Yes … Men do cook for women!

August 31, 2009 By 38 Comments

***** Admin Note ***** I almost forgot to mention, today is the last day to vote for the Black Weblog Awards. If you really love us … vote twice, and then go call your cousins and them up! http://vote.blackweblogawards.com/pick – SBM ******************* Mahogany Brown: “So what you doing tonight?” SBM: “I told my girlfriend that [...]

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Stop stunting, blinging, ballin … whatever the f* you call it!

August 28, 2009 By 48 Comments

SBM: “Dawg, did you get 22″ rims on your car?” Jerome D: “Yeah son, I had to stunt on em.” SBM: “Stunt on who?” JD: “You know son … the haters!” SBM: *loud sigh* “What haters? Who is hating on you?” JD: “You know, the people who don’t wanna see me riding clean” SBM: “You [...]

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The Get Over It Series: Get Over Yourself

August 27, 2009 By 25 Comments

****** Admin Note ****** Since Dr. J brings that fire, and since I anticipate napalm being spit with the last post … I want all my women to breathe, be calm, and then go ahead and vote for us in the Black Blog Awards … before you get all bothered. -SBM ********************** You’ve all been [...]

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Who’s Gonna Check Me Boo?!

August 26, 2009 By 24 Comments

The following is an excellent question my homegirl posted on Facebook: Fellas have you ever been with a girl who has some random male friend who thinks he has rights to her? You know who I mean the one that has a crush on her and is waiting for her to have a weak moment. [...]

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You’re Dating My Ex?!

August 25, 2009 By 52 Comments
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A couple weeks ago, a member of the great Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, Tunde, wrote a blog post on a situation that one of his female friends encountered. It is important to note that he has not been pumping said friend as would be expected of us Ques. But to give an overview, his friend [...]

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Degrees don’t make you sexy miss … Sorry

August 24, 2009 By 88 Comments

This post originally showed up for the magazine that I write for, Honey Magazine.  Every once in awhile, you realize that there are some conepts so important, so key, so monumental … you just gotta beat the point home like a tuesday night jump off drum.  Enjoy. – SBM I have an unhealthy obsession.  It’s [...]

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Reader Appreciation Week: A Deal Gone Wrong

August 21, 2009 By 11 Comments

****** Admin Note ****** I hope everyone love and appreciated our Reader Appreciation Week.  We get so many letters, it was time that we took the time to let ya’ll know we appreciate each and every one of ya’ll (yeah … you too!). On a side note … We are probably not going to be [...]

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RAW: Sleeping With Who You Sleep With?

August 20, 2009 By 25 Comments

It’s my go. Tag me in like Shawn Michaels the Heartbreak Kid, i’m ready to get in on the action. We got this email, and i’ve got some advice for this young lady. (I hope she’s young.) To the readers, below is the lady’s email. And below you will find my response. Enjoy. I know [...]

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RAW: Watch out for the BIG girl

August 19, 2009 By 61 Comments

Salutations SBM Aficionados, As the Hump Day High Commander, I’m taking today to answer a reader email because SBM made me we care about what you think! Today’s email made me almost pee my pants with laughter think for a minute about a good & prudent answer. Check the question below: Good Morning!! First and [...]

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RAW: The S*xual Multitasker

August 18, 2009 By 40 Comments

In continuing with this week’s theme of responding to reader questions, I’m gonna summarize part of a reader’s email to us and include a good chunk of her actual words. I’ll follow that up with my thoughts. Let’s begin… The reader had her eye on a dude who works in a store she frequents. She [...]

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