****** Admin Note ****** I’m off in Toronto enjoying Caribana, and while I promise to tweet my vacation away, as long as tmobile doesn’t hit me for roaming so I have brought you another guest post from my favorite female guest blogger … Lisa Marie. Enjoy. – SBM ********************** I thought I’d write about what [...]
Dr. J Answers The Mail

As a life coach, there is always someone hoping to get some time on my couch. I haven’t been accepting new patients lately because I’m writing book, blog and I have a full plate of clients already. However, it’s time to answer the mail that we have received. Secretary Skridbit seems to think that if [...]
Summertime pt 3: Do men experience double standards?
Another Day … Another Year
Get ya hands up out my pocket!!
Do Light Skin Girls Have More Fun?
****** Admin Note ***** Remember that the team’s been on twitter since before twitter was hot (yes … we are the reason twitter is big!). Add us! Single Black Male (The One & Only) Slim Jackson Streetz Dr. J ************************** I dug into the archives for this one. I actually wrote this piece in 2006. [...]
Summertime part 2: The Men-Women Rosetta Stone
**************** Editors Note: The Woman list presented was taken from Facebook/email forwards I received. The Men list I created myself. Some people didn’t see the acknowledgement in the comments, so I’m placing it here. Cool? Cool. All for your enjoyment! Carry on… – Streetz ******************** Language is the most dynamic aspect of human interaction. We [...]
You Doin’ You? Nah Shorty, You Doin’ Me.
Today’s post is a co-effort between the light-skinned standout, Slim Jackson, and the original angry blogger, SBM. Some of you may be shouting “Double Standard!” at the end of this post, but for today…we don’t care. Slim: You know what SBM? No matter how many posts I read or conversations I have with women, I [...]
To Give it Up … or not to Give it up
****** Admin Note ****** Today, we are bringing you the first SBM multi-site, male & female collaboration post! This is history people! The beautiful, intelligent, and eloquent Nicki Sunshine of Single Sister’s Speak Out is here to speak on the topic. Enjoy – SBM *********************** Picture this: you’re sitting on a couch, the lights are off, you’re [...]
Summertime pt 1: My Fave 5 Female Features
[youtube:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1gK1e2TCFAA] Happy Friday SBM Community! Lately the sex and relationship topics around the internets have been super serious (no shots). I’m currently on vacation and took time to appreciate a lot of things in my life while gettin it in overseas and domestically like drinking and partying is going out of style I don’t smoke [...]

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