 07' would be a slightly used car sweetie…lol, they're used cars and their usually higher end vehicles, i got my first wholesale vehicle back in 02', it was an 01' convertible(limited edition) with 14,000 miles on it for which i pd $15,000 for, the normal dealer tag price was 23,000…the car i just bought is an 04' with 37,000 miles on it…i pd for $9,800 for it and put half of it down. my 07' will probably run me about $15,000 again, but my car is worth more than i pd for it, so it will eat up a few grand off top and then i can chill out with that version for a bit…the 06' is probably the model i like best and next year i can get one for $12,000.
…just google search wholesale dealership + your area
dude six mile and what?
im six mile and lahser area….Or "Lasher"
man this is hitting hard. DETROIT WHAT!!?!?!
@Mikki – I went to high school at the the blue prison on wyoming. lol. I was suppose to go to Redford. I stayed about 5minutes north of brightmoor. I had friends back in the day from brightmoor. I don't know if it still is but back in the day brightmoor was kind of wild. What part of the west side are you from?
@teacia….we did chat online…i hit you after i saw your myspace status. *sniff* but i see u don't check up on me like that *sniff* i'm playing… oh btw, nikki wanted to know how it went so text me about that
@mikki and teacia…it's an '06 PT Cruiser…I've never been too fond of the outside appearance of those cars but i rented one on a trip to Tally and loved loved loved the interior. i was renting cars every month to drive home and this was the only one i liked enough to keep an extra day. the inside feels like an SUV and it's the perfect mommie-mobile. I refused to get a black one though b/c i think they look like baby hurse's. It cost about $10K before fees and had about 40K miles on it, i think…i was not planning to buy a car b4 i bought a house but this one didn't put a dent into my monthly budget at all and i was starting to feel like i was gambling everytime i hit I285 in my raggedy mirage…the outside of the PT is growing on me
@jolie…it's a financial psychological fact that the more we make, the more we spend. if we could learn to live off 80% of our salaries, we would be all good. a lady called into suze orman one day, she made $200+K per year and was living check to check…lawd!
@why so serious
"dude six mile and what?
im six mile and lahser area….Or “Lasher”
man this is hitting hard. DETROIT WHAT!!?!?!"
That's my hood!! Did you hoop at the playground on Lahser next to the cemetary?
@mikki: it will be on the market shortly best BELIEVE …
Next house I buy will be with my husband.. FIRST I gotta find a husband…
lol
Anywho .. enough of being depressing. ITs friday!!!!!! What is everyones plans?
I'm painting the town red, green, blue and orange and I bet I will only spend about 20 dollars.. ITS all about the pre-gaming !
lol @ why so, we used to actually live on lasher right off grand river a few blocks from the playground and the ymca.
@humble I have no idea what that is lol but ok, I didn't go to reford I went to murray which is also closed down now *tears* why they have to go n shut down the pilots huh…. anyways I moved a lot so I was everywhere except for the east.
Brightmoor isn't so bad its just a lot of houses that need serious help, the one I found right off finkle (check spelling) that has 2 bedrooms the actual street seems rather quiet and a few older couples live on the street but for the most part its well kept and would make for a great rental, heck if i had to i would live there, trust I am not gonna be buying any houses in the city that im to afraid to live in myself.
@Breelicious
"she’s an extreme case, i would hope you’re not that bad…but my experiences with her and other virgos are that they are very devoted to the ones they love and their friends, usually pretty well organized to brinking on neat freaks, love maintaining lists, can drop friends like flies, and have an ugly bad side."
Thats crazy. A few of those traits you listed apply to me.
@mikki – Are you from the same hood too? You are talking about the YMCA on 7mile and lahser right?
@why so serious – Did you go to Crowell?
@ humble…
yeahp! lol i balled there sometimes, either there or at Crowell rec. And yes, Brightmoor is still off the hook.
something about that area of the city has produced champions. any person who has clawed their way out of there is doing good things now. trial by fire my friend.
@Teacia
"an 07′ would be a slightly used car sweetie…lol, they’re used cars and their usually higher end vehicles, i got my first wholesale vehicle back in 02′, it was an 01′ convertible(limited edition) with 14,000 miles on it for which i pd $15,000 for, the normal dealer tag price was 23,000…the car i just bought is an 04′ with 37,000 miles on it…i pd for $9,800 for it and put half of it down. my 07′ will probably run me about $15,000 again, but my car is worth more than i pd for it, so it will eat up a few grand off top and then i can chill out with that version for a bit…the 06′ is probably the model i like best and next year i can get one for $12,000."
I understand. I know up here if you can get a dealer's license you are set. You can go to the dealer's auction and get late model used cars cheap. At the dealer's auction you can cars cheaper than you stated.
Bree suzie has a radio show?? where I want to listen to her, I have been wanting to find out the difference between her and dave, I tried to read one of her books but I couldn't get with the question and answer type of format she was putting out. it would be interesting to hear her ideas about finance.
Yep Humble I am from the same hood lol 7 mile n lasher. My mom actually goes to rosedale baptist on evergreen n schoolcraft. we been all up n through that side of town lol brightmoore will rise again!! lol
@Humble:
yeah but you either have to already have a check in hand for a dealer's auction, either yours or the pre-approved one from the bank. if i had the discipline i could have saved up the money in lump sums i recieved this year alone, but i lacked that discipline earlier this year. something about the last 2 months though have gotten me really thinking about the future and my financial state.
i live a modest life, my townhome is a stone's throw in the bucket compared to what other's pay and even my income…i decided to get a place less than a mile from my job and 5 miles from my daughter's school. i only spend about $40 on gas every 8 days or so, but i throw away TONS of money on food and leisure…i'm always taking my ass somewhere. i need to sit my ass down and chill, just not for the next month or so, a trip to miami, atlanta, dc and tentatively jamaica are planned for the next 6 weeks alone…2 of which are certain trips. *sigh* Mikki, i'll do better i promise.
Why did i wake up this morning to find the tom joyner morning show replaced with some dude called deez nuts??
i like this dealer wholesale thing. But what the hel@l is their margin. how are they makin money? Im a hater when it comesto buying wholesale,…i wanna know errybody's take.
@Mikki" I'm cracking up. I think that's Rickey Smiley.
yeah…detroit what what!!!!…hmm funny stuff. why is that so funny to me? seriously.
@nikki: we have the same haircut chic..and yes mam you are rocking the hell out of yours…you look good girl.
@comeback: they buy them at auctions, they only pay 20-30% of worth and then sell them at a 160-180%markup on what they pd…it's a flip like no other.
**just finished video critique, chapter summaries here i come..i just might get most of my assignments today**
@mikki…no, they called into her talk show…she has a few books that aren't question and answer format. she actually annoys the hell out of me, she's VERY knowledgeable but she's just annoying and i don't agree with some of her views…(i.e. you should never buy your kids gifts just b/c, you should tax their allowance, etc.)
@teacia…hey, i'm planning to be in DC oct. 25th, when r u goin?
lol comeback just hush.
lmao Nicki yes its Ricky Smiley have your heard his show? I tried to listen to it for a minute but sound was kinda terrible I know its a syndicated show but come on now whats he doing recording in his basement?
I want the Tom Joyner morning show back, either that or I really need to buy a cd player for my car. The programmer of our radio show decided to give Tom the ax and well ok I know the station is geared towards younger people but really?? Deez nuts??? come on now??
