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Happy Friday SBM Community!
Lately the sex and relationship topics around the internets have been super serious (no shots). I’m currently on vacation and took time to appreciate a lot of things in my life while gettin it in overseas and domestically like drinking and partying is going out of style I don’t smoke weed, but I’m feeling calm and reflexive. I realize that even though I’m a fall baby x 2, summer is my favorite month. Work is light, the weather is beautiful, and the biggest joy of my summer experience occurs. Women want to look sexy, show their winter/spring gym results off, and the short skirts, baby tees, and other light clothes come out to play! I’m far from misogynistic, but I am infatuated/enamored with the female body. Women, you make my season when you show me what you got (c) Jay-Z en el verano. You always remind me which parts of you I adore the most. Yes this is purely physical, and yes I’m going in! Its Friday, I got a tan, I’m drinking mai tais with Tata down in Panama (aite mama!), and its time to have some fun! Allow me to introduce you to my Fave 5 female body parts I love to see:
#5 – Hair: Any women who knows me knows that I love women’s hair. Short, long, straight, curly, fro, it don’t matter. If you take care of “that jawn” and make it look nice, I have no problem grabbing, pulling, running my fingers through it and massaging your scalp while watching your eyes twinkle in approval. Does this mean I have a fetish?
#4 – Legs(including feet): I definitely don’t have a feet fetish, but I will glance down at a woman’s feet on the sly to see if its Hammer Time or Cobb County inside those open toe shoes. Beautiful feet are sexy, and just add to the appeal. Now legs appeal to me just as much. If you got toned, nice, legs that’s a plus. You don’t have to be a track star, but well kept legs, nicely shaved (not thorn bush-esque) makes me want to operate them like the dude who guides planes on runways with the orange flashlights. Tall women use this to their advantage, and legs for days..mmm-mmm good!
#3 – Face: I never been the dude to want to beat holla at a woman with a BAD body and a gangsta grill. I’m sorry, but a pretty face, nice lips, good teeth, natural sex appeal, and other facial features (dimples, birthmarks, moles) all add to the ambiance of the female body. If I see a woman up close, I’m looking at the face first #liesmentell and assessing the rest of the body later.
#2 – Booty: In a tough and close race, the derriere falls to second place. Whether you got the little poke out [||] or the big body caboose, I love looking at them either way. When I see a woman from behind, my eyes guide down to below their waste automatically, as if they are genetically programmed with big booty radar. I love the way they move, giggle, and bounce. A beautiful butt that flows like the Nile and moves in synchronization like the music of the Philharmonic Orchestra is priceless and visual perfection. Flatties need not apply, see you in winter!
#1 – Breasts: I always wrestled with the question of breasts vs booty and never knew which side I chose. I finally admitted that breasts are the pinnacle of my favorite body parts to see when the climate gets affable. I know there was a classic breast post prior to this, but visually, a woman’s twin peaks makes a brother say Ughhhhh na-na-na-naaa! I’m a man of science, and I’m always into good proportions, so I appreciate a nice set of breasts, especially when women denounce the restrictive bra and give that middle finger to society in all their nipply pleasure. Bathing suits accentuate these dual marvels with grace and beauty. I literally have to focus my eyes on a woman’s forehead if her breast game is proper. I’m not rude, nor am i like one of these hooligans who stare aimlessly. Just know that I see you, I appreciate them you, and my constant smile and nod is an affirmation of my breast best interests at heart!
Forget about your exes, the dude who sold you a dream, the chick that gets on your last nerve, and all these feelings in general. It’s Summer damn it! Let’s have fun in the sun, appreciate the eye candy, and rock out with our c*ocks out! Fellas, what do you wait to see when Summer arrives? Ladies, what do you like to see from guys in the summer (I had to fellas sorry)? Ladies do you enjoy showing off your body and/or dressing to the season as much as we like to look? Is Streetz nothing more than a digital voyeur?
Happy Friday Mi Gente!
P.S – Check out Streetztalk.net over the next few weeks for the premiere of THE Streetztalk Video Network (TSVN) video blogs and my globetrotter confessions where I chronicle my latest excursions to Latin America (Panama and Miami, lol)
Suitcase Streetz alias Streetz Se Puede alias Calles San Diego
Good list, can't argue here. Good shit fam..
I love to see men with nice footwear. I like shoes that are different, not only the tennis shoes.
I also love to see men in color.
Because my legs are really long although I'm only 5'6', I mostly show those in the summer. My chest has gotten bigger when I put on a little weight but I don't like showing that. I don't like that kind of attention.
