Comments on: Rantings of an SBM http://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/03/rantings-of-an-sbm-17/ The Source For Black Male Perspective Wed, 08 Feb 2012 10:03:52 +0000 hourly 1 By: Sheliahttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/03/rantings-of-an-sbm-17/#comment-19095 Shelia Thu, 09 Oct 2008 06:48:18 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=456#comment-19095 Antidater, I would respond to your post today but the comment field is closed, so here's my response. If it opens up then I'll cut and paste on your post. Anyhoo - SBM - Good topic (wish I could comment on the actual post though...smile) Antidater - I agree with this statement <b>"Thus, the black woman is raised to be an Alpha woman – independent, educated, successful."</b> First let me talk about women being independent. She has to be. If she waited around on a man to do something for her, it wouldn't get done. Why should she be waiting on a man to do something when he is not her husband anyway (isn't that what y'all say....shouldn't she be paying her own way...I think that's the consensus of what some of the men have been saying...if she waits on you to pay the way, y'all label her a golddigger.) I disagree with this statement <b>"She don’t need a man!"</b> Absolutely not true. Just because a woman is an Alpha female/independent, it does not mean she doesn't need a man (one exception--she's gay). Most women know how to let a MAN BE A MAN. The issue is a lot of men aren't being men. They have adopted non-Alpha ways. I can guarantee that if a woman meets the right man she has no problem letting him be the ALPHA man as you would put it. An Alpha man doesn't have a problem taking control---and control isn't a negative thing. An Alpha woman doesn't have a problem letting the RIGHT man take control. All an Alpha man needs to do is MAN UP and all is right with the world :) Antidater, I would respond to your post today but the comment field is closed, so here's my response. If it opens up then I'll cut and paste on your post.

Anyhoo –

SBM – Good topic (wish I could comment on the actual post though…smile)

Antidater – I agree with this statement "Thus, the black woman is raised to be an Alpha woman – independent, educated, successful."

First let me talk about women being independent. She has to be. If she waited around on a man to do something for her, it wouldn't get done. Why should she be waiting on a man to do something when he is not her husband anyway (isn't that what y'all say….shouldn't she be paying her own way…I think that's the consensus of what some of the men have been saying…if she waits on you to pay the way, y'all label her a golddigger.)

I disagree with this statement "She don’t need a man!"

Absolutely not true. Just because a woman is an Alpha female/independent, it does not mean she doesn't need a man (one exception–she's gay). Most women know how to let a MAN BE A MAN. The issue is a lot of men aren't being men. They have adopted non-Alpha ways. I can guarantee that if a woman meets the right man she has no problem letting him be the ALPHA man as you would put it. An Alpha man doesn't have a problem taking control—and control isn't a negative thing. An Alpha woman doesn't have a problem letting the RIGHT man take control.

All an Alpha man needs to do is MAN UP and all is right with the world :)

]]> By: Lionhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/03/rantings-of-an-sbm-17/#comment-18057 Lion Mon, 06 Oct 2008 01:47:05 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=456#comment-18057 It's fucking tuesday and i am going to throw in the towel and yell. My Rants. -I fucking hate women now..with a passion. Truely, one woman can make a motherfucker like me hate all. I mean what the fuck one has to do to please this fucking creatures...... they are more evil than devil itself. Behind all the beauty and makeup, wanting to impress guys is for scraps. fucking forbiding fruit that men has chosen to consume. And they say you can't do with them..........like butter for my bread........ I might just eat my bread dry. I don't even know where to start from......... bitches!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! word/ I mean what the f...........! It's fucking tuesday and i am going to throw in the towel and yell.
My Rants.
-I fucking hate women now..with a passion.
Truely, one woman can make a motherfucker like me hate all.
I mean what the fuck one has to do to please this fucking creatures…… they are more evil than devil itself. Behind all the beauty and makeup, wanting to impress guys is for scraps. fucking forbiding fruit that men has chosen to consume. And they say you can't do with them……….like butter for my bread……..
I might just eat my bread dry.
I don't even know where to start from………
bitches!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
word/
I mean what the f………..!

]]> By: Jachttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/03/rantings-of-an-sbm-17/#comment-17966 Jac Fri, 03 Oct 2008 18:39:21 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=456#comment-17966 Teacia:I see he doesn't. Damned shame, but at least he doesn't act like he's God's gift to the American black woman a la someone else we know. Teacia:I see he doesn’t. Damned shame, but at least he doesn’t act like he’s God’s gift to the American black woman a la someone else we know.

