Comments on: Black Male Bloggers: Our Words Are Gospel http://www.singleblackmale.org/2010/01/12/black-male-bloggers-ftw/ The Source For Black Male Perspective Thu, 09 Feb 2012 19:21:31 +0000 hourly 1 By: SBM Relationship Blogs and the Gospel from Hell | The Musings of a Finer Feministhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2010/01/12/black-male-bloggers-ftw/#comment-313506 SBM Relationship Blogs and the Gospel from Hell | The Musings of a Finer Feminist Wed, 25 May 2011 05:07:50 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=3023#comment-313506 [...] misogyny.  They are aware of it but they dismiss it out of hand with swift disclaimers like these, Black Male Bloggers: Our Words Are Gospel , that are meant to disavow them of any serious responsibility for the way they talk to their [...] [...] misogyny.  They are aware of it but they dismiss it out of hand with swift disclaimers like these, Black Male Bloggers: Our Words Are Gospel , that are meant to disavow them of any serious responsibility for the way they talk to their [...]

]]> By: YBhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2010/01/12/black-male-bloggers-ftw/#comment-52480 YB Sat, 06 Feb 2010 08:13:33 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=3023#comment-52480 I read that book a few years ago Ric. Very good read. There is actually a book for women very similar, but using their pocketbook as "their tacklebox". I read that book a few years ago Ric. Very good read. There is actually a book for women very similar, but using their pocketbook as "their tacklebox".

]]> By: Ric D. Harrishttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2010/01/12/black-male-bloggers-ftw/#comment-50363 Ric D. Harris Mon, 18 Jan 2010 00:03:06 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=3023#comment-50363 Read the book called The Fisherman and the Catch: Catching the Right Woman. The book is about men catching thier soulmate. The book talks about men getting thier "tackle box" together in order to catch the right fish for them. The book uses fishing analogies relating to tools men need for that catch, while describing women with the same similarities as fish. As an example the book talks about Panfish, Trout, Catfish and Bass using the behaviors of those fish and relating them to types of women. The book is so true and very hilarious. It's the playbook on ensuring that men, who is the Fisherman catch the right women, who is the fish, for them. The book is a keeper! and you can get it on Amazon.com and Barnesandnoble.com Read the book called The Fisherman and the Catch: Catching the Right Woman. The book is about men catching thier soulmate. The book talks about men getting thier "tackle box" together in order to catch the right fish for them. The book uses fishing analogies relating to tools men need for that catch, while describing women with the same similarities as fish. As an example the book talks about Panfish, Trout, Catfish and Bass using the behaviors of those fish and relating them to types of women. The book is so true and very hilarious. It's the playbook on ensuring that men, who is the Fisherman catch the right women, who is the fish, for them. The book is a keeper! and you can get it on Amazon.com and Barnesandnoble.com

]]> By: Slim Jacksonhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2010/01/12/black-male-bloggers-ftw/#comment-49960 Slim Jackson Wed, 13 Jan 2010 08:16:46 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=3023#comment-49960 Appreciate the in-depth comment! Appreciate the in-depth comment!

]]> By: YBhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2010/01/12/black-male-bloggers-ftw/#comment-49959 YB Wed, 13 Jan 2010 08:07:17 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=3023#comment-49959 That is the "Usher effect" That is the "Usher effect"

]]> By: Peter Parkerhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2010/01/12/black-male-bloggers-ftw/#comment-49939 Peter Parker Wed, 13 Jan 2010 00:54:15 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=3023#comment-49939 "But the true answers to the problems in all of our lives will TYPICALLY NOT be found on blogs written by people like me." Great Point, (not trying to take sublimiinal shots) but a lot of times, women do seek to find advice from every single avenue that they can...and while a lot of times, advice may be relevant, the greatest teacher is Life itself, not necessarily going with the flow, per se, but using common sense, and the Golden Rule "But the true answers to the problems in all of our lives will TYPICALLY NOT be found on blogs written by people like me."

