Venus vs. Mars: The differences that men and women need to know

From the many stories I’ve heard from friends, associates, and conversations that I eavesdropped on happen to overhear, it’s evident that men and women differ on fundamental issues. You’re a Republican, she’s a Democrat. You are a mac, she’s a PC She lives in my lap. You root for the Redskins, she’s a Cowboys fan. [...]

Aw Hun. You Dated a Celebrity? It’s Over.

I ain't datin' you if you dated him.

I was chattin’ wit my boy Seattle about fictitious and hypothetical situations the other day. Our discussion was partially inspired by SBM’s post from Friday on dating someone that’s an active and regular blogger. Personally, I haven’t dated someone that writes for a popular website. Despite what I do on a weekly basis, it’s hard [...]

Why he didn’t call: Reasons men don’t call numbers they get

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*flashback to college* Minnie: “That’s so rude and mean!” SBM: “What! How am I being rude by doing that?” Minnie: “She’s probably crying somewhere right now!” SBM: “Just because I get a girl’s phone number … doesn’t mean I have to call.” Minnie: “You should at least give one try at a conversation!” SBM: “But [...]

Dating a Blogger

A welcomed surprise her at SBM.net … we have a letter from a male reader.  He’s got an issue, I got a few answer’s, ya’ll have a lot more … let’s get together and help a brother out. SBM My girl is a blogger and I am cool with that. She actually turned me on [...]

Dr. J Answers the Mail: He’s Just Not That Into You

Hello [Dr.J], I am a 24 yr old latina, raised in atlanta. [I love SBM and need some advice]. Ok, so ive been “dating” this guy for almost a year, we met at a bar one night and have been talking since. He has two kids, and did not have a job at that time. [...]

Get Yourself Tested

A few weeks back, I had the scariest two days of my life. The test that I took was a matter of life and death. The results could dramatically change my life. Although I feared the outcome and a potential failure, I was sure in myself and did all the necessary studying to pass. After [...]

I Like Hair

I fux with this...

I fux with this…and not cuz of her complexion. I tend to think that I’m a simple man. I don’t ask for or look for too much when it comes to the appearance of women. Like most of you, I just want to date someone that I find attractive and avoid drama and tomfoolery. Granted, [...]

Friends with Benefits (FwB) to girlfriend (GF): Make the jump

Here at SBM.net we get a lot of emails … a very very healthy amount! Since we offer one of the few places in the whole wide internet where a woman can ask some men a question, and get an honest answer without us trying to smash you off later … we draw many looking [...]

The Most Wonderful Time Of the Year

***** Admin Note ***** Today ushers in the 400th post on this site. Not a man of big celebrations, it does make me think back to the days where I was grinding hard, trying to make a name, and posting all by myself every single day.  We’ve come a long way! – SBM ************************* What [...]

Who let the Swiss Athlete into the 100M?

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As a single man there are some things that I must share. Let’s be honest, it makes absolutely no sense for me to only pursue one option. That’s called putting all your eggs in one basket. In fact, I’m going to quickly contradict myself, most men put all their eggs in one basket. They just [...]