Fright Night – Beware!

She's a spitter...

It’s not quite the most wonderful time of the year, but everyone looks forward to Halloween, especially now that we’re grown and can get hopped up on booze instead of candy.  Along with the boozin’ and candy there is gonna come some trickin’, and possibly some treatin’ if you trick hard enough.  And why the [...]

Nope, Doesn’t Count

So as we sit two days from the smuttiest holiday all year, I just want to remind everyone life is cumulative and not on an occurrence by occurrence basis.  This is a FaceBook note of mine from 2007. I wanted to repost it because recently some of my posts have inspired some crazy comments about [...]

We Off That

This used to be hot back in the day?! #FAIL

I’ve been pressing all week to write this post. You see…this post falls on a special day for me. Scorpio season has returned, and it’s your favorite October Scorpios’ bornday! As I reflect on my time on this Earth, I see a maturity and overall evolution as a man. I also noticed a shift in [...]

Dating with Children

This guy?

So who is the damaged goods? OR… I was watchin’ Real Housewives of Atlanta this past weekend in a moment of boredom (Don’t you dare judge me!). This particular episode happened to be one of the few where Kandi’s mother was voicing her disagreement with Kandi’s man AJ (RIP) having 6 kids. Even though it [...]

Is your phone broke: Getting him on the phone

In order to give “the other side” some representations and to thin out all the testosterone on here, we have brought back my favorite female guest blogger, Lisa Marie.  We will be back to the usual shenanigans tomorrow. – SBM ———————————————————– Ring Ring Man: hey Woman: hey….I was just calling to see if you were [...]

8 Signs She Might Be a Hoe … 2009 edition

This is a post I wrote a long long time ago (over a year).  Its funny how much I changed in that short time.  I guess that how it goes when your “young” and still open to change n sh*.  Because people have still been commenting on the original, I decided to add in my [...]

One Night Only

When I first heard One Night Only by Lil’ Wayne for some strange reason, it didn’t sound as bad as it really was. You guys who read my blogs know how much I hate how dudes will be infatuated with smashing a chick who has a man. But really when I sit down and think [...]

Don’t judge me!

One of my favorite sayings growing up was “Those who live in glass houses should not throw stones”. I think this is one of the realest sayings ever, because we do it on a regular basis. As a society, we judge quickly, although we may have similar or greater flaws than “the accused”. While I [...]

Steps Before Marriage: Doing It the Right Way

But baby, I married you yesterday.

I’m 2X years old. All of my boys are within 1 to 2 years of me if not the same age. Ever since college, there have been jokes and polls on who would be the first to take the plunge into the wonderful world of scary marriage. A few of us have boos and are [...]

Male Birth Control … FTW

After 20 years of research … we are finally approaching a effective male contraceptive (condom doesn’t count).  No more pulling out and praying … us men might finally have something that doesn’t fail once you introduce a little friction, Personally … I am all for it.  I welcome it with open arms.  If there was [...]