Great Point, (not trying to take sublimiinal shots) but a lot of times, women do seek to find advice from every single avenue that they can…and while a lot of times, advice may be relevant, the greatest teacher is Life itself, not necessarily going with the flow, per se, but using common sense, and the Golden Rule

]]> By: Bklyngalhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2010/01/12/black-male-bloggers-ftw/#comment-49936 Bklyngal Wed, 13 Jan 2010 00:13:36 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=3023#comment-49936 Slim, In my case I'm recently getting back in the dating game after 5 years single and find myself at the age of 30 repeating mistakes I made when I was 22. I'm a kind, witty, ambitious, and sincere person. I put up a wall for years after having a little girl with a "boy" that treated me like crap. It's taken some time but I'm allowing myself to be vulnerable and open to the possibility of true Love. With that said, I was seeing a man who I thought had qualities worthy of my time however in the end I turned into that psycho chick that all men & women detest! Well, I came across your site and found it entertaining, enlightening, and to a certain extent empowering. It's allowed me a male perspective and not having too many male friends, it's much needed because having a young girl I want to lead by example and teach her that a man should enhance her life not be her life. I caught myself slipping but I'm aware of my behaviors partially because of your site. I realize that the only person able to create positive change is oneself. I'm optimistic about finding that special man and will certainly check myself and not allow any man to get the best of me. Props to you and your team for a fresh perspective on men, sex, and relationships. Slim, In my case I'm recently getting back in the dating game after 5 years single and find myself at the age of 30 repeating mistakes I made when I was 22. I'm a kind, witty, ambitious, and sincere person. I put up a wall for years after having a little girl with a "boy" that treated me like crap. It's taken some time but I'm allowing myself to be vulnerable and open to the possibility of true Love. With that said, I was seeing a man who I thought had qualities worthy of my time however in the end I turned into that psycho chick that all men & women detest! Well, I came across your site and found it entertaining, enlightening, and to a certain extent empowering. It's allowed me a male perspective and not having too many male friends, it's much needed because having a young girl I want to lead by example and teach her that a man should enhance her life not be her life. I caught myself slipping but I'm aware of my behaviors partially because of your site. I realize that the only person able to create positive change is oneself. I'm optimistic about finding that special man and will certainly check myself and not allow any man to get the best of me. Props to you and your team for a fresh perspective on men, sex, and relationships.

]]> By: Slim Jacksonhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2010/01/12/black-male-bloggers-ftw/#comment-49923 Slim Jackson Tue, 12 Jan 2010 18:19:09 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=3023#comment-49923 I think the generalizations you've made have a lot of truth in them. You certainly made some points I hadn't thought off. I learned a good amount today from all the responses. I think the generalizations you've made have a lot of truth in them. You certainly made some points I hadn't thought off. I learned a good amount today from all the responses.

]]> By: Melanie Richardsonhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2010/01/12/black-male-bloggers-ftw/#comment-49920 Melanie Richardson Tue, 12 Jan 2010 18:12:53 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=3023#comment-49920 I've notice this phenomenon if want to call it that, as well. It's been my assumption for the most part men aren't interested in expanding their relationship understanding. Until the man decides to "seek a wife", he pretty much goes with the flow. So, you don't have a bunch of men trying to figure out the inner workings of a woman's mind when it comes to dating, hence no big push from the men to support the female relationship blogging population. Well, unless of course she is pumping hard-core sex topics or has plenty of T&A pics up to bring in the traffic. Women in contrast can easily put their feet in another woman's shoes, so reading relationship blogs from a woman's perspective isn't all that exciting, especially if there are no men commenting. No matter how informational or introspective the blog, the dialogue is flat and one-dimensional. I made some broad generalizations here, but just my thoughts on the subject. I've notice this phenomenon if want to call it that, as well. It's been my assumption for the most part men aren't interested in expanding their relationship understanding. Until the man decides to "seek a wife", he pretty much goes with the flow. So, you don't have a bunch of men trying to figure out the inner workings of a woman's mind when it comes to dating, hence no big push from the men to support the female relationship blogging population. Well, unless of course she is pumping hard-core sex topics or has plenty of T&A pics up to bring in the traffic. Women in contrast can easily put their feet in another woman's shoes, so reading relationship blogs from a woman's perspective isn't all that exciting, especially if there are no men commenting. No matter how informational or introspective the blog, the dialogue is flat and one-dimensional. I made some broad generalizations here, but just my thoughts on the subject.

]]> By: Streetztalkhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2010/01/12/black-male-bloggers-ftw/#comment-49917 Streetztalk Tue, 12 Jan 2010 17:16:57 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=3023#comment-49917 -_- lol -_- lol

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