The Source For Black Male Perspective
We spend a lot of time talking about how, what, and who women should be doing, why men do the things they do to women, and how a man should act and behave in public…ultimately so that he can get a woman. But we spend very little time discussing men in relation to each other. [...]
The award winning Single Black Mail series returns. This week’s email: I recently ended a relationship with a pretty decent guy. In the months we dated, he has never flaked on a date; never late; introduced me to his core family and I attended most family functions. He was affectionate and always told me how [...]
I admire women’s resiliency in relationships. They are able to love hard and with all their heart, without much reserve or pause. When a dude rips that heart out of a woman’s chest, throws it on the floor, and Cat Daddy’s all over her emotions, she may be devastated, but she will love again. Yeah, [...]
Let me tell you something, you cannot bury words. Anybody who tries to bury a word is dumb as hell. So yes, in addition to thinking that a slickback perm is still okay in 2011, the Reverend Al Sharpton will have to go ‘head with any notion that we are going to bury the n-word [...]
I don’t often write about sex on the blog. For me, it’s the most personal way two people can communicate their feelings to one another and because it’s so personal, I don’t think it’s a topic that should be broached lightly. But as I reflect on my relationship history and how I got where [...]
If your a woman … you might be mad right now. Just reading the title might have upset you. You might have only come here to sound off in the comments … and you might not even read this. Instead of all that anger … breathe … calm down a little … and hear me [...]
Dear Women: We hope this letter finds you held securely by the arms of true Love. Love is a beautiful thing. Yet, we hope you realize how difficult it was for the man in your life to fall in Love with you and quite possibly, how difficult it is for him to be in Love [...]
What’s good family, As any of you that follow my personal blog or have me on BBM know, I was a part of Tom Venuto’s BFFM inner circle summer fitness contest. It’s basically a 14 week contest where those who show the most change win prizes. You have to use principle’s he established in his [...]
We are not here today to debate the guilt or the innocence of Troy Davis. Troy Davis will receive the death penalty on Wednesday, September 21st for the murder of a police officer in 1989. For information on the case and the recent denial of clemency, see this TIME article. It is one of many. Before we more [...]
My friend asked me this one time on gchat, “Why is it that Black people tweet so damn much?” I immediately answered him back with, “Because Twitter is the underground railroad of Corporate America.” We both shared a quick laugh and then we got back to doing what we do best, fly below the radar [...]
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