Comments on: Deny Everything http://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/11/05/deny-everything/ The Source For Black Male Perspective Thu, 09 Feb 2012 17:42:18 +0000 hourly 1 By: Joe Kleanesthttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/11/05/deny-everything/#comment-76292 Joe Kleanest Tue, 13 Jul 2010 15:31:35 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2703#comment-76292 I guess the biggest thing would be for women to realize when a man is serious and when he isn't. I am not saying that women let their men cheat...but ..just dont get to comfortable...some dudes NEED a shorter leash...just like some girls need handcuffs...lol I guess the biggest thing would be for women to realize when a man is serious and when he isn't. I am not saying that women let their men cheat…but ..just dont get to comfortable…some dudes NEED a shorter leash…just like some girls need handcuffs…lol

]]> By: Joe Kleanesthttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/11/05/deny-everything/#comment-76291 Joe Kleanest Tue, 13 Jul 2010 15:29:24 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2703#comment-76291 I feel like this advise is good but ur giving away to much...Most dudes learn this naturally in mid highschool....its pure instinct... I feel like this advise is good but ur giving away to much…Most dudes learn this naturally in mid highschool….its pure instinct…

]]> By: Guest Post: Woman and the Truth 101 (a Cheat Sheet For Men) - MetAnotherFrog | Meet. Kiss. Delete.http://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/11/05/deny-everything/#comment-69431 Guest Post: Woman and the Truth 101 (a Cheat Sheet For Men) - MetAnotherFrog | Meet. Kiss. Delete. Fri, 11 Jun 2010 02:57:16 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2703#comment-69431 [...] two choices: evade – which is tricky and unlikely to work – or deny. As my buddy Dr. Jay says, Deny, deny, deny…at least until you’ve ascertained what her motivation is for asking the question. Remember that [...] [...] two choices: evade – which is tricky and unlikely to work – or deny. As my buddy Dr. Jay says, Deny, deny, deny…at least until you’ve ascertained what her motivation is for asking the question. Remember that [...]

]]> By: Lilihttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/11/05/deny-everything/#comment-43987 Lili Fri, 06 Nov 2009 01:57:21 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2703#comment-43987 Missed this post today, but man...I'm a bit disheartened. Things like this make my faith in men wane. I trust my man but damn. It seems like cheating is so damn prevalent, and here, there's no admonishment for the behavior- just a how-to guide. Why be in a relationship if you want to share your goods with someone other than your significant other? I went to dinner with one of my boys recently and he was telling me about his jump-off...and I told him how bothered and disgusted I was. He assumes his girl has cheated once or twice, so I guess that makes it all okay. He was surprised when I said I never stepped out on a bf, as if he never encountered someone who has the ability to be faithful. Yea, if you're going to cheat you shouldn't get caught, but why not leave before you deceive your partner? Missed this post today, but man…I'm a bit disheartened. Things like this make my faith in men wane. I trust my man but damn. It seems like cheating is so damn prevalent, and here, there's no admonishment for the behavior- just a how-to guide.

Why be in a relationship if you want to share your goods with someone other than your significant other?

I went to dinner with one of my boys recently and he was telling me about his jump-off…and I told him how bothered and disgusted I was. He assumes his girl has cheated once or twice, so I guess that makes it all okay. He was surprised when I said I never stepped out on a bf, as if he never encountered someone who has the ability to be faithful.

Yea, if you're going to cheat you shouldn't get caught, but why not leave before you deceive your partner?

]]> By: NSkylarhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/11/05/deny-everything/#comment-43982 NSkylar Thu, 05 Nov 2009 21:23:32 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2703#comment-43982 This is so true, combined with True Man's advice. Don't get caught really means "be detailed enough to not only cover your tracks but to set the stage so that there AREN'T any tracks to uncover in the first place." A true girlfriend knows her man's habits, interests, routines, etc. Most men do things that raise a mental red flag without even knowing it. In my opinion - if a man is going to cheat and he thinks he has it covered...he should ask himself "How would I try to hide this if my girl was in the F.B.I.?" The answer is to plan it well out in advance so that there isn't a blip on the radar to begin with. The best lies / alibis have a decent element of truth in them. The same advice applies to women, but the ones I know that do it / have done it already follow these rules....and none of them have ever gotten caught. It's all about the small, seemingly insignificant details... This is so true, combined with True Man's advice. Don't get caught really means "be detailed enough to not only cover your tracks but to set the stage so that there AREN'T any tracks to uncover in the first place." A true girlfriend knows her man's habits, interests, routines, etc. Most men do things that raise a mental red flag without even knowing it. In my opinion – if a man is going to cheat and he thinks he has it covered…he should ask himself "How would I try to hide this if my girl was in the F.B.I.?" The answer is to plan it well out in advance so that there isn't a blip on the radar to begin with. The best lies / alibis have a decent element of truth in them.

The same advice applies to women, but the ones I know that do it / have done it already follow these rules….and none of them have ever gotten caught. It's all about the small, seemingly insignificant details…

]]> By: GiGihttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/11/05/deny-everything/#comment-43979 GiGi Thu, 05 Nov 2009 19:42:42 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2703#comment-43979 Lol...true that... SMH... Lol…true that… SMH…

]]> By: Streetztalkhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/11/05/deny-everything/#comment-43978 Streetztalk Thu, 05 Nov 2009 19:12:41 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2703#comment-43978 SO what do men do when their women turn around and get all scorned and use these very same rules against them? ^^ We go and Thronx the next dudes girl, and charge it to karma. Chuuch SO what do men do when their women turn around and get all scorned and use these very same rules against them?

^^

We go and Thronx the next dudes girl, and charge it to karma. Chuuch

]]> By: GiGihttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/11/05/deny-everything/#comment-43977 GiGi Thu, 05 Nov 2009 19:08:39 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2703#comment-43977 SO what do men do when their women turn around and get all scorned and use these very same rules against them? Just outta curiosity... I'm with Stephanie. If you wanna slut it out, be single. Why bring another party into your mess, when there are so many single women out there willing and ready to give it up? SO what do men do when their women turn around and get all scorned and use these very same rules against them? Just outta curiosity…

I'm with Stephanie. If you wanna slut it out, be single. Why bring another party into your mess, when there are so many single women out there willing and ready to give it up?

]]> By: AnonyMisshttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/11/05/deny-everything/#comment-43975 AnonyMiss Thu, 05 Nov 2009 18:04:55 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2703#comment-43975 im mad ur givin advice on how to get away w/ cheating... men suck at lying.... most likely she'll find out && then you really have no chance of ever getting back togetha. i agree w/ steph... if you're not interested in being in a committed relationship just say it upfront... id rather no at the start then for you to lie to me && find out later that i wasted my time... thats just selfish. && if and when i do find out i will make sure to get ur ass back in some way im mad ur givin advice on how to get away w/ cheating… men suck at lying…. most likely she'll find out && then you really have no chance of ever getting back togetha.

i agree w/ steph… if you're not interested in being in a committed relationship just say it upfront… id rather no at the start then for you to lie to me && find out later that i wasted my time… thats just selfish. && if and when i do find out i will make sure to get ur ass back in some way

]]> By: Miss_Sophiahttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/11/05/deny-everything/#comment-43968 Miss_Sophia Thu, 05 Nov 2009 13:54:52 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2703#comment-43968 I find #1 quiet interesting...never thought of it that way but ol' boys side piece was a trailer park whyte chick with 2 kids. . We neeeever would have crossed paths on a casual basis. I find #1 quiet interesting…never thought of it that way but ol' boys side piece was a trailer park whyte chick with 2 kids. . We neeeever would have crossed paths on a casual basis.

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