Role Model? I Already Got a Day Job.

March 31, 2009 By 35 Comments

Yesterday morning I was at my gym with sleep in my eyes handling some administrative affairs at the front desk. I had a terrible case of the Mondays, and this “illness” was intensified by the fact that my job is like a 5-7 minute walk from my gym. The printer wasn’t working at the desk [...]

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Congratulations??? Did I win something?

March 30, 2009 By 24 Comments

There are many events in life that deserve congratulations and praise from your peers.  They are moments where you have achieved a great thing, overcome some sort of obstacle, or reached a new place in your life or career. Just got a promotion … congratulations! Just won the super bowl … congratulations! Just beat that [...]

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Rantings of an SBM

March 27, 2009 By 14 Comments

Slim Jackson This week went by pretty quickly all things considered. Got to work from home for the first time since taking my current job a little bit over a year ago. I now realized that my job definitely doesn’t need to be done from the office. I got more work done in a few [...]

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Quick! Somebody get me Katt Williams!

March 26, 2009 By 30 Comments

Where is Katt Williams when you need him? You know, to tell Steve Harvey to stfd and stfu. (USE HEADPHONES IF AT WORK!) Steve Harvey has been making the media circuit these past few days. I first saw it on CNN…then heard Oprah endorsed it, followed by an appearance on Tyra and a plethora of [...]

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She has on shoes

March 25, 2009 By 38 Comments

SBM: “Damn … she looks better than a negative on an ex’s paternity test ribs on a Sunday afternoon” Denise (My Female Friend): “What? Who are you talking about?” SBM: *while pointing* “Her right there! I mean … look at all that.  And you know I rarely am brought to comment on a random chic.” [...]

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I Want What I Need

March 24, 2009 By 27 Comments

With each day that passes, I accumulate a bit more wisdom and a bit more knowledge. I also develop a better understanding of myself and how I operate. If you asked me 10 years ago where I thought I’d be, I’d have said something about being a grown ass man living in a condo stacking [...]

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The Enigma that is T.I.

March 23, 2009 By 33 Comments

***** Admin Note ***** I know it took wwwaaaayyyy too long … but there is a new poll  up finally.  Vote for a change … just cause Barack’s in office doesn’t mean voting still isn’t important!!! – SBM ************************ Josephine: “I just love T.I.” SBM: *rolls eyes* “If one more girl says this …” J: [...]

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Rantings of an SBM

March 20, 2009 By 10 Comments

Mr. FAQs I need to work on not shutting down when things become less than ideal. That being said, don’t feel like sharing but hope the SBM fam had a great week and is moving towards a safe and enjoyable weekend! Slim Jackson I went to a doctor a few days ago because I was [...]

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It Does A Body Good

March 19, 2009 By 16 Comments

I was thumbing through the April issue of Essence the other day and itis like an ‘Ode to MILF’s,’ showcasing women and in their 50′s-like 80′s, some of whom don’t look a day over 35 max! And a good looking 35 year old at that, not the one that’s had a”hard life. I know exactly [...]

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SBM Answers: When we need to be even more clear!

March 18, 2009 By 32 Comments

My post Monday (Can I be any clearer?) brought a quick response from a fellow male who is having a recurring issue of being clear just not working (some people are just don’t want to listen).  While my wisdom is deeper than the pacific, I know the collective thought of my great readers is so [...]

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