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> <channel><title>Comments on: Dating &amp; Poverty: Blog Action Day</title> <atom:link href="http://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/15/dating-poverty-blog-action-day/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/15/dating-poverty-blog-action-day/</link> <description>The Source For Black Male Perspective</description> <lastBuildDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 10:03:52 +0000</lastBuildDate> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <xhtml:meta xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" name="robots" content="noindex" /> <item><title>By: trottortammog</title><link>http://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/15/dating-poverty-blog-action-day/#comment-22784</link> <dc:creator>trottortammog</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 11 Dec 2008 01:29:29 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=519#comment-22784</guid> <description>Hey this is Brit again been away for a while just going to school and keeping busy.
Just wanted to let everyone know that the group is up and running. So if you are
a guy or girl and you are  looking for a hookup then this is the place ;-).
Go here for the time of your life: &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.wchurl.info/britney&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://www.wchurl.info/britney&lt;/a&gt; </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey this is Brit again been away for a while just going to school and keeping busy.</p><p>Just wanted to let everyone know that the group is up and running. So if you are</p><p> a guy or girl and you are  looking for a hookup then this is the place <img
src='http://www.singleblackmale.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> .</p><p>Go here for the time of your life: <a
href="http://www.wchurl.info/britney" rel="nofollow">http://www.wchurl.info/britney</a></p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: ooopinionsss</title><link>http://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/15/dating-poverty-blog-action-day/#comment-22274</link> <dc:creator>ooopinionsss</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 02 Dec 2008 22:49:46 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=519#comment-22274</guid> <description>How you think when the economic crisis will end? I wish to make statistics of independent opinions! </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How you think when the economic crisis will end? I wish to make statistics of independent opinions!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: babyd0ll</title><link>http://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/15/dating-poverty-blog-action-day/#comment-21333</link> <dc:creator>babyd0ll</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 15 Nov 2008 22:20:14 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=519#comment-21333</guid> <description>him &quot;blowing&quot; money would tell me how he views and handles money. I really believe if you don&#039;t handle your finances well, money will leave you regardless how much you make. I don&#039;t need to be w anyone who blows money. SO Yes, I would hesitate to date a &quot;poor/broke&quot; guy. I don&#039;t need a man to buy me any more diamond jewelry, designer bags, vacation tickets etc than I already have - because I already have that covered, but I would like to know that he CAN. </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>him &quot;blowing&quot; money would tell me how he views and handles money. I really believe if you don&#039;t handle your finances well, money will leave you regardless how much you make. I don&#039;t need to be w anyone who blows money. SO Yes, I would hesitate to date a &quot;poor/broke&quot; guy. I don&#039;t need a man to buy me any more diamond jewelry, designer bags, vacation tickets etc than I already have &#8211; because I already have that covered, but I would like to know that he CAN.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: temps</title><link>http://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/15/dating-poverty-blog-action-day/#comment-20736</link> <dc:creator>temps</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 31 Oct 2008 23:54:57 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=519#comment-20736</guid> <description>I worked through college-every semster I didnt do the HBCU and those lame FRATS who to me are gangters with books and dance moves.  Think about it:colors-hand sings-verbal calls that let any one know what Frat/Sort is in the bldg...yea well I didnt have time for that garbage.
Nor did I want my B.S. so I could go and get a Masters..
I was in the jungle of the Other Side of College Education.
The average age is 27 and no one is going for their MBA or MFA. Its the one where you work in the day-school at night.  Your jobs provide no benefits, you get no vacations.
So how many women up here would have been my girl with that on the plate?
And of course being from NYC I was stuck at home with moms dukes..it took me til 28 to get my degree.  I have already read sevearl women on here who would have deaded me from jump- bein college ...so what!!!!
