Getting a Woman vs. Keeping a Woman

"My Husband could get me ... but couldn't keep me!"

****Editors Note**** We changed up the comments section and added the infamous Disqus system. We have a poll in the upper right corner of the screen. Let us know what you think! Streetz aka I almost wrote my real name as the signature, lol… ***** If you are a man, and you want the picket [...]

I Love Chelsea Handler

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Let me preface this post by saying this will be more ignorant than Rza. For those of you who don’t listen to Kanye West or hip-hop, because I know most of you roll together, Rza makes that track when he says, “Champagne wishes and thirty white b*tches!”  One time me and my boy are hanging [...]

Men Cant Handle The Truth

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A couple of weeks ago, I wrote a post about women not being able to handle the truth about men. Well, I believe that turnabout is fair play, so men, it’s time you learned to handle the truth too! There are certain things about women that you need to know. Certain ideas that you may [...]

Sharon the Nosey and Perpetually Single Woman

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I walked into the Boston office like I did on any other icy morning in one of the rudest cities in the United States. I defrosted by the closet, went and placed my bag at my desk, then dragged myself to the kitchen to make a cup of sub-par coffee. You know, the kind where [...]

You Picky Bastard!

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Friend of SBM: It’s just so hard! SBM: That’s what she said. FOS: Come on. I’m serious. I don’t want to be alone all my life. I need a mate. SBM: Well … you are your own worst enemy. FOS: Why do you say that? You are always blaming me for my singleness. SBM: Because [...]

2011 New Years Resolutions for Ladies

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I’m sure most of you checked out the good doctor’s 2011 Brother’s New Year’s Resolutions. He gave the men some great things to keep in mind this year. But ladies, however much we don’t like to admit it, you know we have some work to do ourselves, so let’s not get left in the dust. [...]

A Man Only Has One Chance at True Love

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Watch this video: httpv://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W4bvRamMiY4&ob=av2el In the seventh grade, I thought I had found the woman I would spend the rest of my life with. We held hands at every possible moment.  We went out on dates to the movies, we went out to dinner, we even hung out over each others’ houses.  Our parents dropped [...]

Take it to the Streetz: Significant Others and Strip Clubs

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Whats goin on SBMers! Its 2011 and I had a new Years Resolution decided to incorporate a new series on SingleBlackMale.Org. I call this the “Take it to the Streetz” series, where I ask  your opinion on a question or situation posted to me. For our inaugural post, I decided to incorporate both SBM and [...]

Chivalry is Alive, But Accountability is Dying.

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I was on Twitter yesterday doing what I normally do when Paul Brunson, the Modern Day Matchmaker, posted a question about chivalry. He cited a Yahoo/Maxim survey which stated that 55% of the women that participated didn’t believe chivalry was important. He asked what people thought and you can imagine what it turned into from [...]

Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day!

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I wrote a post for today … but then I said “NO … we are going to honor the King!” So whether or not you are at work … let us remember the man who helped make large congregations of upwardly mobile black folks (like this site) possible. Also … to the writers here that [...]