It’s been awhile since I’ve gotten an email that I felt needed a public response, but that time has finally come again. For those of you unfamiliar with the process, sometimes when I get an personal question I feel the need to share this person’s inquiry with the world as it may help someone else.  [...]

*** Admin Note *** Remember to tell your peoples n’ them that we ain’t blocked at their job anymore.  SingleBlackMale.ORG -SBM ************** The past few weeks have been pretty rough on the ladies… we know. A lot of the blogs that I we write here at SBM sometimes defend men, bash women, or are rants [...]

I’ve been watching the news the past few weeks, and it seems like there’s a mistress revolution occurring in 2010. We have entire Eldrick Woods scandal (I refuse to call him Tiger. His mama named him Eldrick, Imma name him Eldrick!). We have women posting billboards of their lovers all over NYC so that the [...]

*** Shout-Out *** I have to take a second to note something new BET is trying to do with their show The Deal.  Trying to step it up, The Deal offers a one stop shop for all your hip-hop needs. – SBM ***************** **The following takes place on G-Chat during a random lazy Sunday afternoon** [...]

*** Admin Note *** I want to welcome you all to SingleBlackMale.org.  Because people kept complaining about not being able to access us from their jobs where we were unfairly blocked, I have moved the site to a new domain.  Try and curtail your profanity in the comments … and we should be good. Also [...]

The title of today’s post is the bullsh*t line most people hear during a break up in between the other bullsh*t lines of  “It’s not you, it’s me” and “I’d rather have you as a friend than not in my life at all.”  (I just threw up in my mouth a little bit.)   Unless one [...]

For about four months of my life I’ve been planning to attend the Urban Model Awards in Atlanta, GA. I have a friend down in Atlanta who continues to tell me that my excitement over attending this event is just a sign of the ignorance of my youth. Child please. I have been conditioned from [...]

What’s good everyone, So far during my Spider-Man series, we’ve touched on Great power and Great responsibility, and the Wingman salute in the Sinister Six. Today, I wanted to touch on that certain sixth sense that we all possess that warns us and makes us aware of situations. I present to you, the Spider Sense: [...]

Insecurity or any variation of the word is regularly thrown around in the blog world. It’s a word that dominates the sex and/or relationship blog niche and pretty much becomes the default excuse for why someone else’s argument doesn’t make sense or is unfair. For example, men don’t want women with high sex numbers because [...]

Although a lot of women don’t agree with me, seduction is a 2 way street. Yes … courtship (now) goes both ways. Just as he is wining and dining you, watching Desperate Housewives with you, and putting up with your cackling and annoying female friends … any woman looking to earn the coveted “wifey” title [...]