"160-180%markup "
DAM%N…im in the wrong industry.
@Teacia – I feel you. I want to rent my house and buy a loft. My brother and I are planning on starting a business too. I am pretty good with money so it's not going to be too hard for me to get the money. The hard thing for me is sacrificing or prolonging getting a muscle car, bike, and a new daily driver. I also want to go to Ghana and England. So I just have to put all those things on the backburner until business is taken care of.
still havent started my hair…. I HAVE TO GET GOING ON THIS !
Ladies lets start a dealership and publish some half naked bootie calendars to cross promote. (tasteful half naked bootie calandars.)
@Bree: the 12th…my bday weekend, Kiya is supposed to be swinging down from Delaware, you know her b-day on the 21st of this month, so we're celebrating together. The weekend of the 25th i'm supposed to be in Jamaica but we may have to postpone that until December when I'm off for 3 weeks(college closed) because of several BIG midterms…still don't know why my dumb ass is taking 5 damn classes. *sigh*
@Comeback: where is my chart?!?!?
Humble where do you want to own a loft at? Downtown has some nice ones, I know when I own a loft down town thats when I will have made it big time. I will just call it my office. There are these ones on woodward that I adore, it has starbucks on the bottom level. I just keep dreaming that I wake up every morning put on my house shoes and go hang in starbucks all day.
hey comeback isn't that what you do?? lol
thats gotta be the life….
"@Comeback: where is my chart?!?!?"
ADD deactivate. i'll be back in a few.
"hey comeback isn’t that what you do?? lol"
not quite…almost. no house shoes.
@Teacia: thanks doll! I must say you are rockin the MESS out of yours too… your face is gahhh-jeous dahling.
@Mikki: You are soo funny. Girl, I tried listening a couple of times, hoping, I'd hear some funny prank calls but he seriously has some nonsense on that radio show…. I think Tuesday is baby daddy day and they have people calling in for paternity tests… and it's true…. and foolish.
@Comeback: I'm with it. Hey, I've showed enough a** for free, why not for a dollar???! LOL.
@Comeback
"i like this dealer wholesale thing. But what the hel@l is their margin. how are they makin money? Im a hater when it comesto buying wholesale,…i wanna know errybody’s take."
Their margin is huge. To get the dealer license you have to pay the fee and have a certain amount of land to be able to call yourself a dealership. I think you also have to pay $10,000 bond or insurance fee. I am not sure exactly which one.
@humble…is there a particular reason you want to visit Ghana? Do you have family from there? I'm just curious. I have a friend whose father is currently running for President of Ghana and the way he talks about it, I want to go as well.
@nicki: i wanna see your hair…i LOVE short cuts
@Comeback: a good place to buy cars on the cheap and flip them is from Title Loan places. Once people default on the Title Loan, they repo the cars and send them off somewhere and sell them for cheap b/c of course they aren't in the car selling business.
@Bree: Are you on myspace ma'am?????
Ok thanks Nicki for the heads up so I don't waste time trying to listen but now I am mad that you told me its a hawt mess, I am going to call the radio station and complain, he just got added this week so nobody will have time to miss him lol. I mean i wouldnt be so upset if i had a choice of other stations but its either deez nuts or the country music station and well……
@Mikki: Oh Lord…. Can we say cds only???!!! I can't listen to the country stations, girl.
@Nikki: she's in my Top 4…she's 30 Times Betta Baby or something like that…lol, and thanks chica you're a little doll yourself actually, love the eyes *quietly jealous and seething with envy*
…my cut was much shorter about 6 weeks ago when i cut it MYSELF, but now it has grown out perfectly and I love it, I love it!!
lmao Nicki I know I know, I don't have a cd player in my car but you know I have had the budget on a tight grip so I am trying to relax enough to buy me a birthday present and I really think a cd player for my car is what its gonna be. I just don't want to do anything with my money until I get word on getting this house. If that does't happen I will go ahead and splurge on myself but until then I can't spend a penny.
So far im still the high bidder yay! but its only been a few hours lol. When I get this house I am gonna throw myself a party.
@Teacia… I'll look her up and send her an add… thanks girl….
You cut it yourself???? Now I'm jealous! Girl, it grows so daggone fast I swear my beautician is getting my money. LOL. Luckily she's my friend too, so I can get a little help there.
@mikki: how much are you trying to spend on it, and ummm please send me an email on exactly how you're pulling this cash deal out!!!
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now I know why I can't stand ebay
@Mikki: what about a cd player on ebay????? Girlll, it's a must if you don't want to get stupified by popular culture (deez nuts!). LOL
@Mikki – I want a loft downtown or midtown. It really doesn't matter. There are industrial neighborhoods all over Detroit that could be turned in to lofts. I thought I would be able to do it next year but it's not looking good.
@Breelicious – Yes, I have family in Ghana. Actually I want a home there just off the strength of the pictures i've seen. My cousins come back and always tell me they had a hell of a good time. There is also a lot of opportunity there.
***Listening to Hayhouse while working****
"Joy creates success"- Christiane Northrup, M.D.
Nicki I am so not a fan of ebay but that may have to be the route I go, cd players aren't expensive at all im just being a stickler lol.
and you cracking me up today, hell to the no i don't wanna become stupified by deez nuts!! and I like nuts but dang!
Teacia its a VERY small amount about $3,500 which in detroit you can come across these properties all day every day in detroit. Thats why you don't even need to take out loans to be an investor here. I plan to do all my deals cash the fix up on this one is going to run about $6,500 or less depending on who i get to do the work and with my new found savings disipline its pretty easy to do, much more so when im not in debt which is why im working my way out before i do any more deals, but this one in particular is pretty much a money maker no matter what, my mom is already claiming she gonna live in the house lol. Sad she dunno i don't rent to family lol.
@Mikki: LOL. I'm not a fan of ebay either… try amazon.com. Now that I can endorse…. No bidding!
Mikki: my vote is for craigslist, they're so oversaturated that they're practically throwing shat away!!
Now, I've heard good things about craigslist. I've never used them personally though.
Teacia yes craigs list is the ish, I almost moved to DC for a job from craigs list lol. I have sold a lot of things on there too me and my homie are addicts. The other day I told my mom to find her a boyfriend on there lol. She bout passed out but then gone say "why did you find one?"
lmao
"The other day I told my mom to find her a boyfriend on there lol. She bout passed out but then gone say “why did you find one?”"
your mama and my mama are SISTERS. I told her she needs to get back out there and GET A MAN!!! she told me to find mine first!!! and stop worry ing about hers.
lmao Comeback that sounds like my mom, why we gotta be first? last I checked she was older than me lol.
My mom as old as she is, is still particular about her man. But she has every right to be because she looks good for her age and she is so young hearted. I already know she gone have to pull a Stella because the men her age just aren't poppin.
*tapping my foot* …still waiting on that chart.
deep conditioner on … making progress..
Teacia you will have your chart (according to Comeback's add chart) by October 2nd
"My mom as old as she is, is still particular about her man. But she has every right to be because she looks good for her age and she is so young hearted. I already know she gone have to pull a Stella because the men her age just aren’t poppin."
my mothers vagina is closed for business…FOR EVER.
