Comments on: Sorry Shorty. I Can’t Help You. http://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/11/19/sorry-shorty-i-cant-help-you/ The Source For Black Male Perspective Wed, 08 Feb 2012 10:03:52 +0000 hourly 1 By: amalhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/11/19/sorry-shorty-i-cant-help-you/#comment-24133 amal Wed, 14 Jan 2009 03:13:46 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=680#comment-24133 hi am want to be a singer and my pernts don't like that i want to be a singer .. plz i want to be like demi lovato ..blz hi am want to be a singer and my pernts don't like that i want to be a singer .. plz i want to be like demi lovato ..blz

]]> By: Rhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/11/19/sorry-shorty-i-cant-help-you/#comment-21551 R Wed, 19 Nov 2008 23:38:07 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=680#comment-21551 Oddly enough, i've been hooked up by friends over the years and no matter which way the situation ended up (always bad), i NEVER blamed them. I see it like this, the person you know as a friend, is a totally different person in a relationship with the opposite sex. Even if, as a woman, my best friend is a guy, i still don't know how he is one on one with a woman, so what happens between the two of them, is not my fault and vice versa. I'll let the person that hooked me up know that it didn't work out and keep it moving, i read somewhere that the best chance to meet someone nice is through a hook up. It has not worked for me yet, but i'm not giving up hope. Thankfully, my bestest (yeah i said) friend is a guy and he has no issues telling me when a dude that i'm seeing is full of shit (in those words) and that i need to tell him to kick rocks and just move on. I feel blessed to have him as a friend, though sometimes I feel as though he just might be wrong, don't listen and then find myself wishing that I had one or two dates back. oh well c'est la vie! Oddly enough, i've been hooked up by friends over the years and no matter which way the situation ended up (always bad), i NEVER blamed them. I see it like this, the person you know as a friend, is a totally different person in a relationship with the opposite sex. Even if, as a woman, my best friend is a guy, i still don't know how he is one on one with a woman, so what happens between the two of them, is not my fault and vice versa. I'll let the person that hooked me up know that it didn't work out and keep it moving, i read somewhere that the best chance to meet someone nice is through a hook up. It has not worked for me yet, but i'm not giving up hope.
Thankfully, my bestest (yeah i said) friend is a guy and he has no issues telling me when a dude that i'm seeing is full of shit (in those words) and that i need to tell him to kick rocks and just move on. I feel blessed to have him as a friend, though sometimes I feel as though he just might be wrong, don't listen and then find myself wishing that I had one or two dates back. oh well c'est la vie!

]]> By: Slim Jacksonhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/11/19/sorry-shorty-i-cant-help-you/#comment-21545 Slim Jackson Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:55:15 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=680#comment-21545 @SBM: It's kinda ironic given that I'm a light-skinned fellow. @SBM: It's kinda ironic given that I'm a light-skinned fellow.

]]> By: SBMhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/11/19/sorry-shorty-i-cant-help-you/#comment-21540 SBM Wed, 19 Nov 2008 18:53:40 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=680#comment-21540 @Slim: Why are your squares darker than mine? I'm jealous ... @Slim: Why are your squares darker than mine? I'm jealous …

]]> By: HNIChttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/11/19/sorry-shorty-i-cant-help-you/#comment-21536 HNIC Wed, 19 Nov 2008 17:40:20 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=680#comment-21536 Man law > My female friends but then again... New Pussy > You but not at the cost of Rep. Rep brings you the pussy. women like men, not guys who act like chicks. I have been living hard by man law rules this year and biting my tongue alot. There are alot of times I could bash an EX to prop myself up, but I wouldnt want another brotha doin the same to me. now, as far as giving advice to women? Im pretty blunt. I want dating to go better for anyone who asks me. so If you ask me, "do you think he will find out im cheating on him" Im gonna tell ol girl "yes, because I think your a tramp who cant stop" So Im realistic with people about advice and my opinion, but im not selling out another man just to slip someone vitamin D. I'vs had a bit too much action this year, I dont need any more, The no Vacancy light is on in my bedroom window. Man law > My female friends
but then again… New Pussy > You but not at the cost of Rep.
Rep brings you the pussy. women like men, not guys who act like chicks.

