Happy New Year From SBM.ORG

On behalf of the entire staff, I want to wish Everyone a Happy, and SAFE New Year. Prospero año y felicidad. Bonn Ane. All that! Salute to everyone looking for a fresh new start. Salute to those who want to keep the good vibes from 2010 going. We lost a lot of good people, and [...]

The Get Over It Series: The Wizard of Oz

****** Admin Note ****** As you can tell, I’ve changed the look and feel of the entire site.  There are a lot of reasons for the change, but its not over. As always, I want to hear from any and everybody with thoughts, gripes, and complaints.  My email box is always open at sbm@singleblackmale.net -SBM [...]

What makes men and women cry

So I find that in our macho ways, a lot of men dismiss the notion of crying. Some people see it as a sign of weakness. I’m here to tel you that both men and women cry for many different and valid reasons. I’m sitting on the west coast trying to phase into PST, and [...]

Bedroom Beef: Will You F**kin’ Touch Me?!

The following transpired between one of my boys and his boo. Hopefully his boo doesn’t read this website. If she does, my bad homie. You told me that I could write about it. Larry lays in bed next to his boo, Estefania, while she reads an urban magazine. He looks at the calendar in his [...]

Curse of the Good Black Man

**** Admin Note **** As this is a holiday week, and many of you aren’t even at work or taking the time to read this little note … we are taking it easy here at SBM.  The staff have been grinding extra hard all year long, and we deserve a little vacation.  For this week, [...]

Playing Your Position

*** Admin Note*** Merry Christmas to all! The SBM Staff wishes you long cuff stroke sessions, quality time with those you love, and a partride in a pear tree…n sh*t Now enjoy the musings of Max.Fab! *** Whenever I write about unconventional relationships like unboyfriends, open relationships, or casual hookups, the discussion always leads to [...]

Harder, Better, Faster, Stronger

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Everyone wants to talk about how to make sex better.  Four words, in this order, but don’t feel married to it.  Harder, better, faster, stronger.  Trust me, send the person you’re having sex with this article and see how they react.  Their face lights up, woooooooooooooo! Hit it a little harder next time, don’t be [...]

#NoCountryFor Cuffing Season!

Tis the season.... Kiss me boo!

Faithful SBM readers, lurkers, and guests alike. I’d like to welcome you to a new series I’m beginning on Wednesdays called the “#NoCountryFor” series. Simply put, there are certain celebrated ideologies and ways that people move that aren’t very kosher to me. So I’m dedicating a series to those topics. OK enough chatter. Let’s talk [...]

Stop It. I Am Not That Dude and Your Girl’s a Fool.

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I remember dating this girl a few years ago that clearly wasn’t my type. Let me be a little more honest. That chick was hood. It didn’t matter that she went to college or that she was a Delta. She was the type that probably used to carry razors in her mouth and beat up [...]

When is s*x really a surprise?

"Really, I just wanted to play crazy eights"

Jolinda Frank: “Wow. That was amazing. I mean … I … I … I am at a loss for words. I think I saw God.” Shawn B. Marks: “Yeah … I know.” JF: *ignores his arrogance because it is so well deserved* “I really wasn’t expecting that.” SM: “Well, I’ve been working on some new [...]