(And this is what I said this: "Women want us to be good in bed but to do so means I have slept with a lot of chicks or with a few chicks a lot of times, either way its not the IDEAL she thought she'd get by exclaiming I MUST rock her boat as a huge point on her My Man Must Have List")

I also said not to many women who claim to want a man that hasnt gotten aound much are going to like being his rainmakker. When he cant hold it in we will see how FAST the novelty of "he hasnt been with too many women" appeals when her girls are at the appendix of their sex stories and while she aint get past the preface.

Look there are Pro and Cons to everything. Con for sleeping with a person who doesnt have sex frequently is (if its a guy) is he will come quick!!!

To me this is the reversal of SBM Number and WOMEN wouldnt be able to handle it. Yea Her Stud at 27 has been with 3 women and hasnt been with one since the third one broke out back in 05

@SBM i think when you meet someone that has these same feelings and you two can discuss it and no one gets upset or hurt or feels dirty then you will have met someone to date. I agree with everyone else that says your past should be your past – but having been through some of the things i have i also kind of agree with a little disclosure is needed… and when it all comes down to it, it will be up to you and your partner to decide what discusions/disclosures are needed and if ya'll arent on the same page it will never work.

second most i have typed today. damn you and your blogs are giving my wrist a workout…

I think she is talkin to you …

"Then you marry the girl who had 2 partners and are very unsatisfied sexually and cheat on her with the girl who had 12."

That statement is soo true..

eathan I fully agree with your opinion on the whole numbers thing

I have always said I am worth more than my coochie and only a "grown" person can understand that

I hate the double standard….I dont think its at all fair and its very remedial. I think that with all the advances we made as a society and how many other ways a person can be judged based on worth, I think its sad that some still resort to judging people based on their sexual experiences, especially on women.

Truth be told, women have a lot more to barter with than just their coochie. In the past, thats pretty much all a woman had because she wasn't allowed to do anything else. But now, we own our own businesses, we pay our own bills, dont need a man for nothing. Many of us choose to settle down but dont have to cause we can do for ourselves. And because we know our worth and hold ourselves higher up and have accomplished our own things without a man's help, we no longer require that "coochie coupon" as a means of acquiring a man.

Preferences are fine, i can't hold anything against someone for prefering an inexperienced woman with only 2 partners. And I can't say anything if a man doesn't want a former prostitute and pole dancer.

As the previous poster said (Teenamarie) I think that it takes experience to get good. You want a freak but you want a freak who had 2 partners….that doesn't make sense and they dont exsist

Then you marry the girl who had 2 partners and are very unsatisfied sexually and cheat on her with the girl who had 12.

Be real

lol

Example.. If you've had less than 5 partners.. you're sexual experiences are a lot more sheltered than someone with 15 or ever 20 partners in their life. If you're a virgin.. then you have a have no experience and you're holding sexual intimacy as a set of dubs.

Now if you're grown… the number isn't important. You're accepting the guy or female for what they are today..and not what they were yesterday. If ya can't accept that.. you need to step back and find a virgin. That way you don't have to worry about any number at all.

I don't ask a woman..and I don't care. It does't matter.
Use protection.. get tested..and if ya get into a relationship.. be faithful. That's my theory.

you can't judge a person based on their past..particularly those young years we all experienced being immature, not knowing what we want, who we are.

Some of us were more sexually free than others..that doesn't mean that we will always be "sexually free"

I admire a man who admits that hey..i sewed my oats royally up until I as 28, but now at 29, im tired of that

and the same should go for women..but the fact remains that some men still prefer their woman have only been with 2 men their whole life

the statistics dont add up

a man having had 25 – 50 sexual partners before age 30 vs a woman who only had 2 – 5 sexual partners before age 30..

somebody lying

lol

I dont think it should matter, how are they treating you now? Are they disease free..just to be redundant