I AM WORKING ON IT. I WAS TRYNA GET SOME ACTUAL WORK IN.
hold your horses.
lmao Comeback please tell me you are lying please please say it aint so!!! ask her to reconsider, we can take are moms on a vacation some where to help them out. As long as my mom is single she will be forever ringin my phone. Last night she called right in the middle of the presidental forum talkin about her and her girlfriend getting into it over some book.
I can't take it….
great podcast…this would be great;
"um hi ma…um so yeah…i was on singleblackmale.net and we got to talkin about your vagina.."
hilarity…i should do it.
…holding. *arms crossed while reading chapter for final summary*
@comeback: PLEASE DONT DO IT .. DONT DO IT GIRL!
leave mama alone..
what y'all doing this weekend .. since its just comeback, bree, nicki and micki on here today.. and i think humble..
@ jolie
DO NOT VAGINA DOUBLE DARE ME….
its done.
podcast will be up Monday.
chapter title(no lie), man i swear the relevancy of this blog and my life is mindboggling at times…lol:
Tricking and Tripping: Fieldwork on Prostitution in the Era of Aids
…damn Jolie, it's like that…naggas!
Hello Folks,
My rants….
-God is still good despite the obstacles that I can't see through I know he has my back as always.
- I was craving ramon noodles this morning and they were really good.
- I am TIIIIIIIRRRRREEEEDDD.
-Why did my friend call me at 4am from Spain? We are not on the same time zone. Luckily I love her.
-He is just to good to be true. I really have to manage my expectations with this one. Letting it flow…
-I think he might be jealous, but he got a chic. Men are crazy. But we always got love for each other.
- I want my mommy. I need a hug from her and to be held. I want to hold my sister. I think I miss my family.
-Pray for my aunt and cousins, they are having such a hard time grieving my uncles death.
- I love my grandma, she is soooo cool. I want her to live forever. But I guess 90yrs is a pretty long.
- I wish I could keep up with the comments more.
- Someone needs to clean up my apartment!!!
- My copy editing class is going to be the DEATH of me. I HATE EDITING. I don't have an eye for it. I don't see details. DAMN!!!
Thats it for now, I have to get ready to have 1-1 with my residents.
@comeback: SMH .. SMH>> poor mommy ..better get those "Jesus Love me Pump" ready for sunday … cause you gone need Jesus after this
lmao comeback you aint right, Imma send my mom to your site that will be funny.
yea jolie it looks like its just us everyone else is mia today. I have to go get the key to my new apartment today, so i can move tomorrow. Then I am going to my girlfriends house. We are gonna go have drinks at this local spot here in town with a few of her friends last time we went it was really nice, I might spend the night over there. Work on Sunday.
@teacia: ahhh damn .. how i forget you … SHAT
TEACIA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What you doing this weekend, pimpin!?
-Some of my friends can be real assholes at times. I often want to curse them out lately, but I don't because I know they are just being ridiculous. However, they do push me to that point.
-I really need to stop cursing.
Ms Dev: if you want to STOP cursing, then you must stop talking to me offline, cause my black ass will shame even the devil at times…lol.
Jolie: well ya know pimpin ain't easy these days so i'm gonna lay low…lol.
and now that i have most of my homework almost complete, i'm going to pick up the kid and take her to the princess room at my spa to get her nails and toes done…she's been on green for the past 4 weeks and i think she deserves a special treat…then i'm shipping her ass off to her daddy for the weekend. for the most part i'm going to lay low though, maybe buy some new REGULAR cotton sheets with a higher thread count since apparently i was allergic to the ORGANIC ones i spent a grip on…now ain't that bout' a bitch.
oh and laundry…my hampers(yes plural) are overflowing…can't put this shat off any longer.
what about you?
@jolie: to comment #179: I have a baby shower tomorrow…. and chemistry homework and two girls want to go look for wedding dresses… and church, of course…..
I have no time for me so far so someone MAY be getting kicked to the curb. LOL… looks like that dress shopping may be it.
@Ms.Devereuax: from one sailor mouth to another…. it's an everyday struggle.
@jolie fatale
"what y’all doing this weekend .. since its just comeback, bree, nicki and micki on here today.. and i think humble.."
Partying, volunteering at company picnic, studying, and shopping. What are you doing this weekend?
@Teacia: and yes… my laundry is also spilling over….. Now that I have MORE room in the place, I throw clothes in the other bedroom after I've taken them off (I'm CERTAIN that's not what it should be used for)
omg my co-worker just asked me what is it that i keep getting into online (this site). I told her its news about the presidential forum last night.
lawd i betta get offa here lol SBM can you metamorphosis this site into a news site with mcaine's face on it for next week incase someone needs to verify lol?
I am going to a Happy Hour tonight after I finish my darn hair then whereever the wind blows me. THEN, tomorrow a friend is throwing an event supposed to be mucho kappas there so I gotta be on my A GAME .. update to come on MOnday .. then church on Sunday to repent for my weekend sinning..
@Mikki: Your co worker needs to stay in her lane!!!!! LOL.
@Jolie: LOL @ "then church on Sunday to repent for my weekend sinning." Since I never go anywhere in this WACK CITY, I should be pretty church'd up by the time my Virgina Beach and Miami trips come…… lookin to break even. (Ha. I'm just kidding!)
washing out conditioner.. NOW The hard part… talk to y'all later!
lmao Nicki no you didn't say "break even" you are straight going to hell for that one lol
I gotta a feeling somebody is gonna be tellin my boss by Monday, it beez like that around here, nobody minds they bidness.
oh well may as well live it up now, I might not be here next week lol
@Nicki: what's the reason for your trip to Miami in Nov…just leisure?
@Mikki: I know, right! LOL…. I am taking that back…
Wow, I have DEFINITELY been in one of those positions before. Like a friggin high school, some people… Nothing to do but keep stuff started, throwing grease on fires.
Does anyone else listen to Wendy Williams? I listen to her online and am addicted! Our radio stations are pretty bad, so I listen to a lot of stuff on the internet.
@Teacia: for my birthday… pretty much, just leisure though. All I need is any excuse to come to Miami. I love it (if ya'll can't tell. LOL)
rant – people in line at the post office – use the automated machine if you're shipping something that's already packaged or buying stamps! hmph. I abhor waiting in line.
@jolie fatale
“what y’all doing this weekend .. since its just comeback, bree, nicki and micki on here today.. and i think humble..”"
I usually hit this happy hour spot across the street form my house on Fridays.
But now I am going to grab some lunch and make a few stops and when I return Im gonna do Teacia's charts. Hopefully they're accurate and thangs.
@ SBM – "Its been a looooooonngggggg ass week. The job ranks #1 in the list of causes for this. The blog hasn’t caused too much drama as of late … seems like people are learning to get along. Go figure."
it only took you having to put ure foot up somebody's @ss. thanks
rave – I've saved enough money to hold me down, if I ever had to sit on my @ss for 6-months. yay!
@Nicki: Yeah i love Miami…I frequent it quite often…my bestie is in medical school down there, and being that it's only a few hours away it's never really an issue. i'm thinking of going next weekend, got the hotel booked but not sure if i feel like driving…now if he PROMISES to drive then we may have a plan…lol.
@Comeback: Uhhh yeah, please don't stay home and do my chart, it's not that serious…I ain't going nowhere, whenever you have the time is cool with me.
**i realize that i speak real geechie on here, even though this isn't how i speak in real life…i wonder why**
@Teacia: Medical school? How on earth doe he concentrate??? LOL…. I can't even begin to describe what it does for my state of mind…. It's an all day Calgon bath.
