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I have a confession to make, the readers really drive content on the site. As a writer at SingleBlackMale.org, I can tell you most people read a post one time, but they’ll read the comments many times over. And in our minds we’re able to classify our readers into several categories, so it’s no surprise [...]
Knowing how to go on an effective date is a bit of an art form. The first thing you have to understand when going on a date is that the whole point is for the two of you to get to know each other while having fun. Many folks have no idea how to extract [...]
Today, we are lucky enough to have another concerned reader with a real world problem looking for guidance and assistance. And as always, my opinion is good … but the real gold and the real advice is going to come from the comments. All of you, what you feel, what you think, and what you [...]
Over the past few weeks, the Internet has been bombarded with articles for so-called experts which hold African Americans in a negative light. First we had the unfathomable article from Psyche Today which claimed that African American women are less attractive than other races. Then we had the Slate article which coined the cringe worthy [...]
I was having lunch with a friend and she was telling me about a situation that was going on with one of her girlfriends: “Yeah, and so she’s due any day now. They had called her last Thursday and asked her to come in because she was having some complications, they were going to induce [...]
Her: I’m looking forward to having a family. I wanna have 3 kids. Not looking forward to the labor pains though.lol Me: Eh, I think my limit is 2. Since you’re about 5’9, athletic, and have good hair and I’m a strong 6’1 with slightly above average athleticism, I’d say they’d have a pretty good [...]
Joy: “I met someone else.” I read and re-read the words plastered across my mobile. We weren’t in the middle of a conversation. We hadn’t even talked in weeks, yet I wasn’t surprised by this message’s arrival. These were serious words. Not only because of their meaning but because of the “rules” we had [...]
Before we get to the post, don’t forget to vote for SBM in the finals of the Black Weblog Awards! Best Design, Best Post Series, Best Group Blog, Best Relationship Blog, and Blog of the Year! The last time I was here, I gave a young lady some advice on her toking boyfriend. In case [...]
Everyone remembers their time in school. This was the most significant time in our adolescent lives. We spent a majority of our time in elementary, junior high / primary school, and high school. I can remember the tests, the playgrounds, the fights, the teachers, and most importantly, the friends I made. School was a more [...]
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