Happy Memorial Day

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Today, on this federal holiday we celebrate two things that are very important to all of us: First: Those that have fallen protecting and serving this country.  Today we remember the sacrifice they gave for so many of the freedom’s we have today. Second: Black People Foolishness Between Black Bike Week, Black Beach Week, Cookouts [...]

Wrappin’ It Up

"Whaddya mean you're not in the mood now?"

I know her hair isn’t wrapped but I couldn’t resist… The following conversation takes place between 11:47pm and 11:49pm: M’Likshawnquan: You gonna take that thing off? Jane: Damn baby, you getting straight the point tonight, huh?  ::Starts taking shirt off:: M’Likshawnquan: Not the shirt…well actually keep taking the shirt off…I was talkin’ about that scarf.  [...]

Habitual Line-Steppers like Delonte West

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There should never be a rumor that someone slept with your mother on the street. And why would you want to have sex with your running buddy’s mother? This is not American Pie, it is not cool for Finch to sleep with your mom. Especially when she’s not that hot, at all. Have you ever [...]

Hello Summer, Goodbye Wifey Season

Whatchu want me to do, its SUMMER!

This weekend is the unofficial start of the summer. Memorial Day weekend in the U.S. means entire regional trips to South Beach, Vegas, VA Beach, or any other hot spot. Everyone who was “working on their summer body” well… times up! Some people may have to push back their “beach body debut” until the Summer Solstice, [...]

Applying the 80/20 Rule to Daily Life

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**** Admin Note **** Don’t forget the new SBM.org shirt store! Help us out and support the site.  Support us! http://singleblackmale.spreadshirt.com/ – SBM ***************** I was talking to one of my friends about daily life occurrences and he brought up the Pareto Principle, which is also known as the 80/20 rule. In it’s fundamental meaning, [...]

Great Relationship #Swindles

The official SBM.org #swindle shirt

**** Admin Note **** I want to take this post to officially announce the grand opening of the SBM.org shirt store!!! Come get your brand new shirt at dirt cheap prices.  And even if you don’t like it, get one for your friends to support the site.  Support us! http://singleblackmale.spreadshirt.com/ – SBM ***************** It has [...]

Keep your woman … Before I take her!

Ontario must have some huge Naughty By Nautre fans

***** Admin Note ***** Today we have another awe inspring guest post from Mr. Cashmere Jones. Enjoy … – SBM **************** I believe Naughty By Nature said it best with “ya down wit O-P-P?!!”. If you don’t get that reference, then you’re too young to be on this site….but if not, you know that despite [...]

He said, She said… Everybody Lying!

Word on the street is you only date light skin chicks.

“And so I stay clear, We from a small town, And everybody talks and everybody listen, And somehow the truth just always comes up missing.” – Aubrey Graham (I swear, I’ll stop quoting Drake now.) We’ve been talking a lot about the summer and what the summer brings us. As we get ready to show [...]

The Hobby Chick

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Today, I’m writing about a certain type of swindle that occurs between men and women. This swindle rears its head when men/women pursue an individual whom they want to beat those get to know better, but they are otherwise occupied or not interested. They seem to accept residence in the friendship zone, but this is [...]

I Guess I’m a Bit of a Hoarder…

But baby, these things have meaning! Come back!

As many of you know from 3 Ways or my sporadic tweets, I’m in the process of transitioning to NYC for a new gig. This past weekend was spent sorting through piles of paper, clothing, electronics, and general clutter in an effort to prep before the move next weekend.  During the damn near 5 years [...]