Is Florida like that period??? I promise if it weren't for those daggone hurricanes, I'd move NOW!
hey ya'll!!! did ya miss me for the whole hour I was gone? guess not b/c somehow 8million comments appeared in my absence.
Send me a friend request Nicki, I'll gladly add ya!
So, just got back from lunch with the real estate guy…it was…ok…it confirmed why i didn't want to do lunch during the week, felt like we were networking.
this weekend, i am going to a bachelor's party, hitting up a 30s bday party, cleaning my house, babysitting my neice and nephew, going to church, and working on some business plans…that's about it
@humble…i've heard great things about ghana and ghanaen men. we're having a going away party next weekend for my homeboy's brother, he's moving back to help his father with the campaign. should be exciting. i'm waiting around to stow away when he goes back for the celebration after he becomes president.
oh btw, craigslist is THE SHIT…i've gotten free furniture, bought cheap furniture, sold stuff, gotten babysitters, and made two long-term friends off the site…it's the coolest thing ever
Lol…it's a she, and she's a very focused individual…then again when you live in Florida your entire life it wears out it's luster a little, you just become used to it I guess. I love Florida and don't think there's a better place to live for me. I couldn't give up the palm trees and beaches, the waterfront apartments, homes and condos…it's just how I like to live.
But yes, it's like that in a lot of places, however most of the state is country land though, just the 8 or so major cities are like that….but Miami has nothing on Palm Beach, Coral Springs or the Keys…it should be ILLEGAL to live in such beautiful places all year round.
@Bree: I hope that was you I sent one too. LOL. Ah, lunch… so nothing romantic there at all???????
@ Bree – oh yea – some of those African men are the shiz-nite. I like Nigerians personally.
craigslist all the way baby. I've also bought furniture from there. Never sold anything, I have better experience with selling on eBay.
@Breelicious
"i’ve heard great things about ghana and ghanaen men."
IDK. That could be the reason why my mother married one. lol
@Nicki…you pretty-eyed hefia you! LOL…LOVES the haircut! just Loves it!
@teacia…yeah, my English sucks on here too, lol, just tossing around "ain'ts" like it ain't nuthin
@Nicki again…yyyeaaaah no. lol…he was nice, we had a nice time but it just felt like networking. maybe i'll suggest we go somewhere fun on a weekend or after hours. i just didn't feel anything and i'm sure he didn't either. but it was a nice time. lol, we invited one another to our bday parties (his bday is a week or so after mine).
@Bree: ooooh a Libra man huh, now that could make for some passionate fun between the sheets….mmmmm, so umm yeah…good luck with that. And ain't that damn Nicki pretty and shit…with those crystal clear eyes of her and shit *HATING*
Ok folks i'm out…going to pick up the kid and do the princess spa thing…and i finished ALL of my chapter summaries and the video critique. the papers i will tackle tonight and tomorrow…shouldn't take me long since i already read the books….yaaaaay!
Be easy my good folk of SBM.net!!
@teacia…trust and believe i took note of him being a libra which is one of the only reasons i'm going to see to it that we give it another go….girl, my thighs are clenching just thinking about the power of a double libra entendre!!! LOL yeah…the baby's daddy was a libra…and well…let's just say, if i didn't have good sense, he could get it right now in my company's bathroom!
yes, nicki is a cutie! now, why exactly did i get left out in the cold the day we were doing the calendar? pretty a$$ shy heifas! LOL
@Teacia: Well bless her and matter of fact, I wish I was her. Is all of FLorida prone to the hurricanes?
I can't wait to graduate, I PROMISE I'm moving somewhere really nice.
Have to go back some runs for the boss. I'll check back in a few folks!!!!!
@Bree: Thank you girl. LOL… I haven't checked your page out yet but I sure am gonna.
1)Holding to two school organizations as president + Academic work as a nursing student (Pathophysiology exam on Monday)+ Holding down 2 jobs+ Having early meetings on Saturday and Sunday+ juggling a boyfriend= A tired Andrea
2) Pops hit me up out of nowhere..wonders what he wants…I'll check that voicemail once I decide to give it the time of day
3)People who drive 50mph when the speed limit is 65 mph…why?!!!! there is no one in front of them, traffic is moving briskly, they are in a car…why must they drive so slow.
4) Guys who just want to be friends, but get their boxers in a bunch when they find out you have a man…. get over it
5) My cell never having service because my campus is all they way in the mountains…"can you hear me now?!"
6)I want to go out tonight and shake a tail feather…but can't..see rant #1
I think thats it.
One of the things that always brighten my day is reading this blog..lol..good work SBM and enjoy the comments.
So folks I'm in Linen and Things cause they're going out of business and I'm try to figure out which sheets to get…Egyptian cotton, Sateen cotton, Pima cotton, Bamboo/Cotten blend…some lower thread counts are softer than some of the higher ones and I'm just freaking overwhelmed w/o only a Duvet in my basket…leaving now to go to the Spa. I will be back tomorrow w/o Alex so that I can thoroughly concentrate on these damn sheets.
Oh and SBM.net has gone mobile…it's much easier to upload on phone now…enjoy guys.
SBM: ur seriously going to have to put me on the payroll…for real for real.
@Teacia…yeah, i saw they were going out of business last weekend, i need to go get the air mattress you'll be sleeping on. i wonder if they still take Bed, Bath, and Beyond coupons…hmm….
my ran for the week.
sara palin wants to be vice president of the usa.
politiciant sling mud.
sara palins first address to the country she slings mud at the boys in the democratic side…. she does a good job she looks "cute" and wins points for her team by claiming to be a tough hockey mom and as rugged as a pit bull.
Barrack obama makes a reference about a pig and lipstick.
the whole country is turned upside down for 2 days talking about how wrong and sexist is is to call a woman a pig……..
ARE WE SERIOUS HERE?!!?
has this country regressed 40 years yet again? this chick gets up and blasts off on barrack for a half hour directly talkin about him but if he even says anything that could be misconstrued as talkin smack to her its sexism and wrong??? so we are saying we want women to have equal rights but not be treated the same?
we trust this chick to run the most powerful military in the world but we arent even comfortable with her getting in a mud slinging contest? how is she supposed to face down vladimir putin and the castro brothers?
HAIR DONE! Happy HOUR! .. Have a good weekend folks
@Bree: I wish you luck with that guy. I checked out your myspace page. You are a beauty, ma'am!!!!!
@Teacia: I just racked up in Linens and Things this past weekend!!!!!
Nicki be my friend!!!!
@mikki: you on myspace????? or look up Nicki Sunshine.
Greetings from the big ol' salty people. I came back to Birmingham today and I think I'm gonna chill…I bought two movies: Unfaithful and How Stella Got Her Groove Back and I got some books and bubbles lol….
Hmmm…Comeback…still doing charts? I dated someone who was interested in those and it worked well…well sort of and he was a Virgo.
Linens n Things…hmmm…might have to check that out this weekend.
Now…I just have one more thing I gotta do…
Happy Birthday! I can't remember who all is celebrating one this month and all but I remember Cuzzo and Humble…Enjoy your weekends cause we know partying is going down
humble is sept 14, 1977 314 am southfield MI
Teacia Oct 12, 1979 at 5:27pm Jax FL
assuming im not too tipsy ill post late tonite in the morning tomorrow.
