Scenario 1 Boo’d Up Dude: Yeah man, me and shorty headed to the Caribbean. Lookin’ forward to it. Concerned Friend: Dude, you know this could be it right? BUD: What you mean? I’m not bringing a ring with me or anything. CF: Man, vacations can either be the end or beginning of the heart of [...]

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Good day fine people! If you look over to your left you will see that the fine writers here at SBM take your opinion very seriously and aim to please you, so this topic is from one of our excellent readers out there in the blogosphere.   Additionally, I do tons of recreational drugs and don’t have [...]

The early stages of a relationship, situation, courtship or just casual dating are easy.  It’s easy right up until the point where you say to yourself that you would like to see the person again.  But what happens is we all meet at different stages of our lives.  OK, take for example, college; when you [...]

I hit up ATL this weekend to check out the Greek, and as always it was so hot I came back as Idris’s complexion an excellent time. I saw a lot of people I haven’t seen in a while, including a homegirl of mine. She told me how she wasn’t feeling the party because her [...]

A classic topic with a Slim Jackson twist. I was chattin’ with one of my female friends this past weekend about a racy website. I asked her to show me the way, so she sent me a link to a website where women (predominantly black from what I gathered) were telling stories of their s*xual [...]

****** Admin Note ****** I am glad to announce the return of our last female guest writer … Lisa Marie.  Enjoy. ************************ Within male/female relationships, there tends to be a lot of communication problems…women say “I want to talk about our long term future together” men hear “Warning: Death Con 5!  Abort Mission!”…. men say [...]

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So I know I said, that I hate when men are infatuated with somebody else’s girl, but the strangest thing happened to me recently and I had to break my own rule.  I had good reason to… here’s how the story went and then i’m going to break it down to you. So me and [...]

Ladies and Gentlemen, I have to take a stand. In the last two weeks, various female friends (yes friends) have levied accusations upon me that I must address. They persecuted me, insulted me, and done called me out my name. They called me that garden tool that no one in a metropolitan city has probably [...]