****** Admin Note ****** I’m off in Toronto enjoying Caribana, and while I promise to tweet my vacation away, as long as tmobile doesn’t hit me for roaming so I have brought you another guest post from my favorite female guest blogger … Lisa Marie.  Enjoy. – SBM ********************** I thought I’d write about what [...]

As a life coach, there is always someone hoping to get some time on my couch. I haven’t been accepting new patients lately because I’m writing book, blog and I have a full plate of clients already. However, it’s time to answer the mail that we have received. Secretary Skridbit seems to think that if [...]

Top of the morning SBM community, So last week was one of the most prolific weeks in the history of the site. We thank you for support. One discussion of out the 5 spectacular (no pleasure P) posts was Slim and SBMs team post on Women “doing them” In this post, we explored a common [...]

I was out of town this weekend havin’ a grand ole time in the mountains of West Virginia. And as with every great expedition, there comes a flurry of blog topic ideas. Now some of you may be wondering what the hell I was doing in West Virginia since there really isn’t sh*t to do [...]

Today is my birthday.  I’m feeling old now, but I’m also feeling a little bit wiser.  This is the second birthday I’m sharing with the blog, and it makes me thing about back in the day when I used to single handily write 5 posts a week in order to get some readers.  Now I [...]

****** Admin Note *** As many of you know, we here, in addition to bringing your that raw hotness on the daily, are trying to win an award.  I know it’s unbecoming for a grown man to beg … but it’s balls the wall time. **gets down on both knees** PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE Vote us [...]

****** Admin Note ***** Remember that the team’s been on twitter since before twitter was hot (yes … we are the reason twitter is big!).  Add us! Single Black Male (The One & Only) Slim Jackson Streetz Dr. J ************************** I dug into the archives for this one.  I actually wrote this piece in 2006.  [...]

**************** Editors Note: The Woman list presented was taken from Facebook/email forwards I received. The Men list I created myself. Some people didn’t see the acknowledgement in the comments, so I’m placing it here. Cool? Cool. All for your enjoyment! Carry on… – Streetz ******************** Language is the most dynamic aspect of human interaction. We [...]

Today’s post is a co-effort between the light-skinned standout, Slim Jackson, and the original angry blogger, SBM. Some of you may be shouting “Double Standard!” at the end of this post, but for today…we don’t care. Slim: You know what SBM? No matter how many posts I read or conversations I have with women, I [...]

****** Admin Note ****** Today, we are bringing you the first SBM multi-site, male & female collaboration post!  This is history people! The beautiful, intelligent, and eloquent Nicki Sunshine of Single Sister’s Speak Out is here to speak on the topic. Enjoy – SBM *********************** Picture this: you’re sitting on a couch, the lights are off, you’re [...]