Rantings of an SBM

*** Admin Note *** New poll up … make a difference … vote!  Just cause we got a black man in the White House means you can stop! ************************ Mr. FAQs I always seem to be playing cupid, by default. Ask and you shall receive: degree holding accountant with one of the Big 4 in [...]

Recession Proof: The Cost of Being Single

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Some industries are said to be recession proof, porn and liquor for instance – mofos need a nutt and a buzz no matter what! I’ve always felt that relationships are easier than being single and not just because of the economic implications. A brother like me likes stability, “routine”, knowing who I’m dealing with et [...]

The Young Misogynist

This appeared as a comment from the Black Critic a few days ago on a post about Misogyny. Here I have decided to just repost his comment … the story of a young man … who just has a very “interesting” view on women.  This is the short version … he has expanded and added [...]

Snoopin’

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I don’t like being cheated on. I don’t think anybody does. Though if you do like it, then oral sex it prolly really isn’t cheating. As for the rest of us, we try to screen people out prior to dating ‘em if we think they’re gonna be the sketchy and shady type. And generally if [...]

Do you really want me to answer that?

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As men … we are faced with difficult decisions every single day of our existence.  Most of them aren’t life changing decisions … but we must carefully navigates this labyrinth of choices in order to successfully make it through the day.  Some that come to mind … Are these pants clean enough to wear again? [...]

Rantings of an SBM

Slim Jackson This week was aight til Thursday. I’m in recruiting, so there’s nothing like placing somebody at a job and then having them get fired the first day. I really don’t like fire fighting. Played in my first league bball game. My team managed to lose a 10 point lead with a minute left. [...]

My President is Black, But I’ll Be Got Damn If My Girl Ain’t

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Two phrases died in my head yesterday as I stood in the freezing cold: “America is not ready for a Black president” and “Why is he with that snow bunny?” CNN’s lead article when I woke up this morning was entitled “Black first family ‘changes everything,’” and while I reeeaaally didn’t want to, I clicked [...]

Obama … The Father in Law

I just got into my house and am running of about 3 hours of sleep and a 5 hour energy shot I took 6 hours ago … and something about standing up for 9 hours straight in order to watch history makes your body tired and sleepy and … well … enough of my complaining [...]

The Ultimate Strong Black Woman

***** Admin Note ***** I’m out in the streets … fighting the cold and crowds to be a small part in some big history! OBAMA! OBAMA! Slim … handle this … – SBM ********************** I was digging through my archives again and came across something that I thought would be relevant today. Sorry, no relationship [...]

Misogyny … and “The Problem”

It is no secret here that SBM loves “ignorant rap” music (I wish a mother f*****r would try to judge me too … lol).  I have even decided to share my vast knowledge with the world in my “Moments Of Ignorance” posts … there is a dark side to all this … a very dark [...]