So I got the creamy crack and cried every time they put it in. She would have a fit if I cut my hair she and my father were hung up on hair…. One year in the 90s I met this guy who could cut hair. For a fashion show I whacked all of my hair off and I loved it! People would stop me on the street and ask about my cut… then I grew tired of it and I lost my hair cutter. So I started growing it out …. I tried going natural when I was living in Miami…no bueno went back to the creamy crack.

So since then I have been rocking it long and relaxed love putting it in a bun or ponytail and keep it moving! Creamy Crack was my jawn! But I could never wear it curly without putting in super small rollers or rocking out hundreds of straws…. But as I got older I really wanted to go natural rock me some afro puffs like Lady of Rage….but alas my hair doesn't do that *shrugs* so after two failed attempts in the early 90s to go au naturel. I gave up but in 2008, I stopped relaxing my hair. My hair is super thick and does what it pleases and often I couldn't get it bone straight at the root anyway.

So today I am completely au naturel no creamy crack and people love it when I wear it curly they say they like it better guys react when I wear it that way too…which is weird. I wear it curly and straight. It doesn't matter if I sweat or humidity, my hair gets big!

I can feel hatin' bitches looking at me trying to figure out if it is a weave… bitches used to pull my hair growing up I still hate those bitches! O___O

It is more work to wear it curly because my hair has different kinds of textures and different kinds of curly but somehow I make it work. When I wear it straight people swear that I went back to creamy crack…but no it is amazing what a good roller set and flat iron can do, touch up the roots with a blow dryer we good money!

I love natural hair. I love dreads (when done right). I hate when people try to wear their hair beyond what it was meant to be or do. Some folk wear the wrong weave/wig or rock lace fronts knowing full well they are not an actor in an off Broadway play or theater production of "The Heights". Or when they wear hair that doesn't match their head, face or complexion…that shit urks the hell outta me! Grrrrr….and them be the ones that end up on Twitter with a caption that reads "you are fooling no one".

I love those clip ins and I wonder why women don't wear those. They don't damage your hair, there is no glue or sewing, you just clip in and voila you have hair. When you are done just un-clip and you good money!

So for right now I am loving my natural state I switch according to mood and weather and also I have never cared about sweating out my hair that is not going to stop me from <del>having sex</del> working out!

Let ‘s have a moratorium on weaves, lace fronts and wigs…ladies let your real hair out to breathe!

<del>having sex</del> working out!

The interesting thing I've noted is that, for the most part, I've received nothing but props from the male species. I've had several women, on the other hand, asking me when I'm going to do something with my hair. Today, an "aunt" at church said it would be nice to see me with something different. Apparently, I need to switch it up so that I can "bring that guy in". Mind you, the last guy I was involved with wasn't a fan of wigs and weaves and was happy when I showed up au naturel. Random guys stop to give me compliments. At least one guy has told me that he doesn't generally find short hair attractive, but that he likes the way it looks on me. It really makes me wonder about women and the things they/we do, thinking that it's what men want.

In any case, I've decided to protect my hair for the Winter and get some weave action in. I'm going to miss being able to run my hands through my hair. Like, really, really going to miss it. Did I ever mention that I'm kinda obsessed with healthily fascinated by hair?

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Personally I feel as though my style fluctuates on a daily basis. I am a young woman, so I do care about my appearance and will attempt to make my hair look nice as much as possible. However, given that I am also a university student, my schedule often times does not provide me with the time to do so. My saving grace has been the braid. I find you can throw one of those in your hair creatively and you automatically get a modern-looking hair style.