Comments on: Shedding the lists … http://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/27/shedding-the-lists/ The Source For Black Male Perspective Wed, 08 Feb 2012 10:03:52 +0000 hourly 1 By: Polpravhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/27/shedding-the-lists/#comment-41962 Polprav Sun, 11 Oct 2009 16:09:37 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=579#comment-41962 Hello from Russia Hello from Russia

]]> By: Unforgivable | Single Black Malehttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/27/shedding-the-lists/#comment-34498 Unforgivable | Single Black Male Mon, 08 Jun 2009 05:12:40 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=579#comment-34498 [...] The are those who only think they know what they want, to fool no one but themselves and then there is the general evil of running your love life according to lists.  But … as much as I hate excessive lists of dealbreakers, as much as I hate people who [...] [...] The are those who only think they know what they want, to fool no one but themselves and then there is the general evil of running your love life according to lists.  But … as much as I hate excessive lists of dealbreakers, as much as I hate people who [...]

]]> By: tempshttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/27/shedding-the-lists/#comment-20689 temps Thu, 30 Oct 2008 13:17:51 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=579#comment-20689 I dont disagree with the list but all list should be flexible...your example..The Constitution, in fact all laws are list but they are FLEXIBLE ...prohibition anyone? List are cool but note the Variables: You-Society-Your Love Interest will change in all kinds of ways you cant put on a list...like in 98 even though there was the Web but who knew cell phone cameras and social sites would really make us think twice about sex and Web. What if you want to date some one that meets your points on the list but has a really tacky myspace page? So I say write em or dont but dont knock those that do but if you write em I say be aware that PEOPLE change-does the list change with time? I dont disagree with the list but all list should be flexible…your example..The Constitution, in fact all laws are list but they are FLEXIBLE …prohibition anyone?

List are cool but note the Variables: You-Society-Your Love Interest will change in all kinds of ways you cant put on a list…like in 98 even though there was the Web but who knew cell phone cameras and social sites would really make us think twice about sex and Web. What if you want to date some one that meets your points on the list but has a really tacky myspace page?

So I say write em or dont but dont knock those that do but if you write em I say be aware that PEOPLE change-does the list change with time?

]]> By: tempshttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/27/shedding-the-lists/#comment-20687 temps Thu, 30 Oct 2008 12:56:04 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=579#comment-20687 @ Nikki Sunshine "I won’t date another guy with a grill and F the World tattoos" What was his BIG attraction, why did you OVERLOOK those things and did you pass ever the Better Man for this guy or at least a dude that may have been better? @ Nikki Sunshine

"I won’t date another guy with a grill and F the World tattoos"

What was his BIG attraction, why did you OVERLOOK those things and did you pass ever the Better Man for this guy or at least a dude that may have been better?

]]> By: Anesidorahttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/27/shedding-the-lists/#comment-20576 Anesidora Tue, 28 Oct 2008 14:58:54 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=579#comment-20576 Musical choice is not REALLY a deal breaker.... I was being facetious. But if he only wants to hang out at the hood spots and I only want to be on the artsy hip-hop scene, that's not a good match up. It goes to personality. Musical choice is not REALLY a deal breaker…. I was being facetious. But if he only wants to hang out at the hood spots and I only want to be on the artsy hip-hop scene, that’s not a good match up. It goes to personality.

]]> By: HNIChttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/27/shedding-the-lists/#comment-20549 HNIC Mon, 27 Oct 2008 22:34:43 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=579#comment-20549 <i>Hasani are you saying that we should just settle and date whomever comes our way? Because we aren’t special and dont deserve to be able to choose who we date? </i> I dont recall <b>saying</b> anything... if I recall I seem I <b>asked</b> a question a question outward to comeback, hey types and anyone who subscribes to her theories or even that could form a rational adult well thought out response worthy of intellectual retort, or rational philosophical affirmation. Im guessing my simple question about the list.... which seems to be the only person who stayed ON TOPIC, will go unanswered? its like talking to republicans I swear! I ask a direct question... and you ignore it and call me an asshole, say things are "out of hand" and ask questions back, not a single person can address the question?? REALLY SENATOR PALINS? yall trippin. shut your own blogs down. SBM will still continue to write, my editorials will still get run and I will still cover news. Lion will still date, Why so serious will still work be happy and live life on and off the internet and we all will still be fine black men, who will date mate and be happy. I wish that for all of us single black men out here in the dating world :) Hasani are you saying that we should just settle and date whomever comes our way? Because we aren’t special and dont deserve to be able to choose who we date?

I dont recall saying anything… if I recall I seem I asked a question

a question outward to comeback, hey types and anyone who subscribes to her theories or even that could form a rational adult well thought out response worthy of intellectual retort, or rational philosophical affirmation.

Im guessing my simple question about the list…. which seems to be the only person who stayed ON TOPIC, will go unanswered? its like talking to republicans I swear! I ask a direct question… and you ignore it and call me an asshole, say things are "out of hand" and ask questions back, not a single person can address the question??
REALLY SENATOR PALINS?

yall trippin. shut your own blogs down.
SBM will still continue to write, my editorials will still get run and I will still cover news. Lion will still date, Why so serious will still work be happy and live life on and off the internet and we all will still be fine black men, who will date mate and be happy. I wish that for all of us single black men out here in the dating world :)

]]> By: SBMhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/27/shedding-the-lists/#comment-20548 SBM Mon, 27 Oct 2008 20:56:30 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=579#comment-20548 Really people? I come home from a hard day of work and I'm greated with this ... Grow up ... EVERYBODY. Stop the madness, your not kids. I'm going to sleep, new post will be up tomorrow. Really people?

I come home from a hard day of work and I'm greated with this …

Grow up … EVERYBODY. Stop the madness, your not kids.

I'm going to sleep, new post will be up tomorrow.

]]> By: Tiarahttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/27/shedding-the-lists/#comment-20547 Tiara Mon, 27 Oct 2008 20:35:05 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=579#comment-20547 Lol...you keep it moving. Lol…you keep it moving.

]]> By: Jachttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/27/shedding-the-lists/#comment-20546 Jac Mon, 27 Oct 2008 20:22:36 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=579#comment-20546 Tiara:You're so right. And yep people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. What happens when you live in a regular house and the people in the glass house throw stones at you? Do you throw back or just let them continue to batter you with rocks? Tiara:You're so right. And yep people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. What happens when you live in a regular house and the people in the glass house throw stones at you? Do you throw back or just let them continue to batter you with rocks?

]]> By: Tiarahttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/10/27/shedding-the-lists/#comment-20545 Tiara Mon, 27 Oct 2008 19:59:25 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=579#comment-20545 Jac people in glass houses...let it go, everyone is to blame. I'm not saying it's any one person or a particular group of persons to blame. We all need to cut it out...or keep it moving. Sorry SBM Jac people in glass houses…let it go, everyone is to blame. I'm not saying it's any one person or a particular group of persons to blame. We all need to cut it out…or keep it moving.

Sorry SBM

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