Nicki I did silly girl thats why I said that lol there should be a request waiting for you.
@Mikki. I'm slow. LOL. You're added gorgeous. You remind me of one of my girls, Nic.
this gas gouging is fking outrageous..$6.02 a gallon. I feel like throwing up or punching someone.
Nicki yay!!
omg your hair is sooooooooooo fab I am in tears. Some people can rock a short cut like nobodies biz!!
@Jaclynn: that sounds very relaxing!
Today is my cheat and eat whatever-the-hell I want day (I have been eating right and walking around in a dizzy FOG ALL WEEK. LOL). On the way home, I got a small Reese cup blizzard… I'm thinking of something fattening and I cand eat and drank for the night!!!!
@Bree: Holy guacamole! And we are whining about $3.99 here!!!!!!
Mikki: thanks doll.
My momma hates it, I think… her and my granny keep making sly comments about me growing it back. Uhhh, not so much. I'm not trying to get back under that dryer.
Seriously? Don't hate! If they have all that money, they can do whatever they damn well please with it, and it's your job as a man to decide what is good for you. You don't make as much money as TI …. but if you wanna be a moron and "run yourself ragged" buying diamonds and beemers, go for it! Or you can take songs like that with a grain of salt and not try to live up to someone else's standards. Feel me?
As TI sang in Whatever You Like…"Tell those other broke "guys" be quiet." Be quiet, SBM.
Humble One – Happy Birthday—Have fun this weekend. Mine isn't officially until the 16th but as you can tell I started celebrating early.
Thanks Cuzzo for the birthday greetings.
TheComebackGirl – if you still want to read somebody's…I'm the 16th dont know what time
lmao why did i just now see the T.I video I loves it!!!
ok i really need to get ready for tonight dang!!
Virgos & The Comeback Girl – This is a post I did yesterday about Virgos. Comeback I don't know if what you have about us is different, but I do look forward to seeing what you have on us. Hit me offloop.
http://sheliagoss.com/2008/09/11/day-5-whats-your…
@Bree: yeah imma need for you to work that out…and are you going to be around AT ALL that weekend…i mean i gots friends in the A' and thangs but uhhh your tail better be available for a night out on the town. Besides Joey D. keeps sending me messages about the parties aka reunions.
@Jeri: that was yesterday's post…lol, but SBM is most certainly a HATER(and a cheap one at that.)!! :-p
@Comeback: take your time chic, we'll be here
@Belle: dammit man…where are you again?
@Sheila: Happy Birthday!!!
@Mikki: oh so it's like that…you didn't ask me or Bree to be friends…but i see ya, it's cool…my feelings ain't hurt one bit…and i thought Libras were supposed to stick together…puh.
I love, love, love the new SBM.net!
rants continued:
I hate being alone…and it seems that every weekend I find myself sitting at home with no where productive to go and no one to talk to.
I guess I'll just do homework. *sigh*
I wish I had bigger lips…I'm not a fan of my white girl nose, white girl lips and white girl eyes. I look like a white girl covered in brown paint…and I hate it, ain't shit exotic about my look. You know some white chic once told me that I looked like a black Demi Moore…WTF is a black Demi Moore, how can you even see some shit like that?!?!
Too much idle time leads to dumb ass thoughts like the one outlined above(see above).
I can't believe his ass wants me to meet him halfway, yeah I know gas prices jumped, why didn't you fill up yesterday, you knew you were coming…didn't you know that people were going to get scared and start running to the pumps…don't tell me you didn't know, don't your ass watch the news, you can't be THAt self-involved can you?!?!? And she's your kid, pay for your own damn gas, just like I did EVERYTIME I brought her ass to Orlando when you were carless…NAGGAS!!
I really don't feel like getting out of my bed, but I promised I'd meet a friend at a bar, but now I'm totally uninterested…but it's something to do, although I don't even drink…now why would I go again.
I guess I'll just start writing paper number one since ain't shit else poppin in my life these days.
Oh and I hate the new site(reminiscent of how I felt about VSB's new look)…the words are too small, there's no definition to the individual comments and it makes each comment look that much longer thanks to the apparent 1.5 spacing…it's just not reader friendly…but I guess it's no longer about the readers.
…why can't some people just learn to leave well enough alone.
@Teacia-Sometimes it sucks…but it makes getting together that much better. About the site, I like it…it kinda relaxes me…I have a few thoughts of my own right now…
Why do men with buttons (small d!cks) always wanna rub and kiss and ish? GTFOH. I don't want you.
Also, had the strangest thing happen to me today…Teacia…you know what I'm talking about…apparently he did that because he wsa exhibiting his love to me. So she wants a relationship with him and he keeps trying to show her it ain't gonna happen.
About this BBD-Make him come get her then cuss his as$ all the way out. Is he outta his g-d mind? Argh.
LOL @ Jaclynn "Why do men with buttons (small d!cks) always wanna rub and kiss and ish? GTFOH. I don’t want you."
HAHAHAHA
@ SBM – like the new look. tres chic!
@Cuzzo-Here's the convo:
man: rub my dick
me: looks and wonders
man: forces hand down there
me: *thinking* i can't find it. oh wait it's this little button?
man: i wanna feel how tight you are
me:*staring in disbelief* GET UR ISHT AND BE AWAY FROM ME *angry face*
This happens all over America.
If SBM has a Bald Kitty Movement then I want a Big D!ck Movement.
LOL @ Jaclynn…I'll be the first to sign the petition.
I know this one dude who's like 6'6 280ish who's little penis was so teeny tiny that I couldn't even stomach seeing him anymore. It was a sad day in the ville' I tell ya…a sad day indeed.
little penises look retarded – no offense to retarded ppl. come on now, a big ol dude with a lil boys peena weena – ewwww. i'd feel like a rapist tea, lol – r. kelly style.
that Big D movement can't compare because a hair or hairless kitty is something that women can control – the size of a penis is sadly not controllable. but, imagine if every dude had a big d? the world would be mad! mad I tell u! Cunnilingus prolly started because of a small d man.
@Teacia-Yeah girl…That sh!t made me wanna scream and stab somebody.
@Cuzzo-Now you ain't never lied about that. Some small man probably said this is bigger, let me try this. Yep, that's how it happened. I ain't mad though but a big one, a nice tongue and good hands…ladies a triple threat I tell you.
And what about that Extenze stuff?
Good morning peoples. im almost done Teacia's chart and numbers.
Numerology: Numerology only cares about Names and birth dates. For Teacia and Humble I will not be able to do a full Pythagorean run down on their names which looks at the Soul Number, The Personality Number and the Power Name. (I will however be able to do this with Shelia's because I know her first and last name). All is not lost. With Teacia and Humble I will look at other very important aspects where numbers are concerned.
THE MOST IMPORTANT NUMBER in numerology is their LIFE PATH. (adding day, year, month) and reducing to a single digit. We will also look at the birthday number which is also important, along with the attitude number (least important).
Most of the quoted information is from Glynis McCants "Glynis Has Your Number" She is a highly regarded numerologist living in CA.
TEACIA: (LIFE PATH 3= THE COMMUNICATOR)
Oct 12, 1979
(10 + 12 + 1 + 9 + 7 +9)=48
4+8=12
1+2=3 (we always reduce to a single digit)
3's love to write, they love being listened to. "When Shakespeare wrote 'all the world's a stage' he was talking about the 3. 3's love creativity, communication, and connecting with people. They are often the entertainers of the world.
