***** Admin Note ***** It is official … I am now an ATLien. After a very long weekend, a lot of miles on the car, and alot of UGK and Gucci Mane to keep my sanity while driving, I am not in my new apartment in Atlanta. My love for DC will stay on into [...]
Rekindling Old Flames with a Blast From the Past
November 26, 2009 By 5 Comments
With the holidays nearing we will travel from whatever our locations are around the country to our hometowns. It’s an excellent time to visit family and friends, enjoy home cooked meals, and hang out with the old buddies. I always enjoyed this time home from brick ass cold Syracuse, NY. I enjoyed hanging out with [...]
I Wanna Thank You…
November 25, 2009 By 15 Comments
Good Folk of the SBM Community, As we prepare to celebrate Thanksgiving here in the States (because you know we got international readers…and sh*t), it’s a time to celebrate, reflect, and get some time off work, shop on Black Friday, and thronx until the cows come home relax and enjoy the company of loved ones. [...]
The Obligations of Holiday Dating
November 24, 2009 By 15 Comments
The holidays are quickly approaching. Thanksgiving in a couple days, Black Friday after that, Christmas/Kwanzaa/Hanukkah, and then New Years. The holiday season can be great. I mean let’s think about it. You have less days to do work (hopefully). You’ll probably get at least 1 gift unless you’re just a terrible human being. And, you [...]
Nerds don’t fight?: The Alley Test
November 23, 2009 By 74 Comments
It’s generally a well known fact that girls often are highly attracted to and often flock to those “icky” guys … you know, your thugs, a**holes, wife beaters and such. What’s even worst is that nice guys really are finishing last. A**holes are in high demand, while nice guys fight over the few girls looking [...]
The Claim Game: Revisited
November 20, 2009 By 13 Comments
The Claim Game
November 18, 2009 By 6 Comments
Whether you hit a house party, a club, wedding, or other social gathering with groups of friends, you’ll always come across a team of people that the crew is feeling. One of the funniest situations between men and women when it comes to courting, is something I like to call “The Claim Game”. We, have [...]
What’s Your Love Language?
November 17, 2009 By 28 Comments
This past weekend I got the book thrown at me. No, I didn’t get arrested this time. I’m talking about that “The 5 Love Languages for Singles” book by Gary Chapman. In my perusal of blog world and even this here website, I’ve seen women repeatedly mention these golden scriptures. I guess that would make [...]
Why men lead women on … and vice versa
November 16, 2009 By 12 Comments
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