The Source For Black Male Perspective
In all the realms of fantasy – from comic books to novels, cartoons to cinema, there are heroes and villains. Heroes are possessed of impeccable character – they save things, solve problems, get the girl and keep the girl happy. Villains on the other hand are the destroyers of worlds, they are hell-bent on [...]
You wear spanx because hiding your gut makes you look good … right? You put all that weave in your head (which I hate) because it makes you look good … right? You shave all the hair on your upper lip to look better … right? But it’s not just looking good … you also [...]
The Email My boyfriend and I are having issues with his inability to be faithful. When he left for work a couple of months ago, I started seeing someone on the side, a jump off if you will. To me there was never any real feeling involved between me and J.O since we didn’t really do much except [...]
F*ck Rihanna and her fire engine red hair! I’m so sick and tired of this broad I didn’t even expect to ever have to go here, but it has to be said. Something is seriously wrong with Rihanna and we all know it. What does it say about a person who goes along with Rihanna [...]
Monogamy isn’t natural for men. It’s in our instinct to want to conquer early — not to be confused with premature ejaculation which inevitably happens to many of us and leads to a penile pep talk — and often. It’s no surprise that so many men wish death upon me end up sliding off on [...]
Hey Folks, As mentioned last weekend, we’re highlighting some of the top comments from daily readers every week. We know that some of you only read via email or RSS, so this is a good way to let you know about the discussions we have on the site daily. For those that are active [...]
‘Tis the season of the grownest and sexiest event of them all, the Spring/Summer wedding. All the months of planning, arguing, overspending budgets, last minute changes and furious weight loss finally culminate on one day of beautiful, marital bliss. No matter how you feel about the institution of marriage itself, you can’t help but [...]
Dr. J wrote a post on here a while back called Why Are All the Pretty Girls Married? I agreed with most of his points but I also wanted to write a post discussing contrary ideas. This is also related to a write-up on my website, Why He Married the Regular Girl. Both remind me [...]
The Email Im a 21 year old college student in the South. I’m cute but I’m a virgin and I don’t know how to necessarily tell a guy about my virgin status. I haven’t been in many relationships, and I’m not saving my virginity for marriage just a real relationship no FWB bullshit. But I can’t convey that [...]
SBM Comments of the Week 4/25-4/29
This was one of the best overall weeks we’ve had on Single Black Male in some time. The discussions were on point no matter the topic and we saw a lot of new readers join in to share their perspectives. It was tough for us to pick top comments this week. Shout out to everybody [...]