I guess dude with the Denali and no college education nor any tangible skills to explain how he can afford that truck cuase his 15/hr job cant swing it, and his moms pays the car note and only has a crib cause of his three kids he had by 25-yea he&#039;s the stud. (yea I know a shorty that fell for this and now she mopes around well who cares she makes 65 k and wears better $200 shoes-no one said being independent meant if you do lay down with the dogs you&#039;ll come up flea less).
The women I dated wanted to &quot;trick&quot; on me not support.  So if dude left you after you &quot;supported&quot; him, question is did you or did you do what my moms would say &quot;girl only co-signed his car so her man can look cute picking her up&quot;.
I now have the degree and the business that none of those black women wanted to contribute to.  You can see the results on myspace/eny filmworks-the Camera you see- you aint copping out of Best Buy, I edit on a Mac Pro G5 dual core with 4GB of RAM which will kick your computers a$$ (might wanna google the MSRP on that one-if you want to know how I got just ask..its not a mystery).
So what I still live in the bricks...no women brought ANY of my film equipment they could have but they wanted to buy me Kennth Cole and Polo shirts.  And I buy those on my own as well.
Support means doing homework for the other...if had a girl and she was into fahsion I am going to read up on her weaknesses-such as doing presentations.  She might be a great designer but hey she got a C in pub speaking.  I am not goin to the gucci store or any other store she shopped WAAAAAAY before meeting me to boost my ego by getting her something she&#039;d like but wont benefit from directly.
Some women equate buying clothes and material possessions as contributing it aint its tricking.  Also there lots of women who only want us men as Finished Products, they want the ore to be a diamond the moment they put their foot on the surface.  I find it funny some women brought a man a car who was not in college, had no business to run nor did he even have that good of a job...so why did she feel compelled to buy that car?
Pygmalion; the women who do this dont love these men they love the ideal of what he is AFTER they have graced him with her touch and elegance. To those ladies: Dont Be Mad When The Scorpion Stings!!!!!! </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I worked through college-every semster I didnt do the HBCU and those lame FRATS who to me are gangters with books and dance moves.  Think about it:colors-hand sings-verbal calls that let any one know what Frat/Sort is in the bldg&#8230;yea well I didnt have time for that garbage.</p><p>Nor did I want my B.S. so I could go and get a Masters..</p><p>I was in the jungle of the Other Side of College Education.</p><p>The average age is 27 and no one is going for their MBA or MFA. Its the one where you work in the day-school at night.  Your jobs provide no benefits, you get no vacations.</p><p>So how many women up here would have been my girl with that on the plate?</p><p>And of course being from NYC I was stuck at home with moms dukes..it took me til 28 to get my degree.  I have already read sevearl women on here who would have deaded me from jump- bein college &#8230;so what!!!!</p><p>I guess dude with the Denali and no college education nor any tangible skills to explain how he can afford that truck cuase his 15/hr job cant swing it, and his moms pays the car note and only has a crib cause of his three kids he had by 25-yea he&#039;s the stud. (yea I know a shorty that fell for this and now she mopes around well who cares she makes 65 k and wears better $200 shoes-no one said being independent meant if you do lay down with the dogs you&#039;ll come up flea less).</p><p>The women I dated wanted to &quot;trick&quot; on me not support.  So if dude left you after you &quot;supported&quot; him, question is did you or did you do what my moms would say &quot;girl only co-signed his car so her man can look cute picking her up&quot;.</p><p>I now have the degree and the business that none of those black women wanted to contribute to.  You can see the results on myspace/eny filmworks-the Camera you see- you aint copping out of Best Buy, I edit on a Mac Pro G5 dual core with 4GB of RAM which will kick your computers a$$ (might wanna google the MSRP on that one-if you want to know how I got just ask..its not a mystery).</p><p>So what I still live in the bricks&#8230;no women brought ANY of my film equipment they could have but they wanted to buy me Kennth Cole and Polo shirts.  And I buy those on my own as well.</p><p>Support means doing homework for the other&#8230;if had a girl and she was into fahsion I am going to read up on her weaknesses-such as doing presentations.  She might be a great designer but hey she got a C in pub speaking.  I am not goin to the gucci store or any other store she shopped WAAAAAAY before meeting me to boost my ego by getting her something she&#039;d like but wont benefit from directly.</p><p>Some women equate buying clothes and material possessions as contributing it aint its tricking.  