6 Reasons I Got Out “The Game”

One thing I DON'T miss

You would think someone who created a site by the name of “Single Black Male” would love being single. Wrong! One of my best friends recently re-entered the world of singledom.  After a long 5 year hiatus, now he has stories of bad dates, crazy chics, and random beats.  I … now in the happy [...]

Single Black Mail: Chasing relationships after relations

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We’re back with the latest installment of Single Black Mail! Check out the email from our latest brave reader and my response! The Email I was introduced to a guy by a mutual friend who thought we’d be perfect for each other.  Meets all my checklists.  32, single, no kids, owns a house, works as [...]

Here’s Why I Wouldn’t Recommend a Black Man Date White Women

Lot of you woulda smashed, but later regretted it.

I don’t have to tell you much about why I would write a post on this topic.  I was surprised one day when I was dismissed from a conversation about dating white women by a group of Black women who said, “Shut up, we know you’re the type to date white women.” And … everyone [...]

Why Money Is More Important Than Sex

Okay, now talk about it.

Slim: What’s your approximate credit score? Amber: Not to be rude, but that’s none of your business. Slim: Damn, you got that much debt huh? Sallie Mae busting the windows out your car? Amber: I didn’t say all that. It’s just something personal. Everybody don’t need to know my personal info. Slim: Okay, well how [...]

Someone Else’s Girl: Adulterers, Cheaters and You

Website: http://www.WisdomIsMisery.com Twitter: @WisdomIsMisery R.I.P. Pimp C 1973 -2007 Let Me See It: “I’m a country ass n***a; I f**ked wit’ yo’ wife… If yo’ b***h come around, We put some d*ck in her life.” And that’s why I don’t trust country brothas. I could end this post there but lets delve further. I don’t know if [...]

The Two Lists Every Unhappily Single Person Should Make

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It should come as no surprise that I approach relationships with the same level of planning and forethought that I approach all the other areas of my life. Deciding we want to be in a romantic relationship, or deciding that we’ve found someone with whom we want to start a relationship are some of the [...]

Single Black Mail: I messed with my girl and her cousin!

Get your story straight homie!

  *************** ADMIN NOTE: I’m starting a new series on SBM for some of the mail questions that I’ve received. While I never tout myself as an expert, I’m always available to offer my opinion and help in any way. I’ve answered a few of these over the years and decided to liberate the questions/answers [...]

Why Black Men Prefer to Not Get Married

Stop asking stupid questions.

“This is sort of like when Tupac, came out with I Ain’t Mad At Ya.  It seemed like there were so many songs with that same beat.  Or maybe it’s like when every dancehall artist has to drop a track on the same beat. However, Wis had a great post last week on Black men [...]

8 Things Women Don’t Understand About Men

Metaphor. And this is not an Alpha bus.

We, the incredible duo of RightCoastLexSteele and Slim Jackson, are here today to help better the world. We are advocates of efficiency and promoters of peace. Over the last 20 something years, we have made a variety of observations and encountered a plethora of obstacles involving the opposite sex. We also know that our brethren [...]

7 Reasons Black Men Don’t Get Married

7. Priorities: Most men want to get their affairs in order before they get married: college, career advancement, etc. There are simply certain accomplishments men prefer to achieve before marriage. However, I honestly believe black (and minority) men are the worst offenders when it comes to using this as an excuse not to get married. [...]