Comments on: Bi-curiosity: Girls Just Want To Have Fun http://www.singleblackmale.org/2010/03/04/bi-curiosity-girls-just-want-to-have-fun/ The Source For Black Male Perspective Fri, 10 Feb 2012 05:55:41 +0000 hourly 1 By: nesihttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2010/03/04/bi-curiosity-girls-just-want-to-have-fun/#comment-327504 nesi Mon, 12 Sep 2011 04:51:29 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=3434#comment-327504 I'm not into turning anyone out just because when two women have sex there is an emotional connection that can escalate without being able to control it and can leave you in a sticky situation. For example I ended up in a 2 year relationship with a straight women who says I'm her kryptonite. She is extremely attracted to me and I have made her experience things that allows me to forever have a piece of her. My heart ended up broken however because we lived a lifestyle that she could not handle and never wanted. I just got out of a 3 year relationship with someone who claims to be a lesbian but men are our biggest problem so you never know in a same-sex relationship. I'm not into turning anyone out just because when two women have sex there is an emotional connection that can escalate without being able to control it and can leave you in a sticky situation. For example I ended up in a 2 year relationship with a straight women who says I'm her kryptonite. She is extremely attracted to me and I have made her experience things that allows me to forever have a piece of her. My heart ended up broken however because we lived a lifestyle that she could not handle and never wanted. I just got out of a 3 year relationship with someone who claims to be a lesbian but men are our biggest problem so you never know in a same-sex relationship.

]]> By: nesihttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2010/03/04/bi-curiosity-girls-just-want-to-have-fun/#comment-327503 nesi Mon, 12 Sep 2011 04:50:37 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=3434#comment-327503 I am bisexual. I did not realise it until college. While in high school I was hit on by females but they were butches and studs so I thought that I was straight and a little homophobic. Once I got to college I realised that there are also femmes which is who turns me on. Its something about a sexy women that likes women that turns me on. I like men however they are more of my eye candy. There has yet to be any emotional connection while having sex with them so I don't really care for it. The idea of it is what actually turns me on(I know its confusing I don't get it either). I am bisexual. I did not realise it until college. While in high school I was hit on by females but they were butches and studs so I thought that I was straight and a little homophobic. Once I got to college I realised that there are also femmes which is who turns me on. Its something about a sexy women that likes women that turns me on. I like men however they are more of my eye candy. There has yet to be any emotional connection while having sex with them so I don't really care for it. The idea of it is what actually turns me on(I know its confusing I don't get it either).

]]> By: Daves girlhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2010/03/04/bi-curiosity-girls-just-want-to-have-fun/#comment-318914 Daves girl Sat, 16 Jul 2011 01:50:36 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=3434#comment-318914 I live in syracuse ny..i have a great man and love him and know he loves me with all his heart..we are both getting bored with sex..we have known each other for 10 years..he is my ying..i am his yang..we both want a women in the bedroom..i think me more so..i am a red head..lol...we have looked into couples..never went anywhere..i just dont want another man..i have tried to think of it..but it dries me up..i really just want him..i would love to watch him with another female..anyway I have been looking for 2 years where can I find her? I just want her to look good and not fat,i work hard to look good and so does he..anyway can anyone tell me where to find a decent looking female in syracuse ny that just wants to have fun,no strings I live in syracuse ny..i have a great man and love him and know he loves me with all his heart..we are both getting bored with sex..we have known each other for 10 years..he is my ying..i am his yang..we both want a women in the bedroom..i think me more so..i am a red head..lol…we have looked into couples..never went anywhere..i just dont want another man..i have tried to think of it..but it dries me up..i really just want him..i would love to watch him with another female..anyway I have been looking for 2 years where can I find her? I just want her to look good and not fat,i work hard to look good and so does he..anyway can anyone tell me where to find a decent looking female in syracuse ny that just wants to have fun,no strings

]]> By: Brandy_rodzhttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2010/03/04/bi-curiosity-girls-just-want-to-have-fun/#comment-145308 Brandy_rodz Sun, 14 Nov 2010 15:55:49 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=3434#comment-145308 Im 13 i feel in love with my best friend shes so hot i love it when her arms are on my body and when her lips are on mine any way how old is that girl in the pictuer shes hot i would love to you kno with her i hope shes bi it would be soo,f*ckin hot if she put her hands on me how can meet her she is f*ckin HOT i bit shes a goog kisser and jas r ready had s*x im so trund on right now i may just be13 but baby meet me kiss me and you well be hooked just like i am till we meet love you baby;p Im 13 i feel in love with my best friend shes so hot i love it when her arms are on my body and when her lips are on mine any way how old is that girl in the pictuer shes hot i would love to you kno with her i hope shes bi it would be soo,f*ckin hot if she put her hands on me how can meet her she is f*ckin HOT i bit shes a goog kisser and jas r ready had s*x im so trund on right now i may just be13 but baby meet me kiss me and you well be hooked just like i am till we meet love you baby;p