3's are also very romantic. They are "fiercely loyal. Since 3's are natual counselors who see the potential in others , they often pick a parnter who is a "patient", with the thought they can save that person. This tendency can lead to depression. Everything is going great one minute then the next BOOM, the 3 crash lands. The 3 must guard against highs and lows and seek middle ground."
"The 3's make great entertainers, models, actors, designers, musicians, singers, comedians, and any type of performer. They also tend to shine in cosomotology, hairdressing, fashion and jewelry design. They want the world to look better. 3 vibrations don't do well in standard 9-5's. There minds are very quick and when someone is slow thinking the 3 becomes frustrated. If they are in dead end jobs or a lifestyle, they can get themselves caught in some pretty sticky situations. They have to use their creative gifts, if they don't they can seem manic dpressive, experiencing intense mood swings if they're not using their talents.
3s are known for their trademark smile, bright eyes and pleasant sounding voice.
Famous 3 life path: Barbara Walters.
BIRTHDAY NUMBER: (Describes how others see you)
12 (1+2)=3
The 3 birthday appears to be a joyous person and faithful friend. While you are artistic and imaginative, people also will see you as practical. If the 3 cannot find ways to be happy, they could become very moody. The good news is that they bounce back quickly.
ATTITUDE NUMBER: Sum of the day and the month (this is a secondary and less important number in your chart.) The attitude number is what FIRST impresses people. Your Life path is your core and what people don't know.
10+12=22
2+2=4
Attitude 4= is a list keeper. They're keeping track of all that happens. They beomce an expert at their skill and teach us how to do it. If they think you are being dishonest, they will confront you.
ASTROLOGY: There are alot of different aspects but I (novice) only look at the sun, the rising and the moon.
(taken from http://www.alabe.com/cgi-bin/chart/astrobot.cgi?Y…
In my opinion the most important astrological aspects are the rising (THE REAL YOU),which is why time is so important, The SUN (the you you represent) and the moon, how you instictively respond in situations.
Rising Sign is in 14 Degrees Sagittarius
You are known for being open, frank, outgoing and honest. At times, though, you are also blunt and quite indiscreet. Others have to learn not to take everything you say personally, because you usually do not mean any harm. You appreciate living your life in a straightforward and simple manner — you dislike social niceties and consider them to be hindrances to real communication.
Sun is in 16 Degrees Libra.
Very sociable, you enjoy being with others and definitely prefer not be alone. Warm and affectionate, you go out of your way to make others like you. You despise ugliness, for you being surrounded by beauty and harmony is a necessity of life. You prefer fine clothing, an attractive home and pleasant surroundings wherever you are. Your refined tastes apply to music and to art as well. At times, you are very indecisive you waver and falter when forced to make a choice because you have the ability to see both sides of any question. The positive part of this is that you are very fair-minded and can be trusted to settle disputes. Your greatest challenge is to take any one- on-one encounter and make the most of it.
Moon is in 20 Degrees Gemini.
Restless in the extreme, you are easily bored because of your short attention span. Your emotions change rapidly and you love to talk about your feelings. Generally, you have good judgment — your intellect controls your emotions and you do not overreact emotionally to things. A good jack-of-all-trades, you have many- sided interests and enjoy reasoning things through. With your mental agility and need for physical mobility, you are attracted to traveling and learning about other peoples and cultures. You have vivid powers of emotional self-expression – - you can be a nonstop talker. You love to share your ideas with anyone who will listen.
ok..so I will return and do the rest. tomorrow. Its a beautiful day out people. I wanna wash betsie and meet some cute boys. Betsie all shinned up is a boy magnet.
I am officially reintroducing the size requirement law.
After much thought and consideration it's back because I was thinking when I had the rule before every man I attracted met and exceeded. I like to use my own condoms. I carried Magnum XL. Some men got scared, others smiled. Let the games begin.
Does this count as a rant?
Wow, about the site assuming you care, the font is rather small and like Teacia says no ONE thing stands out and would allow for extreme boredom from not actually being able to read everything. And what the heck happen to the number systems, we need numbers in order to refer back to something stupid and or smart that some one said without having to read everything.
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So I got the thank you phone call I had been waiting for (After i called first) and it wasn't as exciting as I imagined it would be, I guess by the time it came around the rush was gone……
eh
club night was super fun can't wait to do it again!
Wow Comeback…it's like you read my diary and then posted. I'm a singer for those who didn't know…well, I went to a performing arts school growing up and singing was my talent. I don't sing much anymore b/c I don't do rejection…but I hear I have nothing to worry about. If there's even a shred of modesty in my body then my singing would get it. I don't think I'm that good, but whatever…but I do know that my voice is sultry and calming, it's almost been my biggest compliment from the men I date.
Man all of the things you wrote are correct, and after doing my hair today I asked my girl if I can rent a booth in her salon…I think Cosmetology should be my part-time job, b/c I'm just that damn good at it.
I guess with the pratical and dispute thing I should have gone to law school after all…does government count?
Anyhow Comeback thank you thank you thank you…that was a lot of information and I'm extremely appreciative that you took the time to do it so thoroughly. I definitely owe you one…and you can hold me to it.
Yeah Mikki I don't like the site…I think it looks feminine…it's like he removed the single, the black, and the male from up in this piece. And the number thing is a huge deal. Who knows, maybe he'll actually listen to us and switch it back…or at the very least switch it up.
Yeah thank you calls lose their luster if not initiated immediately.
Have a good day all, it's a beautiful day indeed and I'm off to take Sabrina to get that oil change she's been thirsting for. Peace, love and happiness.
How could I have missed this:
"You are known for being open, frank, outgoing and honest. At times, though, you are also blunt and quite indiscreet. Others have to learn not to take everything you say personally, because you usually do not mean any harm. You appreciate living your life in a straightforward and simple manner you dislike social niceties and consider them to be hindrances to real communication."
Whew…this one hits home. I have to learn to be more careful with my words…I just hate the politics of it all. Yeah soooo I apologize for all who have been caught in my path…I just have my "f*ck it" moments and don't care what I say. For this I apologize.
wow teaca.."blunt an quite indiscreet" LMAO…SO YOU.
i hope everyone is doing well…i'm annoyed at the idiots running up the price of gas just b/c the a$$holes on the news told them "hey, u better run and get gas the price is going up" guess what IDIOTS if we didn't run to get the gas, the price wouldn't have gone up…retardos!
@SBM…i'm with teacia and mikki..the new look isn't so great, smaller font is more cumbersome to read and the number thing is quite necessary for us. please please please change it back…puh-leeeeaasssee!
@jaclyn…u is one funny mutha-f-ah
@ Teacia, Im glad you liked it. I think a combo of astro and numero is VERY accurate.
I can't wait to run Bree's (who is a 5 life path)??? can you verify your birthday sept 25 1978. Humble, myself and Shelia are all 4s.
anyway people. I am off. As your celibacy club president. I would like to remind you to keep it right, keep it tight, and keep it closed.
signing off. Comeback
@Comeback
"Humble, myself and Shelia are all 4s."
Whats does that mean? Thanks
ok…comeback i'm gonna email my info. i think i'm a life path 1.
