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> <channel><title>Comments on: The Obligations of Holiday Dating</title> <atom:link href="http://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/11/24/holiday-dating/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/11/24/holiday-dating/</link> <description>The Source For Black Male Perspective</description> <lastBuildDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 17:39:04 +0000</lastBuildDate> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <xhtml:meta xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" name="robots" content="noindex" /> <item><title>By: beach holiday bulgar</title><link>http://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/11/24/holiday-dating/#comment-120154</link> <dc:creator>beach holiday bulgar</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 12 Oct 2010 03:17:54 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2805#comment-120154</guid> <description>Exciting, I&#039;ve certainly not discovered this... </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Exciting, I&#039;ve certainly not discovered this&#8230;</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Lauren Viano</title><link>http://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/11/24/holiday-dating/#comment-72666</link> <dc:creator>Lauren Viano</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 27 Jun 2010 09:55:53 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2805#comment-72666</guid> <description>I have a hard time staying in a lasting relationship. It has finally occured to me I need dating tips and advice. Obviously I turned to the internet and found your site on google and I am glad i did. good information on here. Keep doing what you&#039;re doing. I&#039;ll bookmark and be back! &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.rackupdates.com&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;On-line Dating Tips for the Single Guy&lt;/a&gt; </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a hard time staying in a lasting relationship. It has finally occured to me I need dating tips and advice. Obviously I turned to the internet and found your site on google and I am glad i did. good information on here. Keep doing what you&#039;re doing. I&#039;ll bookmark and be back! <a
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isPermaLink="false">http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2805#comment-45585</guid> <description>It is better to talk about it before doing the &#039;act&#039;...tell them you do not intend to make it anything serious...
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isPermaLink="false">http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2805#comment-45246</guid> <description>CHUUUUCH!!
That is all </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>CHUUUUCH!!</p><p>That is all</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: TrueMan</title><link>http://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/11/24/holiday-dating/#comment-45238</link> <dc:creator>TrueMan</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 16:15:14 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2805#comment-45238</guid> <description>You have to make that clear though so you both have the same understanding. I was &quot;casually&quot; dating someone last year and she told her family I was coming to Thanksgiving dinner.  I, of course, had NO INTENTION on going.  Meeting the fam is a big no-no in &quot;casual dating&quot;.
It&#039;s an akward conversation but one you have to have. </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You have to make that clear though so you both have the same understanding. I was &quot;casually&quot; dating someone last year and she told her family I was coming to Thanksgiving dinner.  I, of course, had NO INTENTION on going.  Meeting the fam is a big no-no in &quot;casual dating&quot;.</p><p>It&#039;s an akward conversation but one you have to have.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Mz Good Heart</title><link>http://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/11/24/holiday-dating/#comment-45233</link> <dc:creator>Mz Good Heart</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 15:12:43 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2805#comment-45233</guid> <description>I am also in that place right now...Me &amp; the Friend have been seeing each other for a lil while we have not had chex yet. So to make sure nobody feels away about anything I just ask the simple questions are we exchanging gifts...its gonna be a yes or no(no wrong no foul).
I love all hoildays though mostly Christmas &amp; Birthdays so I love giving gifts...!!! </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am also in that place right now&#8230;Me &amp; the Friend have been seeing each other for a lil while we have not had chex yet. So to make sure nobody feels away about anything I just ask the simple questions are we exchanging gifts&#8230;its gonna be a yes or no(no wrong no foul).</p><p>I love all hoildays though mostly Christmas &amp; Birthdays so I love giving gifts&#8230;!!!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Nikki</title><link>http://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/11/24/holiday-dating/#comment-45230</link> <dc:creator>Nikki</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 14:52:59 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2805#comment-45230</guid> <description>Dang....you guys really do a good job at keeping a sistah in the loop of how dudes think. I&#039;ve only had one dude who has ever given me a present on my Bday like 7 years ago and its still meaningful to this day. Mainly because it reveals how insignificant you are to someone. Yeah you have the parameters of timing but at the end of the day if someone means something to you you&#039;ll get them a gift or do something special. I&#039;ve been conditioned to not expect anything ever.....sad because I luv gift giving and I&#039;m a stickler for good wrapping, thought, and presentation. smh...stay making the wrong decisions in men.....Ah well no sex for me....better ask Santa for a toy solider lol...... </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dang&#8230;.you guys really do a good job at keeping a sistah in the loop of how dudes think. I&#039;ve only had one dude who has ever given me a present on my Bday like 7 years ago and its still meaningful to this day. Mainly because it reveals how insignificant you are to someone. Yeah you have the parameters of timing but at the end of the day if someone means something to you you&#039;ll get them a gift or do something special. I&#039;ve been conditioned to not expect anything ever&#8230;..sad because I luv gift giving and I&#039;m a stickler for good wrapping, thought, and presentation. smh&#8230;stay making the wrong decisions in men&#8230;..Ah well no sex for me&#8230;.better ask Santa for a toy solider lol&#8230;&#8230;</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Ms.Lotus</title><link>http://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/11/24/holiday-dating/#comment-45228</link> <dc:creator>Ms.Lotus</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 14:36:06 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2805#comment-45228</guid> <description>I&#039;d have to agree..&quot;great&quot;sex..is a wonderful gift.. </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#039;d have to agree..&quot;great&quot;sex..is a wonderful gift..</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Ms.Lotus</title><link>http://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/11/24/holiday-dating/#comment-45226</link> <dc:creator>Ms.Lotus</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 14:22:55 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2805#comment-45226</guid> <description>I get 2 gifts..
Ms.Lotus aka..&quot;I should get two gifts because they are 2 different occasions&quot; </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I get 2 gifts..</p><p>Ms.Lotus aka..&quot;I should get two gifts because they are 2 different occasions&quot;</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Stephanie</title><link>http://www.singleblackmale.org/2009/11/24/holiday-dating/#comment-45223</link> <dc:creator>Stephanie</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 13:09:05 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=2805#comment-45223</guid> <description>Me and my boo &quot;casual date&quot; around the holidays. Either someone is free or someone is not. It&#039;s a tricky situation especially with school and kids involved. If we don&#039;t intend on chilling on a holiday, I&#039;ll send him an voicemail before I go over the fams house. He&#039;ll call the next day and we&#039;ll hook up. Sex was our gift to each other. You can&#039;t go wrong with that. </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Me and my boo &quot;casual date&quot; around the holidays. Either someone is free or someone is not. It&#039;s a tricky situation especially with school and kids involved. If we don&#039;t intend on chilling on a holiday, I&#039;ll send him an voicemail before I go over the fams house. He&#039;ll call the next day and we&#039;ll hook up. Sex was our gift to each other. You can&#039;t go wrong with that.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss>
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