*****Admin Note***** I know you all read and love my other blog over at honey magazine, I figured for those who haven’t gone over there yet … I would post my last post here.  Enjoy … -SBM ************************ Although a lot of women don’t agree with me, seduction is a 2 way street.  Yes … [...]

A few years ago, after going through a rough break up me and one of my boys just kind of hung out together all the time.  (Pause).  We sat in the crib playing video games, drinking beer, talking about why having a girl was stupid, when we stepped out we stepped out as wingmen.  And [...]

***** Admin Note ***** Still got new isht coming out at honey magazine in addition so SBM.net. Check the new post after your down here … How to Impress a Man: Be Cool -SBM ****************** I sat here randomly over the holiday break thinking about sex different topics to speak about for SBM. On Twitter, [...]

This past Friday I had quite an awkward situation occur where a series of compliments were used to strike up a conversation. Unfortunately for me, the compliments came from a man. Let me tell you a story… It was a sunny Friday morning. I had just gotten off the train. It was casual dress day [...]

As many of you might know by now, I am a motorcyclist.  I have me a fast little sportbike, and besides this blog, its one of the few things that keep me sane. As part of being a good sport rider, once  year I hop in a car, and make a 7 hour journey south [...]

I think the advice is pretty standard that too many bags can cause you problems in your future.  People have all types of bags.  They have bags when it comes to communicating.  Maybe in a past relationship whenever they tried to communicate verbally to someone they were met with an aggressive confrontational response that has [...]

I want the money, money and the cars, cars and the clothes, the hoes, i suppose, i just wanna be, i just wanna be successful. – Successful: Drake feat Trey Songs Growing up, I had the aspirations of a hero destined to save the world bestowed upon my shoulder by my parents. I did well [...]

All good things must come to an end at some point. I guess the same can be said for awfulness or unpleasantries  as well. In many situations, we have some type of control over the end point. If we hate a job, we tighten up our resumes so we can start looking. If we’re good [...]

One topic that has always been quick to start a riot here at SingleBlackMale.net is the “magic number” … yes … how many people you f*cked.  It’s came up when I talked about determining hoe status and when handing down the 10 pre-engagement questions, I even expanded and talked about “The Magic Ratio” … which [...]

This isn’t about chicken nuggets or gold nuggets or even the Denver Nuggets.  It’s about something far less valuable.  You know that little teeny weeny itty bitty little nugget that just won’t go away?  No matter how many times you flush it, it just won’t go away.  It just keeps coming right back up.  For [...]