Have you ever been on a different page than someone else? However, you were afraid of how they would react if you told them the reality of the situation? Today’s session is about crashing the car. I had a friend who was telling me about a situation she was going through with a male friend [...]

“Men lie, women lie, the numbers don’t!” – Jay-Z We all lie. This is no secret. Especially when dealing with the opposite sex. Whether we want to protect feelings, lessen the wrath inflicted upon us from a mistake we made, or we fail to follow through on a promise, we have our reasons for these [...]

***** Admin Note ***** I’ve never acknowledged any previous milestones, but today Slim will usher in the 300th post.  Its been a long time, and I remember the humble beginnings of this site, with just me slaving away, writing everyday, with all of 3 subscribers.  Now, over a year later, we have a lot more [...]

Awhile ago, I decided to open up a little and share with everybody some of my “quirks” when it came to the opposite sex. These were things that really “did’ it for me, but weren’t necessarily the norm and really specific … things a lot of my friend just couldn’t feel me on. Well today [...]

I’m sitting at my desk jamming to a 90’s hip hop mix when Wreckx-N-Effect’s infamous “Rump Shaker” came on. As I was shaking my rump at my desk, my mind wandered back to a question that a girl I mentor asked me, “what type of men are you into?”. This is such a good question. [...]

The Senator: I didn’t want to say her name because she had heard so many females’ names over the weekend I didn’t want her to get concerned. Dr. J: You should have told her it was just a friend. The Senator: You know that is not going to work. Dr. J: What did I say? [...]

Recently, on “For the Love of Ray J”, Brandy’s brother faced a dilemma all too familiar to brothers. He brought his last three remaining potential publicity stunts girlfriends to meet his homies, so that they could help him make a decision. Upon introducing Unique, Cocktail, and Danger to the homies, the ladies went to mingle [...]

I was reflecting this past weekend on women of relationships past and how awful my decision-making process used to be when it came to selection. As I said in a previous post, I often confused my wants and my needs. I don’t think I ever wanted or needed crazy and deceitful, but I managed to [...]

SBM: “How was your date last night?” Lisa: “A complete waste of time!  I don’t know where I keep meeting these whack guys at!” SBM: “What happened? Ya’ll have been talking for like 2 weeks, you said he planned a real nice evening with you, and you two had so much in common. Was he [...]

Familiar with Lex Steele?  I’m his East Coast counterpart.  When he can’t make it to the Right Coast, I represent him at  glad handing events, award ceremonies, and I have even had to do a few cameos.  Ever thought “that doesnt look like Lex…”  That was yours truly.  If I’m not reppin Lex or wasting [...]