The Source For Black Male Perspective
The title of today’s post is the bullsh*t line most people hear during a break up in between the other bullsh*t lines of “It’s not you, it’s me” and “I’d rather have you as a friend than not in my life at all.” (I just threw up in my mouth a little bit.) Unless one [...]
I always struggled with writing about Black women in a high light because I always felt like if I wrote a post called, “Why I Love Black Women,” I’d just be accused of jacking for beats. #RIPLumidee. I read a lot of commentary on Black women on the Internet everyday and I’ll admit the amount [...]
In less than 24 hours, I will touch on a milestone in my life. On this special birthday, like many others, I tend to reflect on my years on this Earth, where I’ve come from and where I’m going. The wins. The losses. The evolution of me. So much reflection in fact, that I [...]
Having an orgasm is cool, but sometimes there’s more to life than busting a fat one. Don’t get me wrong, I love to get my horizontal reggae wrestle on and thunderclap that a$$ on a fairly regular basis once I find someone that makes me wanna repeatedly tickle their fancy and push the juice dispenser [...]
Life is hard for the “Strong Black Woman”. You have videos like the Black Marriage Negotiations making some bold statements about their needs and desires, you have statistics telling them they will remain unwed and childless, and you got arrogant blogs of single black males taking pot shots everyone and their mom restating these facts [...]
We’re back at it again beautiful people! The good writers on this site wanted to answer more of your questions, so let’s see what we have this week. Today’s Ask the Staff Question is the following: When does a man know that the woman he is interested in is “girlfriend” material? In other words, when [...]
Ladies, what’s up? It’s me. So, the fellas have been talking about a touchy subject and everyone is acting shook to discuss it openly. You know I usually don’t get roasted so I can take chances with certain topics have an excellent rapport with you, and we communicate well with one another. Having said that, [...]
Last week, I talked about my recent attendance at a dating event in NYC. I’ve had some time to put together a few thoughts since then. By the way, anybody that knows me in real life knows that I’m very observant. It comes with the introvert territory. And as I’ve said in the past, introvert [...]
I remember back in college actually having to convince some of my female friends the club wasn’t a good place to meet their boyfriend. To me … I was shocked that I had to actually argue this point. I thought it was clear to everyone that the club was for finding one night stands, jumpoffs, [...]
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