Yes Comeback my dear you outdid your self on this one…consider me grateful. I didn't know my birth time mattered so much, but I guess it makes sense considered we're driven by the push and pull of the universe.
I'm a sucker for astrology…a complete sucker but even if I weren't your description would make me a believer.
Jaclynn you's a FOOL!!!
Bree yeah gas is still the same here in Jax…aint nobody sweating it down here I guess.
@Comeback: I added up my stuff. My number is 55 and my birthday is —. Do me!
yay we got that fire back!!
ok off to work I go…
It looks good.. nicely done dawg!
Hey SBM, I nominated you for the "I Love Your Blog" award
@Dorchesters Daughter: Thanks.
Whats the "I Love Your Blog" award?
HAPPY BIRTHDAY HUMBLE!!!!!
Fun at 31!!
Comeback you're the greatest. I can't wait to read mine.
Humble – Happy Birthday to you and many more!!!
@comeback…it would make sense that i'm a 5…it's my favorite number and in yoruba, my head is Oshun and 5 is her number. you have my date of birth correct and time of birth is 3:08AM shoot it to my email luvjones112@hotmail.com
SBM, are the icons off on the site…why is the clock icon showing up in weird places? Please put it back the way it was…puuhhllleeeaaseee!! If nothing else, at least put the number system back
@Comeback-I full name is the e-mail I used. Bday is April 27, 1986 8:10 pm and I weighed 8lbs and 10oz. Also I was 22 in. long. I think those are the stats!
SBM, please change the site back honey. It's missing what it had before. It looks like a chic site, and very hard on the eyes and not reader friendly. I think you should make like it was. I am sorry…
Ok so now that everyone else has said it, I will. PLEASE change the site back…lol, if you do it now it will be a collective decision and not just based on my initial assessment.
We miss our site and we want it back!!!
im moving slow yall. I blame the redskins they made me stuck in traffic coming and going to church and I had to take a nap. up mext humble.
i rebubke this A.D.D in the name of Jesus.
Ok.. please oh please add the numbers back at least.. I would like to keep up with what i am replying to and what i have said. additionally .. I MET me a man last night…
i blame the number dependency on Bree and Teacia!!!
hey hey…you mentioned it first…lol. he's just so damn stubborn. i think we should boycott until we get our site back…lol.
@ Jolie…you met a man. Do tell. Something happened to me too this weekend. It was in the church. i might be going to hell. So if I don't return tomorrow yall know where I went.
Humbe…happy bday. I don't think your birth time is right. And you are about to find out why. Time defines your rising sign. It IS the most important sign in my opinion in astrology. And how all yall end up not knowing the time of your birth I HAVE NO IDEA. Work it out. Please in the name of susan miller.
Humble
Sept 14 1977 314am southfield mi
9+1+4+1+9+7+7 =38
3+8
1+1=2
Life Path 2 "The Mediator"
(lifepath is the most important number in your numero chart it represents who you are at the core.)
"2 Life Path is someone who is seeking harmony in life. They are here to love others and to be loved in return. Music has an espcially soothing effect on them. They are easygoing. If you want someone who is affectionate you should seek a 2. They need and give lots of love and affection. Unless all the other numbers in their chart discourage giving such aboslute love, tis their natural way."
"The 2s are mediators, they loathe conflict.They also tend to be psychic, and they will ahve dreams that come true. They also experience deja vu. its never a problem fro them to follow, a 2 doesnt have to be the leader. Because of their natural psyhic ability they tend to be good at astrology, numerology, tarot, tea leaf reading and I ching. They make good conselors and social workers. They ahve a concern for others and don't like to be alone.
2's do not need the spotlight (hence the name Humble??? LOL)
The flipside of a 2 is that now and then you might need to need to do everything for anybody, becoming drained. And if a 2 knows these people personally you may feel that they are giving themsleves far too much credit.
2's are selfless people. "So it is important that they stand back and say 'okay Im sorry that happened , but its still your problem. I'll help as mucha s I can, but its still your problem'". They often worry about what others think about them.
"When the 2s are surrounded by emotional vampires who are taking all of their energy, its okay for them to just walk away. Otherwise what they don't deal with mentally will attack them phsyically. As Esaygoing as they are , when they are upset it is like a volcano erputing. When this emothional outburst is over , they will feel very drained. 2s need to be very careful with whom they spend their time. Because anger is so toxic to who they are.
famous 2= Meg Ryan.
Birthday Number (how people precieve you at first glance)
1+4=5
The 5 Birthday appears as the person who is quick witted and fun, and people get a kick out of you. If there is an upcoming party of some kind, your presence can only make it better. People enjoy sharing their juciest secrets with a 5 Birth Day. the 5 Birth Day can also appear restless, because the 5 gets bored easily. Finding wayas to keep the mind stinulated, (reading, art exhibits, museums, traveling parties. is the key. (This is an ADD situation. I. c omeback am also a 5 birthday number)
Attitude number=5
9+1+4=14
1+4=5
(Attitude number represents what we think we are getting when we talk to the person.)
The 5 attitude is playful and fun.They have a need to get out and explore the world. Often world travelers. "So better for a 5 to get out there. Its all about adventure and excitement. They love to flirt, and they're usually the life of the party.
Humble I don't think you were born at 3:14 am. TIMES ARE IMPORTANT PEOPLE. Aint no way in he!ll you vain.
In my opinion the most important astrological aspects is the rising (THE REAL YOU),which is why time is so important, The SUN (the you you represent) and the moon, how you instictively respond in situations.
Name: Humble
September 14 1977
3:14 AM Time Zone is EDT
South Field, MI
Rising Sign is in 04 Degrees Leo
You love to be the center of attention and you want to appear strong, confident and dominant. You are very proud of yourself, sometimes quite vain even. When all around you are bedraggled and falling apart, you look like a million bucks! Very dignified and honorable, you enjoy the power and privilege, but not the responsibilities, that come with leadership. You are very idealistic but can also be quite stubborn. Others impress you only if they have integrity (but wealth, power and influence can also turn your head). You prefer rich, elegant surroundings and possessions, and will try to acquire them as your budget allows. Physically, you are very impressive – - at your best you have a regal, charismatic demeanor and bearing. Try not to be such a showoff!
Sun is in 21 Degrees Virgo.
Extremely careful and cautious by nature, you value neatness and order above all else. You rigorously practice very high standards of living and conduct and you demand the same of everyone with whom you come into contact. At times, you are so supercritical that you are merely nit-picky. You are very good at practical skills and quite handy with tools of all kinds. You are also greatly concerned with hygiene, cleanliness and personal health problems. Very likely your health is much better than you think it is — don't worry so much! Extremely methodical and analytical, you are a perfectionist — this makes you the perfect person to carry out highly detailed, precise operations. But, at times, you pay so much attention to details that you lose sight of the larger issues.
Moon is in 02 Degrees Libra.
Affectionate, warm and friendly, life must be a "beautiful" experience for you. Unpleasantness should be avoided at all costs. You tend to overlook other people's faults and you would rather give in than fight. You are uncomfortable with strangers, but at ease and sociable with friends and associates. Indeed, you would rather socialize than work — you can use your prodigious charm to avoid unpleasant tasks. You need the support and assistance of another in order to get you started on any new project — you are not a self-starter. Be careful of a tendency to be overly self-indulgent (i.e., lazy). Your refined aesthetic sensibilities attract you to music, dance, art and any other cultured activity.
next Bree, Shelia, SBM and Jac.
if i dont finish them all I will add them back at this link so I don't disturb the post tomorrow.
