Stop Frontin’. Women Are More Obsessed with S*x than Men

Damn girl. We used a 12 box in 1 night. Horny much?

**Announcements: I will be participating in a dating and s*x panel discussion this Thursday (12/2) titled “Protection Is the New Black.” The event will take place at the Dwyer Cultural Center in Harlem. Click here for all the details. If you’re around, hopefully you can make it. I’ll be on stage with some notable folks. [...]

How to use Relationship Blogs

"How do I get a man by tomorrow" ... Uh ... Escort Service?

I am not a doctor.  I am not a spiritual adviser. I am not a relationship expert. I am not your daddy. I hold no certifications in psychiatry, consulting, or relationship advice. What am I then? I am a man. I am someone who has participated in the dating “game” for many years.  I am [...]

Happy Thanksgiving!

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On behalf of the entire staff, we want to wish all our US readers (and anyone else who celebrates) a Happy Thanksgiving! Death to holiday mass text messages!! We won’t be posting anything until Monday, so feel free to use our “SBM On Demand service” where you can check our archive and re-read some of [...]

Mood Music: Different Songs For Different Occasions

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***Admin Note** Singleblackmale.org and threewaystotakeit.com are sponsoring an event for a great cause. JI Group’s V-Force has embarked on a mission to bring hope with a sprinkle of holiday cheer to families in need.The V-Force, a dedicated group of young professionals who are committed to giving back, will unwrap HOLIDAY DREAMS on Friday, December 3, [...]

Kissing. I Effin’ Love It.

What's the rush? Enjoy the moment.

One of the first things I look at when I meet a woman that I may be interested in is her lips. No, I’m not looking at them to see if they have the potential to provide high speed internet—especially since lip size and fullness don’t automatically mean that someone has a high IQ. I [...]

Dumb Questions Women Ask

WTF you mean you can see my love handles!!!!

As men … we are faced with difficult decisions every single day of our existence. Most of them aren’t life changing decisions … but we must carefully navigates this labyrinth of choices in order to successfully make it through the day. Some that come to mind … Are these pants clean enough to wear again? [...]

Being Cruel to be Kind

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It’s probably not a good idea as a relationship blogger to admit this, but there are a few things I just don’t get about men. Why they lie about the dumbest things, why they seem to love crazy girls, and why they always come slithering out of their holes after they’ve left you. But if [...]

Looking Through the Window and Not the Mirror

Developing a plan to find good girls...

I meet a lot of women, some of them is good girls and some of them females, we skeet a lot of them, some of them is jump offs, but I mean, we males. Spent my whole life being broke, but now I’m educated, making bread, now I spend my whole life, medicated, intoxicated, bad [...]

The SBM guide to talking good: Misused words/phrases that drive me crazy!

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***** ****ADMIN NOTE**** So today marks our 700th post! We’ve come a long way on this blog, with new writers and an expanded audience. We will continue to evolve and grow [||] to new heights with your support! Thanks for the love and here’s to 700 more!! – Streetz ******************* I never claim to be [...]

I Hate Talking on the Phone. Stop Reading Into It.

Grr! You're in the other room!

Imagine a 6’1 225 pound black man rolling around on the floor, yelling in agony, knocking things over, and looking as if his antics were heavily influenced by a black director that shall remain nameless. Imagine this same black man getting up off the floor only to fall back down and clutch his chest like [...]