I’ve always had a few females friends. I used to think they were good resources for back when I was socially awkward and lacked the ability to talk to women.  I figured “girls know what other girls like.  They will lead me out of this awkward phase”.  Man … I was kidding my self. Some [...]

Me: What’s up? Miss Esquire: What’s up with your boy J? Me: What do you mean? Miss Esq.: Your boy that you introduced me to at Pranna? Me: Oh you mean Mike? Miss Esq.: Yeah, he call himself being slick. He invited me out to the movies and can you believe that he decided to [...]

Adina Howard proclaimed it from the highest stripper pole rooftop. Hip hop emcees fantasize and prophecies about these individuals. Women’s toes curl at the mere mention of a male who bears this label. Even the great Ludacris wanted to have many one of these women christen his boudoir. Of course I’m talking about freaks! These [...]

As much wisdom as I may claim to have or not have, I still find myself saying a variety of things to a booski-piece that land me in the dog house or on the couch scratching my head trying to figure out why she’s mad. Please note: No woman has ever made me sleep on [...]

SBM: “I don’t think I can take it anymore!” Minnie (My good female friend): “What’s wrong now?” SBM: “All these weaves on girls.  Look at that chic … ugh!” Minnie: “What?  What’s wrong with it?” SBM: “It just looks fake.  Besides … I hate weaves and all they stand for.” Minnie: “Are you black?” SBM: [...]

One of the most annoying but necessary evils of sexual relations is wrapping it up.  I think a little piece of every man dies every time he cops a box of rubbers, especially if it’s a last minute purchase at a corner store or a gas station. ::Yeah, let me get $40 on 8, a [...]

The one thing that bothers me in the Blogworld is Female Conspiracy Theorists, women who believe that everything is some game or that every man is out for something. Quite frankly, we’re not, we don’t care that much and we don’t have time for games. Experience tells us that if it walks like a duck, [...]

One good thing about Single Black Male is that our cast of writers have the ability to think outside the box. We present age old arguments and dilemmas in a fresh and updated light for our readers, in order to adjust and relate to current times. I’m heavily influenced by sports, literature, pop culture, and [...]

The following is the story of an event that transpired between one of my boys and his boo. Hopefully his boo doesn’t read this website. If she does, my bad homie. You told me that I could write about it. Larry lays in bed next to his boo, Estefania, while she reads an urban magazine. [...]

As I continue to present both sides of the proverbial relationship coin, I am forced to do some self examination and admit my mortality.  In addition, I must dig deep into my infallible wisdom to figure out the failures of my infallible wisdom.  And every once in awhile I need to put it out there in a public forum (that means [...]