]]> By: Teaciahttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/03/rantings-of-an-sbm-17/#comment-17961 Teacia Fri, 03 Oct 2008 18:34:19 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=456#comment-17961 Well I'm off to pick up the kid and take her to a movie or something...she's been on all green again for the past 2 weeks and is deserving of her mother's appreciation for not showing her ass in those white folk's establishment.Are there even any kid watching movies out right now...seeing as how she attends a Christian academy my guess is that Religouless is out, lol. Well I’m off to pick up the kid and take her to a movie or something…she’s been on all green again for the past 2 weeks and is deserving of her mother’s appreciation for not showing her ass in those white folk’s establishment.

Are there even any kid watching movies out right now…seeing as how she attends a Christian academy my guess is that Religouless is out, lol.

]]> By: Nicki Sunshinehttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/03/rantings-of-an-sbm-17/#comment-17958 Nicki Sunshine Fri, 03 Oct 2008 18:29:09 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=456#comment-17958 @Humble: You can't double dip in two clubs. Pick one hon. :) @Humble: You can’t double dip in two clubs. Pick one hon. :)

]]> By: Humble_Onehttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/03/rantings-of-an-sbm-17/#comment-17957 Humble_One Fri, 03 Oct 2008 18:27:49 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=456#comment-17957 @Breelicious "…HAHAHAHAHAHA..(deep breath) HAHAAHAHAHAHAH!!! Dry hump? Now that’s just degrading…where is your manhood? OMG."Yeah I know. The Celibacy Club says I can't get some and come back into the club. It's some B.S.@Comeback "I can’t approve this message with the pea coat. There are other shoes black men 30 and over can wear. I approve those alternative shoes"Nothing wrong with timbs. I like mephisto, johnston and murphy, and ecco too. @Breelicious
“…HAHAHAHAHAHA..(deep breath) HAHAAHAHAHAHAH!!! Dry hump? Now that’s just degrading…where is your manhood? OMG.”

Yeah I know. The Celibacy Club says I can’t get some and come back into the club. It’s some B.S.

@Comeback
“I can’t approve this message with the pea coat. There are other shoes black men 30 and over can wear. I approve those alternative shoes”

Nothing wrong with timbs. I like mephisto, johnston and murphy, and ecco too.

]]> By: Jachttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/03/rantings-of-an-sbm-17/#comment-17956 Jac Fri, 03 Oct 2008 18:27:07 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=456#comment-17956 Um. SBM...who is giving this bizness? Does he fit my size requirement? Um. SBM…who is giving this bizness? Does he fit my size requirement?

]]> By: Teaciahttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/03/rantings-of-an-sbm-17/#comment-17953 Teacia Fri, 03 Oct 2008 18:21:08 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=456#comment-17953 ...why did that comment post twice...disregard one of them please. …why did that comment post twice…disregard one of them please.

]]> By: The Comeback Girlhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/03/rantings-of-an-sbm-17/#comment-17950 The Comeback Girl Fri, 03 Oct 2008 18:19:41 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=456#comment-17950 "and timberlands"I can't approve this message with the pea coat. There are other shoes black men 30 and over can wear. I approve those alternative shoes “and timberlands”

I can’t approve this message with the pea coat. There are other shoes black men 30 and over can wear. I approve those alternative shoes

]]> By: Teaciahttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/03/rantings-of-an-sbm-17/#comment-17948 Teacia Fri, 03 Oct 2008 18:17:41 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=456#comment-17948 Bree: not the constitution, lol...and SBM has already decided to start an anti-celibacy club.Ok so check it, this manager who works here at the school board asks me out err single Friday that I'm here and this time he said he had club tickets to the Steelers vs Jags game Sunday night...oh how I want to go to the game...just not with him. I not really interested although I do find his persistence flattering. Why can't me and my girls have tickets or something.*begins declaration*NEXT YEAR we're becoming SEASON ticket holders...we love football too much to....oh wait Nikki C is dating a Jag...let me get back to yall. Bree: not the constitution, lol…and SBM has already decided to start an anti-celibacy club.

Ok so check it, this manager who works here at the school board asks me out err single Friday that I’m here and this time he said he had club tickets to the Steelers vs Jags game Sunday night…oh how I want to go to the game…just not with him. I not really interested although I do find his persistence flattering. Why can’t me and my girls have tickets or something.

*begins declaration*

NEXT YEAR we’re becoming SEASON ticket holders…we love football too much to….oh wait Nikki C is dating a Jag…let me get back to yall.

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