Also there lots of women who only want us men as Finished Products, they want the ore to be a diamond the moment they put their foot on the surface.  I find it funny some women brought a man a car who was not in college, had no business to run nor did he even have that good of a job&#8230;so why did she feel compelled to buy that car?</p><p>Pygmalion; the women who do this dont love these men they love the ideal of what he is AFTER they have graced him with her touch and elegance. To those ladies: Dont Be Mad When The Scorpion Stings!!!!!!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: cheritycall</title><link>http://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/15/dating-poverty-blog-action-day/#comment-20422</link> <dc:creator>cheritycall</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2008 04:07:59 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=519#comment-20422</guid> <description>Hello, Do something to help those hungry people in Africa or India,
I made this blog about that subject:
on &lt;a href=&quot;http://tinyurl.com/5pul7l&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://tinyurl.com/5pul7l&lt;/a&gt; </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello, Do something to help those hungry people in Africa or India,</p><p>I made this blog about that subject:</p><p>on <a
href="http://tinyurl.com/5pul7l" rel="nofollow">http://tinyurl.com/5pul7l</a></p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Britt</title><link>http://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/15/dating-poverty-blog-action-day/#comment-19736</link> <dc:creator>Britt</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 16 Oct 2008 16:33:40 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=519#comment-19736</guid> <description>I am all for community service and giving back to the homeless.  Does that mean I want to date someone KNOWING they are homeless? Um, no.  Community service does not extend to my dating life. </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am all for community service and giving back to the homeless.  Does that mean I want to date someone KNOWING they are homeless? Um, no.  Community service does not extend to my dating life.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Lion</title><link>http://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/15/dating-poverty-blog-action-day/#comment-19703</link> <dc:creator>Lion</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 16 Oct 2008 02:24:33 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=519#comment-19703</guid> <description>@comeback...........why don&#039;t u go back in ur hole.
you fit perfectly in there.
huh.....must be in trouble! </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@comeback&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..why don&#039;t u go back in ur hole.<br
/> you fit perfectly in there.<br
/> huh&#8230;..must be in trouble!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: SBM</title><link>http://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/15/dating-poverty-blog-action-day/#comment-19701</link> <dc:creator>SBM</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2008 22:42:52 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=519#comment-19701</guid> <description>Please ... this aint even serious.
It&#039;s a shame that its not a fight in my eyes unless I come see names getting thrown around ... </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Please &#8230; this aint even serious.</p><p>It&#039;s a shame that its not a fight in my eyes unless I come see names getting thrown around &#8230;</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Tiara</title><link>http://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/15/dating-poverty-blog-action-day/#comment-19697</link> <dc:creator>Tiara</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2008 17:14:08 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=519#comment-19697</guid> <description>Wow </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: qb</title><link>http://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/15/dating-poverty-blog-action-day/#comment-19696</link> <dc:creator>qb</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2008 16:46:03 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=519#comment-19696</guid> <description>@Mik - I am just now getting caught up on comments... I heart you too!!! And i need your email address or you need to email me... even if you arent in the C-club anymore you are going to get my &quot;story&quot; haha. ;o) email me at qbcowgirl@gmail.com
(SBM pls dont get mad okay thanks) </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Mik &#8211; I am just now getting caught up on comments&#8230; I heart you too!!! And i need your email address or you need to email me&#8230; even if you arent in the C-club anymore you are going to get my &quot;story&quot; haha. ;o) email me at <a
href="mailto:qbcowgirl@gmail.com">qbcowgirl@gmail.com</a></p><p>(SBM pls dont get mad okay thanks)</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss>
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