I admire the pretty round brown having women- I want one too. lol.
Send us pics so we can be the judge. Lol
LMAO!!!
Summer is a great season, rocking sundresses sandals and the curly hair is my favorite way to spend the season…and I must say I love to see a brother in a nice pair of slacks & short sleeve shirt traveling around downtown-never hurts to catch a glimpse of a brother jogging down the lake shirt off getting her X-Sport Fitness on either…
Summer time-& the living is easy…
Summer is my favorite season (besides Spring), I just love the colors and people tend to look better in the summer. I love shorts, little cute dresses and getting pedicures that I can actually show off b/c it's summer.
As for men, I loooove to see a really dark chocolate man in the summer time (really any time of the year). I’m not talking about milk chocolate either, just really, really dark, tall brothas with nice features. It’s something about the way the sun reflects off their skin.
(I love black men of other complexions too
)
"I lve black men of other complexions too"
#lieswomentell lololol
*drool* nothing like a pair of strong shoulders and arms on a chocolate brother…the way the sun hits their skin…O…M…G…with the fine sheen of sweat *swoon* with that swagger in their walk *lawdjesushavemercy*
a brother in linen that is tailored to them…and some nice sandals…walking by smelling all good *breaking my neck*…and don't let him have a fresh hair cut…I ..am…done!
As for me I get to wear my high heeled sandals and I'm in heaven..shorts, capris, sundresses, slacks can be set off by the shoes. I love showing off my arms and collar bone…there's something so feminine (to me) about showing off your collar bones.
I dont think a man out there could argue with what is featured on the list, some people could argue the order. Your list may have covered the whole body. I personally would trade #2 for #1. I actually wound list em from 3 to 1, breast face booty.
@ Remi – The light brown man is making a come back trust.
On a side note, not a reply to Remi but her point made me think of it, Why is it ok for women to love than some dark choc mofo but men can love a light bright?
Peyso I think I wrote about this once….
It's not fair and I am guilty of shaming yaw for it.
I can give my dark chocolate bruhs love all day but as soon as the men say something about loving light girls, I get mad.
If I only had a dollar for every double standard I've been shamed because of …
@ Remi & peyso – We tryna make sure these light skin n*ggas never come back in style!
For every Barack there is a Chris Brown. And when all else fails just bring up Eric Benet's yellow ass. He's the failure of the 21st century.
Its good to know I'm not the only one who values breasts over booty. And the real classic post was:
http://www.singleblackmale.org/2008/08/13/tig-ol-…
Good list. Everytime I mention I'm a breast man, the Black Card holders always come to reprimand me by saying it's a "white boy" trait. I find offense to that. However, I'll curb my disdain for such accusations by saying breasts are beautiful, especially when they are sitting up, looking right. I'm a leg man second. Yes, I know stereotypically I'm suppose to like the booty, and indeed I do, but when it's attached to a pair of elegant and sleek legs, stretched out and tightened ever so slightly with heels on….droooooool.
And let the church say: AMEN
Don't get me wrong: I love a nice booty. Goto any ATL stripclub and I'm in heaven! Its just somethin bout them breastisis that make me go mmmmm
this was hotness, and youre honest so that's what's up. i work in corporate america (aka, the 21st century plantation) so during the summer i love to unbutton my collar shirt for a lil office cleavage. it's the hint of a tease that gets fellas everytime.
from men, sneaker game must be on point. nice toes in sandals show confidence.
but lately i've noticed v-neck shirts (some plunge to show cleavage) are the new fashion statement from men….what's up with that?
Nubian why do you deliberately show cleavage in the office -dont you know that boobs drives men wild- do you deliberatly like to tease men – or is it about power
Ross
I already told you this Streetz but you know me….
I start with, in order: 1) Face, 2) Legs… what you failed to add here in these times of scantly cald women is 3) Back. Oh I love a sexy back. 4) Hair. I do not dig Amber Rose et all. 5) Ass, I can work with a flat chested chick, but you better have a button and bow behind you.
@ Dr. J: damn fam, light skinned niggaz need love too man! There's plentý of women who love chocolate, let the ones that want a good lookin' light skinned cat alone. Its all love in these streets fam haha.
i agree with your list brethren. but my list would have a different order.
5-hair
4-legs
3-breasts
2-ass
1-face
yeah thats what i'm going to roll with. i just love summer time because of the eye candy. it seems women try to the hardest in the summer. but don't sleep on fall either (also a fall baby). there may be less skin showing but women also be doing their thing during that season.