Mark Wahlberg could sooooo GET IT!!! I just love his smooth voice, that body and his ummm swagger…if I were to ever cross over to the other side it would be for him!!!
@Teacia-Umm and I'm crazy? LoL…white chocolate…no no vanilla yeh! I've been on that side before…stick with that you know.
@Comeback-I can't wait.
Also @ Comeback…girl what the heck did you do in the Lord's house?
Was it something I was doing about 7 or 8 years ago?
@Jolie-Man??? What about this man?
i might post about him… sigh .. He is great all ready .. spent the whole day with him today… met him last night .. just when you dont expect it BAM .. there comes someone !
@comeback: what happened at church??
I just emailed Bree's chart. 5s and 3s (and Teacia is a three) make a good relationship combo for life paths. Thats a good match. Some of their characteristics are also similiar.
Ok Shelia's is probably gonna take me into tomorrow because Im breaking down her whole name. To the complete chart.
comeback, if u need my city it's Tallahassee, FL
@ Jolie and Jac its VERY weird nothing unholy. But theres just this thing going on. its kinda weird. Nothing like unsanctified (as he is very single) but just say a prayer for my soul. I've had very UNGODLY dreams about him and then these "things play out" similiar to my dreams. im still celibate for everyone's information.
oh Bree I got it. I emailed it to you. why you so shy?
@Comeback
Thanks. I guess I have to get the birth time correct. I dont know where my birth certificate is. I know I am far from being vain or conceited. What is crazy is how much of the stuff you posted is true about me.
Damn.. ya'll still commenting 2 days after the last post..
Maybe SBM will take off a few days to see if we still comment with out him posting new shyt..haha
@Eathan: sadly we will, it's how we roll around here. i think we've gotten him spoiled with our loyalty.
…besides as you can see we're a family, and this is our forum, and you don't just ditch your family on the weekends do you?
Shelia Goss
I happen to also be a 4 life path/ (Not you Humble-you're a 2) This is why sometimes you can't do these in your head.
Life Path 4 "The Teacher"
The 4 Life Path is a very cerebral, intelligent number. The 4s are seekers of knowledge and born teachers. They often wear glasses, and I think of them as the "human computers". The fact that Bill Gates is a 4 life path is no surpise. They are into the logic of life- A plus B must equal C. "I call them the Spock mentality, while they can come off as cynical, what they are really tryning to do is give you information that they think will help you. You got to take them with good humor because they mean no harm. They are tryning to make your life easier."
"The 4 is the first to say, I don't want to argue, but they are the first who end up in arguements. Why because they are so honest and very direct.I knew a 4 life path 8 year old who figured out how to adjust the broken door on the family drayer witha seftey pin, so it would run until the repairman returned. The 4s are wise beyond their years."
The 4s need lots of postive affirmations and are afraid of critisism. Alot of ideas live and die in their head. They overprocess, for if they can't do it perfectlly they don't want to do it at all.
"The home is very important to a 4. They crave the security it bring. Nature's beauty has a calming effect on the 4. They often like to hike and camp. They tend to be very good gardners. Growing their own food, or making a beautiful garnden with flowers they can be proudof is a healthy outlet."
"The 4 life path woman is strong. She's sometimes taken to be a bit "masculine" in the sense that she takes care of everything. She is very responsible and may be the breadwinner. She will wear makeup and dress beatifully,, but she has no problem getting down and dirty when she needs to.
It is not uncommon for 4s to have panic attakcs. They want the situation in their in to be perfectly in order. However the natural nature of the universe is chaos.
Famous 4= Oprah Winfrey.
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Soul Number= How you feel inside. (adds vowels in your name)
(3) My soul is fulfilled when I am laughing, performing, writing, or using my creativity in signigicant way; when I am giving good advice to someone and they use it.
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Personality Number=How you appear on the outside. (adds consonants in your name)
(3) You love dressing up. Your appearance is very important to you. Your gift is communications. You are a good listener and an even better talker. Work on your mood swings. Brining joy to others is what really fullfills you.
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Birthday number-how people will percieve you at first glance
(7) The 7 is an intellecutal and looking for profound answers as to why we are here. Others may feel you are hard to know. Music and nature have a profound effect on those born on a 7 Birthday.
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Attitude number (adds your day and month) What we think we are getting when we talk to the person.
(7) You don't get to know what they are thinking they think to themselves and are introspective. They will reveal themselves slowly as they go. They also can shut you down and make you feel as if they aren't remotely interested, but the joke is on you because they observe EVERYTHING.
Sun is in 23 Degrees Virgo.
Extremely careful and cautious by nature, you value neatness and order above all else. You rigorously practice very high standards of living and conduct and you demand the same of everyone with whom you come into contact. At times, you are so supercritical that you are merely nit-picky. You are very good at practical skills and quite handy with tools of all kinds. You are also greatly concerned with hygiene, cleanliness and personal health problems. Very likely your health is much better than you think it is — don't worry so much! Extremely methodical and analytical, you are a perfectionist — this makes you the perfect person to carry out highly detailed, precise operations. But, at times, you pay so much attention to details that you lose sight of the larger issues.
Moon is in 14 Degrees Cancer.
For the most part, you are very strong and secure emotionally. You intuitively know what to do to make others feel comfortable, loved, accepted and needed. You naturally enjoy feeding and taking care of others. Be careful that your mothering does not turn into smothering. At times, you tend to feel that those to whom you are attached can never do anything without your assistance and support. Extremely sensitive by nature, it hurts you deeply whenever anyone criticizes you. You have an almost desperate need to be loved and wanted and needed by everyone with whom you come into contact, and you go out of your way to be accommodating to them.
The Comeback Girl you have outdid yourself. It really is like you peeked into my head with this.
"seekers of knowledge and born teachers. They often wear glasses"
I so appreciate the internet with informtion at my finger tips.
Wearing them as I type
"honest and very direct"
I realize a lot of folks aren't honest so when they come across people that are honest and direct they have issues with it. Just got in one this morning because the person couldn't handle the truth.
"if they can’t do it perfectlly they don’t want to do it at all."
I don't like to half-step.
"Nature’s beauty has a calming effect on the 4"
I don't like camping, but I sure love cruising. I love the ocean and the calming effect it has when I'm on these cruises.
"The 4 life path woman is strong…She will wear makeup and dress beatifully,, but she has no problem getting down and dirty when she needs to"
Don't take my kindness for weakness. One thing about us, we do know how to handle our business.
"My soul is fulfilled when I am laughing, performing, writing, or using my creativity in signigicant way; when I am giving good advice to someone and they use it."
So true…really nothing to add here. I think that's why I'm a writer.
"You naturally enjoy feeding and taking care of others. Be careful that your mothering does not turn into smothering. At times, you tend to feel that those to whom you are attached can never do anything without your assistance and support. Extremely sensitive by nature, it hurts you deeply whenever anyone criticizes you. You have an almost desperate need to be loved and wanted and needed by everyone with whom you come into contact, and you go out of your way to be accommodating to them"
I used to have this real bad but I got over it in my early 30s. Every now and then though, this part will seep out.
Thank You Comeback Girl. This was a wonderful b'day present.
Im glad you liked it Shelia.