]]> By: AnonyMisshttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2010/03/04/bi-curiosity-girls-just-want-to-have-fun/#comment-60926 AnonyMiss Sat, 17 Apr 2010 01:47:15 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=3434#comment-60926 Personally I am not attracted to studs at all. I like my men to look like men and my women to look like women. Not to say I will never be attracted to a stud but it hasn't happened yet. The way I see it, if you're gonna get with a stud you might as well just be with a dude. Sorry if that sounds ignant but like they wear fake d's and try and be all manly and ish.. basically tryna be a man and if i wanted a man im gonna be with a real man not a woman trying to be a man. that came out wrong but basically i love men for their aggresiveness but when im with a woman i really appreciate her femininity, her sensitivity, all things that make her a woman. Personally I am not attracted to studs at all. I like my men to look like men and my women to look like women. Not to say I will never be attracted to a stud but it hasn't happened yet. The way I see it, if you're gonna get with a stud you might as well just be with a dude. Sorry if that sounds ignant but like they wear fake d's and try and be all manly and ish.. basically tryna be a man and if i wanted a man im gonna be with a real man not a woman trying to be a man. that came out wrong but basically i love men for their aggresiveness but when im with a woman i really appreciate her femininity, her sensitivity, all things that make her a woman.

]]> By: AnonyMisshttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2010/03/04/bi-curiosity-girls-just-want-to-have-fun/#comment-60924 AnonyMiss Sat, 17 Apr 2010 01:37:44 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=3434#comment-60924 I'm mad late replying to this but I will anyways... hate me...lol. Anyways, I hate the whole "bicurious" labeling. It's so fckin annoying for people like me that are actually bisexual and not the least bit promiscuous. I'm probably the last person most people would think is bisexual just because people expect us to be whores. I am somewhat of a hippie and I do consider myself to be very sexual but not at all "fast". I don't think you can "turn someone out". Saying it like that makes it seem like you can make someone be gay or straight. You just are what you are. I will admit there are women who just like to kiss other women and don't really have any legitimate sexual/emotional desire to actually get with a woman for real for real but any woman that will go as far as to have sex with another woman on multiple occasions is not straight (rape/forced sex excluded). I actually think most women are secretely into other women and maybe the shortage of men is making more woman open to the idea of "coming out"... I'm mad late replying to this but I will anyways… hate me…lol. Anyways, I hate the whole "bicurious" labeling. It's so fckin annoying for people like me that are actually bisexual and not the least bit promiscuous. I'm probably the last person most people would think is bisexual just because people expect us to be whores. I am somewhat of a hippie and I do consider myself to be very sexual but not at all "fast".

I don't think you can "turn someone out". Saying it like that makes it seem like you can make someone be gay or straight. You just are what you are. I will admit there are women who just like to kiss other women and don't really have any legitimate sexual/emotional desire to actually get with a woman for real for real but any woman that will go as far as to have sex with another woman on multiple occasions is not straight (rape/forced sex excluded).

I actually think most women are secretely into other women and maybe the shortage of men is making more woman open to the idea of "coming out"…

]]> By: juniebughttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2010/03/04/bi-curiosity-girls-just-want-to-have-fun/#comment-55658 juniebug Tue, 09 Mar 2010 12:16:18 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=3434#comment-55658 HOW THE HELL DID I MISS THIS ONE??? lol....dammit! HOW THE HELL DID I MISS THIS ONE??? lol….dammit!

]]> By: Andressahttp://www.singleblackmale.org/2010/03/04/bi-curiosity-girls-just-want-to-have-fun/#comment-55235 Andressa Fri, 05 Mar 2010 11:17:06 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.org/?p=3434#comment-55235 Dr.J: I can't say that I have satisfied that curiosity but it really is only a matter of time before it will happen...the female in question I am sure is bi-curious herself and made a pass at me IN FRONT OF HER MAN at the club who by the way was all for it. I don't think a guy should be jealous or thinking i'm going to be dipping out on him for a girl. I love dick, and I love men and wouldn't do anything to jeopardize a relationship if I WAS in one...but i'm single so this is my time to flounder a bit and experiment. That's how I see it. Oh and as for the sleepovers lol, believe it or not but I can't dig anyone but 'my' man sleeping that close to me (need my personal space!) so in my particular case that isht would not even fly. lol Dr.J:

I can't say that I have satisfied that curiosity but it really is only a matter of time before it will happen…the female in question I am sure is bi-curious herself and made a pass at me IN FRONT OF HER MAN at the club who by the way was all for it. I don't think a guy should be jealous or thinking i'm going to be dipping out on him for a girl. I love dick, and I love men and wouldn't do anything to jeopardize a relationship if I WAS in one…but i'm single so this is my time to flounder a bit and experiment. That's how I see it.

Oh and as for the sleepovers lol, believe it or not but I can't dig anyone but 'my' man sleeping that close to me (need my personal space!) so in my particular case that isht would not even fly. lol

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