Comments on: Ghosts of Relationships Past http://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/10/06/ghosts-of-relationships-past/ The Source For Black Male Perspective Thu, 09 Feb 2012 19:40:34 +0000 hourly 1 By: DenzelWgaphttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/10/06/ghosts-of-relationships-past/#comment-43672 DenzelWgap Mon, 02 Nov 2009 07:19:20 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2573#comment-43672 Good evening, HAPPY HALLOWEN!!! Good evening, HAPPY HALLOWEN!!!

]]> By: Dr. Jhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/10/06/ghosts-of-relationships-past/#comment-41640 Dr. J Tue, 06 Oct 2009 18:28:41 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2573#comment-41640 Clarification, lol. A 10 is perfection, 9.5 is still flawed. Pookie w/ 3 kids ain't gonna cut it. Clarification, lol. A 10 is perfection, 9.5 is still flawed. Pookie w/ 3 kids ain't gonna cut it.

]]> By: Tundehttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/10/06/ghosts-of-relationships-past/#comment-41629 Tunde Tue, 06 Oct 2009 15:44:02 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2573#comment-41629 hood-i go to pick her up from her house and she lives right next door to the trap house. her brothers are bangers and she blows more bud than snoop. these are just examples by the way. hood-i go to pick her up from her house and she lives right next door to the trap house. her brothers are bangers and she blows more bud than snoop. these are just examples by the way.

]]> By: Neonneahttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/10/06/ghosts-of-relationships-past/#comment-41628 Neonnea Tue, 06 Oct 2009 15:35:53 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2573#comment-41628 oh okay...because the American culture, it seems to be more "trendy." Even in some African American families... oh okay…because the American culture, it seems to be more "trendy." Even in some African American families…

]]> By: Neonneahttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/10/06/ghosts-of-relationships-past/#comment-41627 Neonnea Tue, 06 Oct 2009 15:33:48 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2573#comment-41627 I love my gay best friend! We've been good friends since 6th grade. I developed a crush on him right before transitioning into high school. My family told me he was...but I didn't want to believe it because when the crush died, he admitted to having the hots for a chick in our class. Long story short, he "came out" to me winter of 2005, maybe. I think it had a lot to do with the fact that I said, "if my ex is gay after I date him, I would think it's something wrong with me..." Either way, he takes me out on the best dinner dates when he is around and buy me the best gifts. About two years again, I he gave me a GPS. Fast forward a little bit. I met a guy at my lil hole in the wall spot in Hayward. We were doing a lot of flirting while playing a game of pool. He had on a white tee, shorts, some clean sneakers...ball cap. His mannerism was very masculine (maybe a little hood). So we get on the topic of relationships, and he openly tells me that he is bi! I kept saying huh like he said something in a different language. But after the third "bi" I got it. I was more appreciative than disguisted. He quickly when into my cuddy buddy category. Kind of wanted him to be the local Will to my Grace. Haven't had a full blown co-worker fling. Did go out with a co-worker a time or two at a previous location. It wasn't bad. We definitely kept business seperate from pleasure. I love my gay best friend! We've been good friends since 6th grade. I developed a crush on him right before transitioning into high school. My family told me he was…but I didn't want to believe it because when the crush died, he admitted to having the hots for a chick in our class. Long story short, he "came out" to me winter of 2005, maybe. I think it had a lot to do with the fact that I said, "if my ex is gay after I date him, I would think it's something wrong with me…"

Either way, he takes me out on the best dinner dates when he is around and buy me the best gifts. About two years again, I he gave me a GPS.

Fast forward a little bit. I met a guy at my lil hole in the wall spot in Hayward. We were doing a lot of flirting while playing a game of pool. He had on a white tee, shorts, some clean sneakers…ball cap. His mannerism was very masculine (maybe a little hood). So we get on the topic of relationships, and he openly tells me that he is bi! I kept saying huh like he said something in a different language. But after the third "bi" I got it. I was more appreciative than disguisted. He quickly when into my cuddy buddy category. Kind of wanted him to be the local Will to my Grace.

Haven't had a full blown co-worker fling. Did go out with a co-worker a time or two at a previous location. It wasn't bad. We definitely kept business seperate from pleasure.

]]> By: Yonnie3khttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/10/06/ghosts-of-relationships-past/#comment-41626 Yonnie3k Tue, 06 Oct 2009 15:26:49 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2573#comment-41626 I think she was just saying that the fact that he is Haitian may be why he won't come out of the closet. B/c culturally, it may be even more frowned upon that normal. I think she was just saying that the fact that he is Haitian may be why he won't come out of the closet. B/c culturally, it may be even more frowned upon that normal.

]]> By: Neonneahttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/10/06/ghosts-of-relationships-past/#comment-41625 Neonnea Tue, 06 Oct 2009 15:14:57 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2573#comment-41625 Hey now. I've been known to be a little "rough around the edges..." Define: when from bad to worst? Like to have an idea of what you generalize as "hood" or "rough around the edges." Hey now. I've been known to be a little "rough around the edges…" Define: when from bad to worst? Like to have an idea of what you generalize as "hood" or "rough around the edges."

]]> By: Neonneahttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/10/06/ghosts-of-relationships-past/#comment-41624 Neonnea Tue, 06 Oct 2009 15:12:24 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2573#comment-41624 Um...does Mr. Haiti always order vegetarian meals or always watch his meat intake. That's another confirmation... Um…does Mr. Haiti always order vegetarian meals or always watch his meat intake. That's another confirmation…

]]> By: Neonneahttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/10/06/ghosts-of-relationships-past/#comment-41623 Neonnea Tue, 06 Oct 2009 14:57:58 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2573#comment-41623 Prefection is God's work. It wasn't you honey... So if guys aren't looking for perfection, do they then settle for Pookie with 3 kids and 4 different baby daddies because she gotta fatty? Prefection is God's work.

It wasn't you honey…

So if guys aren't looking for perfection, do they then settle for Pookie with 3 kids and 4 different baby daddies because she gotta fatty?

]]> By: Neonneahttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/10/06/ghosts-of-relationships-past/#comment-41622 Neonnea Tue, 06 Oct 2009 14:50:50 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2573#comment-41622 Too bad I don't have any co-worker prospects. That sounds hot! Too bad I don't have any co-worker prospects. That sounds hot!

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