Comments on: Yes … Men do cook for women!

By: Innocence

Innocence — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 13:10:07 +0000

I'm with MsSmart on this one… I've been known to say "get out my kitchen" but I also don't do dishes… like ever… unless it's as a gift to him. (and he doesn't cook for me except when absolutely necessary- like working back to back 16 hr shifts or something)

Funny thing is, in both of our parents' homes, the men did the bulk of the cooking. Go figure!

By: 1uppitynegress

1uppitynegress — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 08:37:24 +0000

Because I'm a vegetarian, and because even being a vegetarian I have a laundry list things I don't eat, if a dude cooks for me its a big deal. I appreciate that he took the time to prepare for me a meal. I tend to run around soo much that a meal becomes a peach and some peanuts(trying to keep the meabolism stimulated at least) so to have him attempt veggies pasta and such, I'm happy. But I'm surprised that more guys don't cook. My ex cooked for me regularly. That was his thing, he thought he was Chef Boyarnegro. My new friend cooks for me weekly too. I appreciated that he came home from work and was concerned about making sure I ate. I just am amazed that chicks are saying its a cheap date. Never thought about it, but considering we all need to be saving dough, I'd appreciate a dude with enough foresight to say I'll cook save some $ and perhaps spend that cash on something that we'll both enjoy later. Dah well.

By: tammie

tammie — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 02:23:43 +0000

I guess I'm a b*! lol.

I want to roll my eyes every time I hear a guy offer this to me. "Cooking" dinner, (e.g. throwing some Ragu on linguine and pouring bagged salad into a bowl) is NOT impressive. Like SBM said, it's a CHEAP, nearly effortless way to get the draws.

Nope. Come harder.

By: LudaCrys

LudaCrys — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 01:54:23 +0000

I think a man cooking for me, if it was HIS idea is awesome, but I do prefer to do it myself. It boils down to skills for me-if you can make me dinner, not burn/ruin my dishes, and/or leave the kitchen spotless when its all over then we're good to go. In my kitchen its just easier for me to do the cooking though; I know where everything is and how everything works already (all ovens are not the same). If the guys fails at parts of the process then I'd rather do them myself, but it is nice to be surprised or put out of the kitchen when he has his skill set up.

Oh and f*cking on a full stomach is NEVER good for either party…how about I make you forget you were hungry and then we go cook together afterward (or in the morning)?

By: enyfilms

enyfilms — Mon, 31 Aug 2009 23:21:42 +0000

This is one of those "sounds good" but aint so good when you get older issues. I have to cook, health issues being what they are fa black ppl eff fried food all together. Plus living alone its just more practical. As a result I went from 216 to 160. At an age were most 33 year old men have guts I am gettin my six pk on. I haven't cooked for a women yet mainly cuz I haven't found one that made me wanna do it. Ladies its about if that man is moved to do it for you not just do it to fill in the "did I cook for a women" box.

Its probably not gonna happen anytime soon. Being a native NY'er and dealing with todays women, whom generally speakin in a city like this don't care if any man they date can cook. Their are a million places to eat here and NONE of em are nationwide chain restaurants.This to me is a thing for when married, kids and all that. But what's it to a single woman if the men she dates can cook or not?.

By: streetztalk

streetztalk — Mon, 31 Aug 2009 20:30:31 +0000

so just make her a salad. that way you can beat after you eat. lol

By: Reecie

Reecie — Mon, 31 Aug 2009 20:03:27 +0000

uhm…glad that works for you?

By: undressingHER

undressingHER — Mon, 31 Aug 2009 18:53:39 +0000

now that's my type of woman!!!!

By: undressingHER

undressingHER — Mon, 31 Aug 2009 18:52:41 +0000

I usually cosign your post, but this one, NAH.

I don't cook. I can make myself something to eat, as in heat up some frozen chicken tenders and add some salad from that Dole mixed salad bag I buy from the local grocery store chain. As for actually preparing food, HECKS NAW. That's what women are for, lol. I have never, wait, I did make my ex a grilled turkey sandwich once, but other than that, never made a woman anything to eat.

Would be good for game? Sure. But I have NO problem bagging chicks and having them drop panties. $200 on taking them out to eat? LMAO. Yea right. I think the most I've ever spent was $26.84 at Red Lobster and that was pushing it (besides, that girl took me out first). Serve her? wow, you going all out. My chicks set the place at my dining room table or bring the tv tray into the living room.

lastly………I don't drink. Nor will I sit around any woman while she's drinking. I know em' off sober, of I don't knock em' at all.

By: smoove gp

smoove gp — Mon, 31 Aug 2009 18:49:05 +0000

Let 'em know fam. Works well in my experience…