The Chris Brown(@Chrisbrown) theory on forgiveness

#CHRISBROWNTEARS

So many of us watched the BET Awards. I have to first tip my cap and say it’s probably the best one since the last one with  MJ and James Brown. Speaking of Brown, it was definitely the comeback show, as Chris Brown performed and the THE MJ tribute we all wanted to see. The [...]

Men Don’t Know How to Be Single? Bullsh*t!

Whatttt?

This past Friday was like any other Friday. I was sitting at my desk doing work and counting down the minutes until the weekend. The iPod Touch was going strong and I think I may have been singing some Stylistics track as if nobody else was in my section of the office. Unfortunately for me, [...]

N*gga Sh*t

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****Admin Note**** Go nominate us for a Black Weblog Award. And then go and cop you an official SingleBlackMale.org T-shirt at http://singleblackmale.spreadshirt.com.  You know you want one! So, I was on the phone with a friend, and after some uncontrollable background laughter … I suddenly found myself watching the BET Awards. ***disclaimer & note*** I [...]

Speak Now or Forever Hold Your Peace

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**The following conversation takes place between 3:45 and 3:49** Elliot: Honey, can you pass me a beer? Mercedes: Why don’t you get one of them b*tches to get you a beer… Elliot: Wha…what are you talkin’ about? Mercedes: Them b*tches that you had all up on you @ Joe’s BBQ gettin’ you beers…I saw all [...]

No One Man Should Have All That Power

The Most Powerful Man In The World

The Most Powerful Man In The World These days men are able to do some strange things to women.  I never thought growing up that the gender that grew the fastest and matured the fastest would one day be subjected to so many swindles.  But if you listen to women tell it, they’re much smarter [...]

Friend: A 4 letter word

Don't you DARE judge me!

Definitions of friend on the Web: a person you know well and regard with affection and trust; ally: an associate who provides assistance; acquaintance: a person with whom you are acquainted The word friend is a term that many of us use very loosely. It seems nowadays that ANYONE can attain that label with a simple “hello”. It [...]

Things I Suck At

I mean that in a clean and fun sorta way.

Every now and then I sit down and realize that I suck. I don’t mean that in the depressing “I’ll never be anything!” type of way. I just realized there are some things I’m not good at and will never be good at or I’m already too good at.  SBM wrote a post a while [...]

Getting Better With Practice

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**** Admin Note **** Don’t forget to cop your official SBM t-shirt and merchandise.  Head on over to http://singleblackmale.spreadshirt.com/ and cop you one. Then go and nominate us for a Black Weblog Awards (right side of the site). – SBM ***************** I own a motorcycle. Many of you might know this already, its is no [...]

Book Review: B*tch Is The New Black

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When I first heard that I would be getting an advanced copy of the book, Bitch Is The New Black, I hurried to read the original Washington Post article that author Helena Andrews posted.  When I had read before, I sat with my head tilted trying to ascertain exactly what she was trying to get [...]

I Love Who You Are, I Love Who You Ain’t

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…you’re so Anne Frank My whole life I’ve always been the type of guy who likes Plain Jane. In school everyone would like the “prettiest” girl in school. I was looking for the one who was cute on the low. That’s just how I am. I don’t like a lot of attention in a woman. [...]