I have been living hard by man law rules this year and biting my tongue alot. There are alot of times I could bash an EX to prop myself up, but I wouldnt want another brotha doin the same to me.

now, as far as giving advice to women? Im pretty blunt. I want dating to go better for anyone who asks me. so If you ask me, "do you think he will find out im cheating on him" Im gonna tell ol girl "yes, because I think your a tramp who cant stop"
So Im realistic with people about advice and my opinion, but im not selling out another man just to slip someone vitamin D.

I'vs had a bit too much action this year, I dont need any more, The no Vacancy light is on in my bedroom window.

]]> By: Slim Jacksonhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/11/19/sorry-shorty-i-cant-help-you/#comment-21535 Slim Jackson Wed, 19 Nov 2008 17:38:17 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=680#comment-21535 lol @ catching the typo. lol @ catching the typo.

]]> By: Cuzzohttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/11/19/sorry-shorty-i-cant-help-you/#comment-21534 Cuzzo Wed, 19 Nov 2008 17:23:49 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=680#comment-21534 "But honestly, I love praying on the friends of my female friends. " mmhmmm and preying on them too ;) "But honestly, I love praying on the friends of my female friends. "

mmhmmm and preying on them too ;)

]]> By: SBMhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/11/19/sorry-shorty-i-cant-help-you/#comment-21528 SBM Wed, 19 Nov 2008 12:18:52 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=680#comment-21528 @Cuzzo: I cry ... just thinking about it is making me ... making me ... OOOHHHH Shaquala ... WHY GIRL!!! Whew ... just had to get that out. But honestly, I love praying on the friends of my female friends. I'm a generally nice guy, so you don't gotta worry about me hitting and dipping ... but its good to actually have someone who can give you that inside scoop as your trying to get at said chic. "Oh ... SBM ... how did you know Fettuccine is my favorite dish and gets me wet" "IDK ... lucky guess ..." @Cuzzo: I cry … just thinking about it is making me … making me … OOOHHHH Shaquala … WHY GIRL!!!

Whew … just had to get that out.

But honestly, I love praying on the friends of my female friends. I'm a generally nice guy, so you don't gotta worry about me hitting and dipping … but its good to actually have someone who can give you that inside scoop as your trying to get at said chic.

"Oh … SBM … how did you know Fettuccine is my favorite dish and gets me wet"
"IDK … lucky guess …"

]]> By: Cuzzohttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/11/19/sorry-shorty-i-cant-help-you/#comment-21526 Cuzzo Wed, 19 Nov 2008 11:53:35 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=680#comment-21526 Howdy Slim and Welcome to SBM. IMO this seems to be a one-way street with women being the ones left in shambles crying on your shoulders or hawking at your ear (why that sorry MF don't call me no more???) Dudes may get jilted too but I doubt they're gonna cry to anyone about it. The most you may get is a what's up with your homegirl? Howdy Slim and Welcome to SBM.

IMO this seems to be a one-way street with women being the ones left in shambles crying on your shoulders or hawking at your ear (why that sorry MF don't call me no more???) Dudes may get jilted too but I doubt they're gonna cry to anyone about it. The most you may get is a what's up with your homegirl?

]]> By: Satyahttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/11/19/sorry-shorty-i-cant-help-you/#comment-21525 Satya Wed, 19 Nov 2008 11:29:40 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=680#comment-21525 Hey Slim. You already outlined the top reasons to not hook people up. lol @ Man Law I have guy friends and i've about man law... I can respect that. My friend tried to hook up with my cousin i told her he's in a different place than you are... he is my cousin i wouldn't flat out say he'll only hit it and be done. she pursued him and then came to me 4 advice when he took weeks o return calls etc... I already told her he's in a different place Hey Slim. You already outlined the top reasons to not hook people up.
lol @ Man Law I have guy friends and i've about man law… I can respect that.

My friend tried to hook up with my cousin i told her he's in a different place than you are… he is my cousin i wouldn't flat out say he'll only hit it and be done. she pursued him and then came to me 4 advice when he took weeks o return calls etc… I already told her he's in a different place

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