@ CPT:
I fully cosign your piece about breasts and long legs…*slaps myself thinkin bout my girl..* lol
@ CPT:
I fully cosign your piece about breasts and long legs…*slaps myself thinkin bout my girl..* lol
@ Dr.J @ Streetz:
I'm with you on 1)Face, 2) Legs, and so on. And Back is a good one too.
Sorry bout the double post y'all. Damn Blackberry…
Well I am born and raised in the sunshine state…so everyday is summertime and summer wear. Seasonal wardrobe…whats that??
I like legs on a guy…nice thick and muscular calves, yum! I'm sorry brothas, but with my research it seems the white guys have you beat in this department.
Love a nice broad chest and arms *swoons* (I have a serious thing for a guy in a wife-beater) and you must continue you to smell delicious in the summer as well.
@Peyso and Dr. j – LOL!!
Peyso, to answer your question. It stems from the whole light being closer to white and people assuming that if you prefer light skinned people you have issues with your own blackness, especially if it's someone who is not light skinned themselves. And some people really do have those issues and don't want to end up with dark skinned children, think dark skinned people are ugly, etc and want to be as far away from black as possible. So saying you like light skinned chicks or dudes leads people to imply all of that.
I don't hate on light skinned brothas, you all get plenty of love. I know tons of chicks who only date light skinned dudes. I just prefer dark chocolate probably b/c most of the men in my family are dark chocolate and I associate that with masculinity (which is unfair), but I do not discriminate.
Other than that stank ho humidity, I love the summer. I'm a summer baby (Leos rep!), so naturally I love the summer. It's just overall a great season. Ninjas mowing lawns in their wifebeaters (some are selfless enough to take off the shirt altogether if they got it like that), everyone smiling (maybe not up in NY…lol)….and I actually enjoy the giddiness that surrounds men when summer rolls around.
I secretly like that I can drive ya crazy in a summer dress…you can look all ya want, just make sure respect is there and you might get to ogle longer.
Top three body parts I love on ya'll ninjas:
1. Arms
2. Chest
3. Lips
Also, major co-sign to natural nubian on the sly sexiness at the office. I think that is far sexier and has more of a lasting effect on guys than the overt, rauncy displays of the sexy.
Oh, and glad you're enjoying the vacay, streetz. Live it up!
As many of my brethren have shared, this list pretty much sums it up but I'd change the order and add maybe 1. Not sure how else to word this, but I like looking at physically fit chicks with a bit of muscle/lean/cutness. This is not to be confused with brolick broads. Chicks wit abs showing (4/6 pack) are sessy to me. As for the booty or boobs debate, I think I'd give the slight edge to bootycheeks.
V neck white tees are for the summer beach bum in us all. Rocked that like I was vinny chase in entourage.
This list changes for overall personal preference where face is always #1 but that's another blog
I cosign the additions to the list
Ladies please send pics so I can properly gauge your summer sexy. Twitter preferably
Hit me on twitter with any future ideas for this summertime series
I still got sand in my shorts from Panama. Chuuch
Eff a feelin bad and stressin whackness. Its summer bitches! Live it up and be sorry 2morro hahaha
Flight attendants stressin me..will holla in a few
@Streetz:
you writin from the plane? That's dedication for ya ass…or maybe addiction lol
Yea I was doin a live twitter session from the plane. I couldn't sleep the cabin pressure was givin me a headache so I sd eff it and got my wifi on. Lol @ addiction
Lol. I feel u on the pressure tip. Much as I love to fly, comin down is always a bitch on the ears. Wifi? You got the iPhone or somethin? I'd kill to have it on my Berry..
palm Pre family!
Word? I gotta get my hands on one. I'm a tech whore so I'm usually up on that stuff, but I've been slackin for a min lol
Assy Galore > Titz McGee. Tough choice but all things equal, if I absolutely had to choose between big ghetto booty with A cups or Big Dolly Parton titties and pancake ass, easy choice.
I can cosign this statement, thats why im more for overal proportion. Its always a tough choice but flat assess are a nono lol
5. Hair( and please real) 4. Legs (smooth please) 3. Breast( between an upper B to Small D) 2. Butt( Nice round booty with the dip in the back). 1. Face ( clear skin and pretty straight teeth. Im a sucker for a beautiful smile.
Overall though, I love a woman that is proportionate. she can not have huge breast and no butt, or vice versa. Its either front and back are small, medium, or large together.