Speak Now or Forever Hold Your Peace

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**The following conversation takes place between 3:45 and 3:49** Elliot: Honey, can you pass me a beer? Mercedes: Why don’t you get one of them b*tches to get you a beer… Elliot: Wha…what are you talkin’ about? Mercedes: Them b*tches that you had all up on you @ Joe’s BBQ gettin’ you beers…I saw all [...]

Do cheaters have the right to remain silent?

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Recently a married friend of mine admitted she cheated on her husband with an ex-boyfriend. The affair lasted about 6-months before she called it off. She didn’t think her husband would ever find out and she didn’t have any plans of ever telling him. However, she admitted that every time she looks at her husband now [...]

[Single Black Mail] To have love and lost…

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What’s good everyone, The award winning Single Black Mail series returns and returns in a  BIG way! Today we have a classic email for you, one that I think we can all relate to or have heard before. So big, that we will drop the letter, and let the SBMassive assist in the comments, including [...]

Not All Booty Is Made Equal

Shout out to your mirror and the extra work it has to put in as you self-diagnose yourself.

I had a post lined up for you guys until late last week a friend of mine asked me to look at a picture of a young lady in a bathing suit. I took a look at it and I said, “Yo, I told you that sunglasses is like pencil skirts to me. They deceive [...]

Is Being Self-Employed a Red Flag for Dating?

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If you consider yourself an entrepreneur, it should be evident beyond the face to face conversation. There should be a website, business card, or something tangible that lets people know that you’re serious about what it is that you’re doing. But even now, that’s not enough. For Colored Girls When a Double Rainbow Isn’t Enuf.  [...]

How do you know it’s Love?

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There are several questions that make life for men difficult.  A few questions that never have a good answer, yet can never be left unanswered.  They put us on the spot, make us sweat, and may cause stomach pains. – Where is this relationship going? – Did you sleep with her? – Do you love [...]

The Break Up: How Projecting Ruined a Relationship

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  Looking back on it, she was a great person. She was attractive, funny, smart, and she treated me as well as any woman has every treated me. All of this makes it really difficult to understand why I felt the need to break up with her after only 4 months of dating. But that’s [...]

The Hyphen Issue – Should She Change Her Last Name?

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Recently, I was perusing Twitter, and the usual antics were on display. My timeline is pretty diverse, so different conversations will occur and I will be entertained and intellectually stimulated. One conversation that I saw was posted by the homie @itsMarisaRoss. She posed the following question: Fellas, if you get married, and your wife doesn’t want [...]

Fairy Tales: Lies Your Mother Told

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So many girls are raised thinking that the world is perfect and they will grow up to be a princess. I know that when I have my daughter, I’ll probably tell her stories of Persia, Ancient Egypt and Sparta. I don’t really want my daughter to grow up to be a Princess; I want her [...]

Things You Should Know and People You Should Meet

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A lot of chicks ask me where the good men looking for good women are. Even as a member of the League of Extraordinary Negroes (Someone out there is salty about the use of the word “negro” while someone else is saying “Slim ain’t ish”), I can’t provide ALL the answers. But I can provide [...]