The Source For Black Male Perspective
As I was reading through the comments of the good Dr.’s post yesterday, there was a general sentiment expressed by the ladies that maybe men should be more forth right in their dealings instead of running intricate schemes in order to “win”. Which is fine. In the same breath, it was also revealed that women [...]
“And promoters trying to get me out to they club, And say I have fun but I can’t imagine how, Cause I just see my ex-girl, Standing with my next girl, Standing with the girl that I’m f*ckin right now, And sh*t could get weird unless they all down, And so I stay clear, [...]
When dealing with the opposite sex, I’m far from high maintenance. I look for certain things and ultimately look to coexist, have a good time, and avoid drama at all costs. I got interviewed by Essence , and they asked me about 10 questions including “What’s the Dealbreaker in a relationship for you?” They didn’t [...]
I was having a conversation with a friend about what qualities my “ideal mate” would have. At first I was like “I don’t ask for much.” Then I noticed my list began to grow. As I continued to mention qualities that were important, she asked about a couple of things like education and ambition—both of [...]
Fine Female Acquaintance: You know its just so hard to find a good man. SBM: *heavy sigh* Why do you say that? FA: It’s just hard to find a guy who just isn’t intimidated by me. SBM: You out here hitting reggins (backwards) in the throat? FA: *blank stare* No … SBM: You out here [...]
**** Admin Note **** In order to try out different styles and try and put some people on … we have yet another hot and fresh guest post. Check him out … email me your thoughts or hit me on twitter. -SBM ************* Yohance Brown: I’m feeling you and I think we should make this [...]
Kanye said it best when he lamented, “We go through too much bullsh*t just to mess with these drunk and hot girls.” It’s quite true, how else do you explain shoving a bottle of Patron down the throat of some 5’2”, 115lb, shorty with a fatty? You gave her all that tequila and didn’t expect [...]
So I was walking around New York City, and I came to a realization: A lot of people are out of shape! I’m not talking about a pound here and there, our people are FAT! I was plump a big bonededed kid as a child, and while I was comfy in my skin, I always [...]
**I felt this way in January of 2009. My thoughts are still very similar, but the readership here is a lot different now. Enjoy. -Slim** As I revisit 2008 and consider my approaching birthday a couple months from now (Pisces), I’ve realized I’ve come a long way over the X # years I’ve been on [...]
***admin note**** Today’s post is by a long time friend of the Blog and well known-author … Sheila M Goss Enjoy! -SBM **************** Before committing to a relationship, please accept the person the way that they are, not the way that you want them to be. So many people go into a relationship thinking they [...]
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